My boyfriend always has a woman chasing him, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-19
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    1. Be an ally.

    The main reason why you are jealous of your boyfriend's female friend is that you are afraid that he will leave you and be with her. So a good way to deal with this situation is to be one of them. In order to calm this fear, you can ask her to have lunch or dinner with you alone, and at the same time, your boyfriend will spend a lot less time alone with her, which will reduce the probability of him leaving you a lot.

    2. Go out together.

    If you wish, you can also organize a small group to hang out. Invite her, your boyfriend, and a group of other friends, and if she has someone who is important to her, invite them as well. This is a great opportunity to see what kind of behavior she will have with your boyfriend.

    If she has ulterior motives, her body language will reveal everything!

    3. To give others a chance is to give yourself a chance.

    When you know that your boyfriend has a female friend, if you are blindly jealous, treat her rudely when you see her, or show her a look, it will only make all three of you feel very uncomfortable, and the relationship will be negative and tense! However, if you can calmly treat her with a normal heart and give her a chance, maybe you will find that she is indeed a good girl, so that your friendship will be fulfilled, and your boyfriend will see your very cultivated side, why not!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Now that you're already in a relationship, you can accompany him more often in his circle of friends for this.

    The more opportunities there are, the more people will not think about it.

    You don't always show up in his circle of friends, and others will think he's still single.

    Your appearance, some people will feel that your boyfriend already has a relationship, and will make people who think this way back down.

    If you don't want to attend this kind of party, you have to go to it a few times to announce that your boyfriend is not single now.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    As long as he is steadfast in you, there is nothing to be afraid of.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, you have to confirm that this boy is someone else who chased you for a long time in the early stage, and then gave up pursuing it again, if so, then it's not a boy's problem, just leave it alone. If it is chased at the same time, then this kind of person is a scumbag, just ignore it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    A boy who has been chasing him for a long time suddenly has a girlfriend who does this: giving up the idea of testing him is instantly inappropriate. I feel that this boy doesn't like himself very much, and he feels like he likes the new and hates the old, and he is not very dedicated to his feelings. So don't think too much, inappropriate is not true love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This kind of boy is a junior version of Aquaman, and he should be casting a wide net to find a girlfriend. You're lucky not to be with him, and you have to adjust to the mentality of being behind him, and you have to keep your distance from him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That can only give up, after all, people already have a girlfriend, so they can't go back, otherwise it will destroy the relationship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Chasing you for a long time proves that you don't like him very much, and the guy who doesn't like it very much has a girlfriend and should bless him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then give up immediately, since the boy doesn't have himself in his heart, don't pay anymore, don't fall deeper and deeper, it's yourself who hurts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Bless this boy, after all, I don't like him very much, and now that he has found true love, I will also be glad for it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then I will definitely bless him in my heart, because I haven't promised others for a long time, and I won't promise others in the future, and others should pursue happiness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then fulfill the other party, after all, I didn't promise to be someone's girlfriend, of course others can have the right to choose.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I may be very disappointed, even regretful, and feel that it is my loss not to agree to the other party.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then I may feel a special regret, because the other person gave up before the two of them had any relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then I can only bless each other, it can only show that the two of us are destined.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think you must not give up at this time, you must strengthen your determination, that is, you must talk to this girl, whether this girl likes you or not, if she really likes you, then you just let go and chase it, even if she has a boyfriend, as long as she is not married, I think it doesn't matter.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In this case, first find out whether it is a boyfriend or not. If it is, then it means that this girl doesn't like you and doesn't have a good impression of you. I know I have friends, but I don't tell you frankly.

    Prove that you are too naïve and kept in the dark. When you meet this kind of girl, let go of this relationship as soon as possible, because this girl has been lying to you, not taking your pursuit seriously, and not really loving you. Therefore, it is the most rational choice to stop in moderation and let yourself withdraw decisively.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's up to you, there are women everywhere in the world, if you can't change it, it's all about the same! But for good women, you have to grasp it! Many people don't know how to cherish when they have other people's pursuits, and once they have love again when others leave, they feel sorry again.

    In fact, there is a part of people's hearts that is jealousy, they all say that women chase men, and when girls pursue boys, boys do not agree, which means that they are not too satisfied with this girl. Now that the girl has a boyfriend, she feels dissatisfied.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A poem by Su Dongpo is for you: There are few willows blowing on the branches, and there is no grass at the end of the world. Go with the flow and bless her.

    You have been chasing her for a long time, and it is impossible for her not to know that in this case, she did not choose you but chose someone else, which means that she does not have you in her heart. This is fate, not forced. Recently, there have been many incidents of men and women hurting due to emotional disputes, it is not worth it, and what you can't get can't ruin her, it's a jade burn, and both sides are hurt.

    Besides, there is no grass at the end of the world, you stand on the bridge and look at the scenery, the people who watch the scenery look at you from upstairs, the bright moon decorates your windows, and you decorate other people's dreams.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since you haven't chased her for a long time, and she's still with other boys, it means that she doesn't like you, and in this case, you'd better give up, focus on other people, stop paying attention to her, and gradually start a new life.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Although I am desperate in my heart, I still give up, I haven't chased it for so long, and I have chased it as soon as others come, which means that the girl really doesn't like you. So don't waste any more time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the girl has talked to you before, you have also confirmed your relationship. She suddenly has a boyfriend, which may be testing the relationship between you. The main thing is to see how deep your relationship is, she is letting her colleagues test you to see how dedicated you are to her.

    So don't be in a hurry, figure out the reason and see if it's her ex. I still don't think you're a good fit. If she doesn't care about your feelings and finds another boyfriend, then break up decisively.

    Because she doesn't treat you as a boyfriend at all, she doesn't care about your emotions.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I had to stop leisurely, hold back the loss on my face, and gently flash aside.

    Say to yourself, don't cry for missing the sun, look up and embrace the brightest star in the beautiful night sky.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The girl who has been chasing for a long time suddenly has a boyfriend, so let it go and bless her silently, if you are not chosen, it may still be inappropriate.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you really like this girl very much, wait and take a closer look at the trajectory of the girl's life. Is it different from usual? Girls in love and single girls have different life trajectories, work styles, and speaking styles.

    See if the other person is really true love with your boyfriend, send blessings if it is true love, if not, then continue to observe and don't let the person you love get hurt.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If someone else has a boyfriend, it means that they are not interested in you at all, give up, there are better ones waiting for you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't give up the whole forest for a tree! She didn't choose you after chasing you for so long, she definitely doesn't like you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Then let it go decisively, because knowing that it is impossible, but looking forward to it is wrong, and when the dust settles, it can only be regarded as a kind of self-harm. I used to be trapped in love and had a crush on someone, but I knew that many parties didn't like me, but I was still waiting stupidly, always feeling that a miracle had happened, and what I was waiting for was the other party's wedding invitation. That kind of despair broke me very much, and it was impossible to recover for a while.

    But the reality still has to be faced, no matter how much you struggle inside. Whether you accept it or not, the facts are in front of you. So I chose to face it, only by facing up to my shortcomings can I let go of myself as soon as possible.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    People, most afraid: the strangeness of deep friendship; Serious pain; the use of trust; Indifference after gentleness. Everything has a chance coincidence, but the ending is like a fateful necessity.

    Do you think about it, are you sure that you are simply out of love and not unwilling to give all these years? Because I like it, I am willing, and there are not so many whys. Some roads, you have to walk alone, don't talk about loving someone, you have to learn to let go and so on, I want to vomit myself when I say this, it's just, simply change the question, are you willing to be with someone you don't like?

    Then the answer is much simpler and more straightforward. There is nothing to regret, it's your wishful thinking, and it is reasonable to gather and disperse. This world has never paid attention to equivalent exchange, those who wish to take the bait, I will never exhaust my life of happiness, in exchange for your previous pay, this is unfair, you have to remember, people's hearts are changeable, vows are fragile, you have never, or has always been able to rely on only yourself.

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