What s it like to work with someone you hate?

I can't feel like I have anything to love about him, anything at work or in life causes him to be in a bad mood, and I am his punching bag! When he left the office at noon, he said, you are a secretary, I sometimes have a bad temper, don't take it to heart! I didn't even lift my head!

Later, she asked to resign, but she didn't agree and transferred me, and then a secretary came, and I was scared away in less than a month. I worked as a secretary for him for almost 7 months, and I am the kind of person who does not take things to heart, and those who are tortured in the middle often doubt themselves, and it is more of a mental torture! After leaving him, the sky was really sunny and the grass was green.

In the face of hated people, bad emotions are easy to blind, causing their evaluation of others to deviate from the objective, only shortcomings in their eyes, no advantages at all, how to look at how unpleasant, how to look at how to hate, and then, a new wave of bad emotions is born, starting a dead cycle. So, the solution is to open God's perspective and learn to discover his strengths. Don't get along with yourself.

Let's try to see if I can get on good terms with him, if there's really no way. Hehe, then treat him as your "opponent" and work hard secretly, you must do better than him, and then you will have a sense of accomplishment. Haha, I use this method in the class, to put it bluntly, it is to find a competitor for myself to improve work efficiency and solve problems.

I feel very miserable when I go to work every day, and occasionally when he doesn't go to work, he feels that the whole world has become very beautiful, and the people I hate are not capable, they don't put their minds on business, and they emphasize the details every day that are not very useful, and according to my observations, they talk awkwardly with others at the wine table, and they have nothing to talk about.

I want to teach him how to be a person every minute, my job is a shift system, so every time I look at the schedule, the first thing is not to see how many days I work, but to see how many days the shift is with that wonderful, if not, I am glad that I can spend my working time happily this week.

Super upset, I don't want to go to work every day, what can we do about this kind of colleague? We don't have the power to change her, as a gentleman said, when we meet someone we hate, we don't argue with him, we have to encourage him, encourage him to be a positive person!

It's as if this week's life has lost its color, and there is nothing to love. Why do I feel this way? Is it my own problem, am I not tolerant enough, and if it's my problem, why should other colleagues have it?

Is it all our own problem? Is it her who is right and the world who is wrong?

Working with a person you hate, it must be a very irritable, very uncomfortable feeling, the only way is to do their own thing, don't disturb each other, it's best not to have any contact except for the necessary work, and it's best not to bring Sisi to work, but if the other party wants to bully you, then don't tolerate it.

In fact, we have to make it clear that the purpose of our part-time work is not to make friends, or to make money, so other things are secondary, as long as we do not violate a purpose of our part-time job, under normal circumstances, what kind of people we meet at work has nothing to do with you, because this is not something you can decide, unless you can be the boss, so the priorities cannot be reversed. You have to make money first and foremost, to associate with them, so these people don't really have much to do with you.

In fact, in the workplace, it is normal for us to cooperate with others, whether it is colleagues or customers, but it is also very common to work with people we don't like. Sometimes, for some reasons, we can't handle the relationship with these colleagues, then our thinking must maintain a moderate flexibility, find a balance between the best and the worst in interpersonal relationships, do not need to force, must like him, because this kind of thing is not pretended, we just need to maintain a normal colleague relationship.

When we go to work, we try to maintain a calm communication and coordination, don't say to do things with emotions, but talk about things. It's enough to explain some of the issues you need between you, after all, we are in the workplace and we face different things. In fact, it is also a great training for us to work with a company with someone I don't like very much, so we must pay attention to methods and strategies to flexibly deal with some problems encountered in life and ensure that our things are completed smoothly.

Of course, it's not comfortable to go to work with the person you hate the most, only to be busy, but for the sake of work, there is no need to bring private matters into the work, if the other party wants to bully you, you don't have to be polite many times! Nor does a leader let two people with a bad temper work together.

Bad feeling. It's a bad feeling because it's very painful and annoying to work with people you hate.

You will feel very unhappy, and you will be very aggrieved, and you will not want to talk, let alone continue to work.

Working with people you don't like is easy to have a lot of negative emotions for ordinary people.

Affect the relationship of cooperation and the quality of cooperation, work should be rational, do not mix a lot of emotions to face their own work! It's not for you to make friends with him! It's just colleagues doing things together!

For one thing together, no matter how deep the opinion is about him, when working together, you must treat it as a comrade-in-arms in the trenches, some colleagues may indeed not be able to trust, can not let you deliver their backs, it doesn't matter, be careful yourself, try not to have contradictions and conflicts with him! Personal cultivation and politeness are in place, so that he can't hate you if he wants to, and he can't find your feet if he wants to wear small shoes for you.

When you are with a colleague you don't like, you feel that everything is not right, there is a lack of communication, and information is not shared, and it is easy to make mistakes. The second is unhappy and depressed, who doesn't want to work with their favorite colleagues, what can they do to take care of each other and help each other. There are also times when I doubt myself, my colleagues don't like how to behave in the world, and I wonder if there is something wrong with my cognition.

Many situations of colleagues in the workplace are not something they can choose, and only they can change. Do your job well, leave some time to learn more, and let yourself grow. You can be independent at work, and even if you don't like each other, your colleagues will maintain respect for you.

Taking a step back, it is true that the relationship between colleagues and leaders is insoluble, and if you have the ability, you can change to a better job.

At work, we must not like or hate interpersonal work with Liangmu colleagues, everyone is a group that strives for common interests for a company's work, and do not put personal feelings into the work of interpersonal relationships. You need to be a team player with your colleagues during working hours.

At the service of the work. It is possible to maintain personal opinions and preconceptions about people in life.

But when it comes to work, you shouldn't confuse your own narrow-minded views with your company's work. Such a bad mentality will affect the work and bring losses to the company.

Yes, it's very painful, because the other party is someone I don't like very much, and I feel very depressed to work with such a person.

It is a bad judgment, and it is easy to produce a lot of negative emotions, affecting the relationship and quality of cooperation, lack of communication and exchange of information, not sharing each other, and it is also easy to make mistakes, which will have a certain impact on their psychology and physiology, which will affect the mood of the day and make themselves not a good job.

Yes, because he will have a certain impact on your physiology and psychology, which will affect your mind for a day, make yourself unable to work well, and reduce your work efficiency.

In addition to the necessary work contact, you can not be close to him, what to do at ordinary times, just nod and greet him when you meet, do your own things seriously during working hours, and pay less attention to him. In this way, he will also treat you with the same attitude, keep an appropriate distance, and it will not be so difficult for everyone to get along.

Change yourself and change each other. There are times when we will endure a lot of injustices in order to live, and we need to adjust our state in time because we are not able to leave in style and achieve financial freedom.

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is destined to bear a lot of grievances and sadness. If you don't want to be stupid and go to this job to make yourself stronger, if you can, it is recommended to guide the other party to change, so that everyone can reach a consensus on a certain aspect. The workplace is just like this, full of confusion, grievances, tears, frustrations and joys.

People who can adapt to the workplace and improve themselves are the winners in the workplace.

There is an intersection. If you are angry with him, it will still hurt you, and he doesn't know anything, so don't be too relieved, just live how you should live, just pay a little attention to the distance from him.

You treat him as an audience, and then you play your role well enough. When you're appreciated everywhere at work, you see that he's not so annoying.

Learning to get along with people you hate, and learning to get along with people who hate you, that's maturity. This is also the life of a poor and ugly person. Otherwise, go home and close the door, the world is perfect.

There are them everywhere. If your conditions are good enough, of course you can change, and if so, then accept his existence.

You have to know that whether you are going to school, going to work, or being your own boss, there will always be one or two people who you really hate, so what you have to do is not to make any decisions because of this person, but to think about the impact of this person on your experience, that is, your job. In short, don't get along with yourself, you don't have to go, but you have to think clearly when you decide to go. Don't be close to the enemy, and the enemy is fast.

In the workplace, Bu Huai will inevitably have unsatisfactory people or things, you should learn to ignore and avoid, you can also try to tolerate the other party, try not to let his existence affect your mood and work, if you change and adjust your mentality, let yourself become a stronger friend, in order to better adapt to the workplace life.

At this time, you must adjust your mentality, do your job well, there is no need to have too much contact with the people you hate, as long as you have some contacts at work.

Don't deal with the person you hate, don't have contact with him outside of work, and do your job well.

Life is on the right track, and it's a beautiful day, which is what I say to myself every day [laughs] [laughs], and it's also the most beautiful moment of the day, after breakfast, rushing to the school building.

Alas, pity me for studying hard all my life [Han Xiao] [Han Xiao], and it is still fruitless, I can always sleep comfortably in the class I don't like, and I can't sleep between classes, I don't understand what the truth is, but in the class I like, the pupils of my eyes will not play soy sauce, and waking up from a dream is lunch time, hey, the cafeteria walks.

The weather is so bright, it's time for the task again, and with the advent of homework, my heart is also sunny, and I have a bright smile on my face, but fate makes people! Divided into a group, you can also be assigned to be with what you hate, and she is still your team leader, is it that I have done too much evil!

The work began, my task ppt, three under five divided by two, everything is ready, hey, the nasty ghost is here again, find faults, find faults, when everyone says it's okay, and then find faults, the results are varied, and let me change back, many people may think that people are pursuing perfection and want to do better, the first time I also think so, but when you experience a lot, you may not think so, every time you will talk a lot, in the end it is basically useless, and it is not aimed at her, Because this is the truth, I want to escape again and again, but I can meet her every time, this is "sometimes in life must be there, life is not always forced", when I can't help it, I beat myself to endure, after all, the gods have to go through calamities, how can mortals not have it? [I want to be quiet] [I want to be quiet].

Everyone doesn't like to experience unsatisfactory things in life, and these things that don't like are the way to hone themselves and let themselves gain more experience, people's lives are so short, I like to meet my luck, I don't like to meet, I also accept, I am not like fate bowed, but another way to make life more exciting.

There are countless people in life, there are always people who teach you a lot of things, whether it is a guest or a guest, you have to believe that God will not arrange for you to meet for no reason.

There are a lot of people you don't like in this world, can't they all appear at the same time as you? Once, when I was reading and painting in the yard of my house, two sisters passed by in the alley at the gate of my house, and when they saw me, they said, "How can he know how to draw every day?" It's annoying! ”

I didn't provoke these two sisters, and I was sitting in my house, and they both passed by the door, and I could get their dislike, what? Should I die?

No matter who you get along with, you must know how to empathize, and if you want to get it, you have to pay first. Think about the difficulties of others first, and be kind to others when you get along with others. It's enough to be sincere if you don't have friends, it's enough to have you.

Life is like a seat, there are sour and sweet, and you are a simple person. Grasp the proportion, and be at ease with what happens.

In life, being a person and doing things in the world, seeing through is a kind of understanding, and looking down is a kind of wealth. The tighter the grip of the hand, the more tired it is, and the more relaxed the heart, the more happy it is. Learn to let go, and life will be more exciting.

People are just a twist of soil, life is not an instant, life is always the most bitter and difficult, blooming beautiful. We should be grateful for a lifetime, those who share blessings and woes, those who share weal and benement, and those who never abandon those who send charcoal in the snow.

No matter how hard and tired you are, you must have a positive mentality, and no matter how poor and rich you are, your character must be correct, which can also be the highest state of life.

You hate people, what do you care about?

Who doesn't have one or two people and things in their life that they want to exclude? You can dislike people, but there's no reason to disrespect them! I believe that the person you hate has no destructive power in the slightest except to affect your mood, improve your work ability and how much you get paid, right?

Can you guarantee that another job will be full of people you can accept?

Whatever you do, don't let your temper outweigh your abilities! A person's greatest success is not to do whatever he wants, but not to do what he wants! If you want to be willful, you can, but you must let yourself have the capital to be willful!

This problem is to correct one's own ideological concepts, and generally just ignore the people who are annoyed by oneself, because it is a unit, and this is also a fact that cannot be corrected. Only by changing your mentality, sometimes you are also corresponding to a person who is psychologically annoying, and sometimes the other party is also annoying you. So generally not if it's not a matter of principle, don't have an annoying mentality, if you look at this person often, you might have a good impression of it.

Sometimes this psychology is the first impression and also the psychological factor. If you are allowed to associate with this person often, you may become friends at that time, so as long as you overcome your own psychological factors, there will be a balance of mind, and this kind of thing will not happen. This situation is also widespread, but there is no substantive problem, that is, the psychological effect, and if the psychological effect is changed, there will be a situation of harmonious coexistence.

Both are the same, each other.