Daddy always flips through his daughter s things, is there a problem in my freshman year?

Updated on society 2024-06-05
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You really think too much about this, maybe as you grow older, Dad hasn't realized that there are things to avoid when girls are older, and he still treats you as a child, in his heart you are still young and ignorant, so he will help you pick out what is not suitable for you, so, don't dislike him, you can communicate with him more when you have time, talk about your thoughts, don't blindly guess, that is not good for anyone.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This kind of dad is a bit excessive, and he doesn't shy away from suspicion, there are still different men and women, you are also an adult, not a child, you have to see who you can find to talk about your father, he thinks that his children, it doesn't matter, this kind of thinking is wrong, on the other hand, it may be afraid that you will wear too revealing clothes, cause gossip, so afraid of people's jokes, you also have to talk to him, what to do.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Under normal circumstances, it is normal for parents to care about their daughters, this is usually pampered, parents are used to arranging for their children, is there anything to bring or not? What is needed? So let's not think about it.

    But there are still very few parents who have bad intentions, so you have to pay attention to resistance, or tell your mother that you can convince your father, in short, you have to be more vigilant.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Dad, is there something wrong with Lao Fan's own daughter's things? No, the father eats his daughter's things, afraid that his daughter will be deceived by others, and he is afraid that his daughter will fall in love too soon, so he is buried in his father's heart, deeply loving, afraid that his daughter will be a bad person.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The father rummaged through his daughter's things, not because he had a psychological problem, but because he was worried that his daughter would have a problem. It is a manifestation of a father's concern for his daughter. I'm afraid that my daughter will come into contact with ** or be deceived by unladylike people.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If it's normal to just try to rummage through your clothes, but you're in college and he still wants to sleep in the same bed with you, there's a problem. You should tell your mom and let her take care of him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Probably not, just concerned about his daughter. Let's see what my daughter brought home. That's overthinking.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your dad is worried too much, he is afraid that you are looking for friends outside, or there is something else, things in life, he wants to know, next time you tell him about it, you said that you are fighting now, don't flip through your things casually, this is not good.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Dad's actions must be worrying about what friends of the opposite sex you have made outside, they think more than us. You can just talk to your dad about how old and assertive we are.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I definitely want to sleep with you, rummage through your things and satisfy myself with your clothes.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When the child is older, adults should give the child his own space.

    Especially girls, fathers should not look through their children's things.

    You can talk to your dad directly. Tell Daddy, don't touch my stuff.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you have mental health problems, you can find a time to talk to your father, otherwise it will not be good for anyone in the long run.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My dad and I remember when we were very young, he drank too much and put his arm on my shoulder like a brother, and the rest of the time there was very little physical contact. Your dad looks like that, how can you say that I'm not normal. You have to be careful!!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There's something wrong with your dad's approach.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Tease dad and daughter. It's dancing and it's happiness. Blessing.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Has your dad been single for a long time?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It can't be said that there is a psychological problem! It can only be said that the quality is too low.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Worry about your daughter, but it's better to stop or it will make the family cause worse.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on how old your daughter is, not small, but big.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's okay to be only 5 years old, don't let your dad wear it when you're older, and you're talking about it, you do think too much.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can tell your dad directly in a coquettish tone when chatting after dinner, he is so casual because you are still a child in his mind, although you are 17, but to him there is no difference from a seven-year-old. Or give him a pair of shorts like basketball pants (the summer heat is understandable) and he will understand your heart, and you don't have to worry about saying it that he will be upset or embarrassed, on the contrary, he will be happy because his baby daughter has grown up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Why don't you help your daughter dress and don't teach your child to wear it themselves.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think it's good, this kind of thing happens too much now, and a five-year-old should have some self-care ability.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think it's okay occasionally, but it's very annoying to have it every week, and regardless of the time period, it's just the object of other people's drunkenness, and it's not really caring about others at all, and caring about others.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I love your dad very much, my dad is like this, he usually treats me silently, especially doesn't like to talk introverted, once he drinks a little wine, he really can't stop talking, and he makes up for all that he doesn't usually say.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is such a sentence that says that the daughter is the lover of the father's last life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It is said that the daughter is the father's relative in the previous life.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Why did you say a lot of things that shouldn't have been said?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    No matter what the reason, your father's approach is very inappropriate, not the way a competent father should treat his children, if he thinks you have done something wrong, he should tell you positively, teach you, instead of inexplicably giving you a look, if it is patriarchal, it is discrimination against you, an unfair treatment, when you encounter a problem, recognize it and see through it, is the first important, so that you can know which direction to solve is the right way, we can not avoid all problems, Because not every aspect of every problem can be controlled by us, we can only encounter problems, face problems, and solve problems! Just like we can't choose our own father, but you can recognize him and try to face the fact that you have such a father, parents are also human beings, and if you are a human being, you will make mistakes, imperfections in character, and even cause harm to your children invisibly due to wrong awareness! So you have to learn not to have too many expectations for such a father, and you can't expect him to have the same attitude towards you and towards your brother, no matter what his attitude is, whether he likes you or not, it doesn't mean that you are inferior to your brother, not to mention that you are not worthy of being liked by others, it's just that he is using the wrong way to treat you because he has the wrong software in his brain, you have to try to learn to tolerate him, but also try to learn to appreciate yourself, love yourself, and learn to treat yourself more gently. And use the future time to find someone who knows how to appreciate and love yourself, your father is not the whole of your world, your world can be expanded by yourself, to discover and tap your own hobbies and specialties, and work hard to exercise, cultivate, so that your world will be richer and richer, more and more exciting, you also have to learn to be strong even in the neglect of others, you can be strong to motivate yourself, overcome difficulties, complete your goals, and only according to your father's attitude to build your own world, you will become more independent, there will be completely different, A stronger life!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Be a polite child.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's pitiful and infuriating.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Agree, the best thing to do is to retaliate and introduce you to a man you like. Preferably younger, even if it is a contractual relationship.

    Anyway, he is not qualified to be your father, so simply encourage your mother to pursue her own happiness.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You just communicate with him, say your thoughts and feelings, and your expectations for this family, if he turns back, it will be good! If that's still the case, then be ready to ask your mom for a divorce! Otherwise, the days will get worse and worse!

    Although the parents divorce, it will be uncomfortable, but in order to make the mother no longer so painful, divorce is also a way! Be nice to your mother!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    As a daughter, you have the right to maintain the integrity of the family, and I think it is important to stop it before it happens, so that the tragedy can be nipped in the bud. The further you go, the more complicated it becomes. You can talk to your dad about it, your dad may have been carried away at this time, you have to move it with affection and reason, help you save your dad's heart, and give your mom a peace and fairness.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Curb this in a timely manner. Once you fall out, it's too late to clean up the mess. You can sneak out and have a look, anyway, try to catch him by all means, and then talk to your dad with confidence, and your mother may not be able to talk about it.

    There can be no compromise on this issue.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Wait and see what happens, and grab it when he shows his feet.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Persuade your dad to stop him from having a relationship with that girl if possible.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Try to find the evidence and talk to him properly.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In fact, this kind of thing is very troublesome and sad as a child, I believe you still want your parents to be together, so old, really can't afford to toss! Sometimes you can do more than your mother, and if your mother confronts your father, your father will definitely not admit it, and he will lose his temper and quarrel! And you are different, no evidence is not good, it is recommended that you collect some evidence, the kind that can effectively prove something, and then don't let your mother know, talk to your father directly, just say that I know everything about you, see what your father says!

    If you still want to live a good life, you can cut off the outside, don't make yourself and your mother sad! If you don't correct it, your mother will divorce him, and you will hate him (harshly) and then say something soft! Since your father is behind your back and your mother, and will resist in the face of your mother's questioning, it means that he doesn't want to lose his family because of what he is doing outside, so divorce and hating him scares him, if he is just your child, he must not want his children to hate him!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    That can only make your husband self-reflective, he is already alone, and it is really terrible to not recognize his own problems, especially a father who loses affirmation before his daughter, which is a blow to the child and a kind of injury.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you still like your husband and don't want your daughter to be separated from your husband, then think of a way to reconcile your husband and daughter.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The child should be advised that he should not be too involved in the affairs of adults, otherwise it will only make everyone's relationship worse and worse.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Then you can reconcile with your husband. Unforgivable?

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    The three of them should sit down and have a good talk, and there should be less awkwardness.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I think you're a sullen woman, but you're actually very feminine, ( just not understood.)

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    The father said to his daughter, everything you do does not satisfy me, you can see the father's point of view.

    The specific expression should be, I am angry and anxious, so I will express it like this. So, don't dwell on what Dad says, you should try to do your best, and you will be appreciated.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    This is a manifestation of hatred of iron and steel, so children should be filial piety first, and follow the will of their parents.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    The dissatisfied thing must not look good on the face, and he will not smile and say that he will tell you this sentence very seriously.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    What you've done lately may have angered Dad. Dad didn't feel very satisfied. That's why he has such a tone to say such things to you. Maybe your dad doesn't have a very good temper either.

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