How can I get closer to girls?

I don't think anyone wants to stay with the same sex every day, from getting up in the morning to going to bed at night, 24 hours a day with the same group of people, no contact with other people, boys can be said to be unwilling to stay with a group of big men every day, so annoying; Girls can be said to be reluctant to stay with a group of squeamish little princesses.

So for boys, how to get closer to girls, this needs to pay attention to methods, not just casually, so that there will be no second time with the first time.

First of all, with girls, you must have enough chat ability, how to chat with girls, can't say what the other party doesn't want to hear, and don't talk to girls about big truths, the last thing girls want to listen to is big truths, because they understand it themselves, and they don't need others to say it, this belongs to a minefield. Don't talk about topics that the other person is not interested in, so that she will find you boring, boring, and no fun with you, and refuse next time.

At the beginning, most girls like humorous and interesting people, and the way of speaking must be funny, and they must be able to successfully tease each other, so that she will want to listen to you more and more, and until the end, you will say not to listen from beginning to end.

The next few times we meet, you can talk about your previous stories, whether they are sad or funny, you can tell each other, so that the girl will feel that you have her as someone to talk to, and there will be a little happiness in her heart.

When I talk about my relationship history, I will definitely be involuntarily depressed, girls will see your expression, they will say what's the big deal, there are so many girls in this world, you are so good that you will definitely meet better, and then girls are willing to tell you their stories, when this happens, the relationship between the two of you is already very close, and it will get closer and closer.

We also have to be the first to rush to the girl when she needs help, so that she will be more dependent on you, because she will be you every day in her life, except for eating, sleeping, and going to class.

I silently excluded other boys in my heart, as long as I mentioned you, I couldn't help but be happy, and I was in a good mood every day.

So if you want to get closer to a girl, you must treat each other with your heart, you must not be careless, or even walk on the road without saying a word, and your expression is reluctant at all, then you will be destined to be unclose to the girl.

Treat people with sincerity and show your best side to each other.

There is only one word: handsome!

Of course, this is just a joke, but to be honest, girls don't like those sloppy boys, so "handsome" does not mean that you have to be handsome in appearance, but a manifestation of your external image. For example, you can't be unkempt and have messy hair, but you also have to dress appropriately and learn to take care of yourself. You don't have to look like a "heartthrob", but learn to dress yourself, so that girls will have the idea of wanting to be close to you, after all, the first impression is extremely important, and in the first impression, appearance is the key to the center.

So don't let girls "blacklist" you at first glance and let yourself be over before you even start.

After making a good impression at first glance, it is a deep understanding, so words, conversation, details, etc. are very important.

Speak well, joke should also be moderate, girls like humorous boys, but humor is not regardless of the occasion, nor is it sarcasm, ridicule and so on to make the beauty laugh, which will make girls feel very ungraceful. Real humor should be moderate and timely, and don't make girls feel frivolous, such as learning to be humorous like Wang Han.

In addition to humor, it's also important to learn to chat. People who can chat know when to joke and when to joke. To learn to chat, you have to pay attention to the details, know when to say what to say, know what to ask and what not to ask.

Learn to talk about some issues that girls are interested in, such as girls' hobbies, or observe yourself about things that girls are interested in.

The details are not only reflected in the chat, but also in the communication and contact, many subtle movements, etc., must learn to pay attention, such as when the girl wants to sit down when eating, you must learn to pull out the chair for the girl, or try to let the girl walk on the inside when walking, etc., these will add points for yourself.

Everyone's taste is different, some girls like quiet and gentlemanly boys, and some girls like more lively boys, so to understand the "taste" of girls, don't be too quiet and look wooden, don't be too lively, and learn to be measured. You must have your own personality, highlight your strengths, let girls understand your strengths, and be interested in you, so that you can get closer to girls, don't make girls feel annoying, if unfortunately make girls feel annoying, it is a very troublesome thing, so it is best not to step on the "minefield".

As long as you are sincere in making friends with girls or in love, showing your kindness and sincerity, learning to understand girls with your heart, treating them, and then adding what you have said, then you will get closer to girls, and I believe that you will always succeed.

First of all, you have to grow friends with this girl, learn more about some of her interests and hobbies, and then cultivate yourself with the same interests and hobbies as her, so as to increase the chance of getting closer to her.

If you want to get closer to a girl, you have to maintain a friendly relationship with him.

The first thing is to treat people with sincerity, and then to talk to girls about topics of interest.

Praise must be sincere, this is the first order of praise. Only praise worthy of the name and from the heart can show its brilliance and charm.