Will there be any trouble after getting the certificate behind the back of my parents and boyfriend?

Some things still need to be discussed together, and it is not good to make decisions privately after all, and an adult has to be responsible for his own actions, which will hurt his parents.

Of course, troublesome, parents will be very angry, after all, the traditional concept of the Chinese is there, the order of the parents, the words of the matchmaker.

Behind the back of the parents always can't see the table.,So do it yourself.,If you're not wrong about this person.,It's all easy to say.,If this person has a problem later.,There's no way.,Parents don't agree there's always a reason.,I hope the landlord has good luck.。。。

。。The hearts of parents must be cold... If his parents haven't agreed yet, you have received ... It's dead.

Anyway, it's a matter of time before you say it, and the later you say it, the more it hurts your parents' hearts, don't you think about your parents' feelings before you do things? Since I don't care about my parents' feelings, let's talk about it casually.

For lifelong events, you should seek the opinions of relatives and friends around you, especially your parents, how can you be hasty. Now that you've got your license, tell your parents as soon as possible.

I think you'd better talk to your parents, they may blame you, but that's a sign that they care about you, after all, it's your life's happiness, how can they not worry about you? Tell your parents sooner rather than later, they will forgive you. Good luck dear!

Absolutely, I've always felt that a marriage without the blessing of my parents is not very good.

I don't think love is a threat, it's not intimidation, it's not coercion.

If you really have love and can spend your whole life together, marriage is not necessary, because the relationship can be maintained completely. And marriage is a social act, you can love to death, but it is affection, and it has nothing to do with others. But marriage is not good, it is a social relationship, involving the social, economic, ethical and other things of the two families.

So in any case, we all say that marriage needs the blessings of both families, and although it is possible to be happy and successful without blessings, the process is full of risks, obstacles, and hardships. I think you know this too.

Back to the opening sentence. I feel that if you really love someone, you will respect their opinion, not by adding a crime to someone's head. It's coercion, it's possessive, it's not love.

Maybe some people will regard this as love, I don't know if this kind of person really doesn't know or pretends to be ignorant.

I don't know if that's what he said, but I always feel that there's a kind of unreasonableness in it. What does it mean to "marry early and marry late"? People will die sooner or later, can they die sooner?

This statement is so ridiculous that I think you probably understand it, after all, this request is not in your wishes.

Although marriage is free, it is not child's play, and being careless can cause considerable trouble, especially when meeting such a seemingly unreasonable boyfriend, hehe.

Good luck.

This method is not advisable.

He really loves you.

I want to be blessed by everyone.

Will wait until you touch your parents together before getting married.

I think your boyfriend is selfish and irresponsible. Now that you know that your parents do not approve of you being together, the first thing you should do is to impress your parents with sincerity, instead of making you break with your parents, which is too immature for him to do.

You are now the middleman and the most difficult person, and you are also taking a stand now: do you love your parents a little more, or do you have a boyfriend a little more? If you love your parents more, then you need to consider your parents' feelings, and try to persuade your parents to try to convince them, and if you can't convince them, it depends on your boyfriend's performance.

If you are a boyfriend who loves a little more, then, you can pay less attention to the feelings of your parents and choose to get a marriage certificate with your boyfriend, but you also need to think about your future: a marriage without the blessing of your parents will not be happy, you need to think about this carefully, you must know that most of the practices of parents are still good for their children

It's one thing to fall in love, two people don't get along well, and if you break up, you break up If someone else says something, it means that this girl is unladylike But if you get married, you regret it again, that's another thing Marriage is not child's play Don't lie The man who can force you like this should not love you But to dominate you Be careful yourself.

Yours is very immature.

If you don't do it, you don't love him. That is, he is too immature, even unreasonable. I suggest you think about it.

He treats you like a fool and you must not get into character.

It's better not, if he really loves you, you should solve all the problems before proposing marriage, instead of using marriage to solve the problem.

Hello, you should let your parents know about this.

The certificate didn't say, now that your boyfriend has become your husband, and your parents are his father-in-law and mother-in-law, they have become a family, and it's wrong if you don't tell your parents.

On the one hand, you don't have an account for your parents, they raised you, although they can't influence your marriage, they should have the right to know.

On the other hand, your husband will think in his heart, is he not able to see the light in front of your parents?

So you should officially take your husband to your parents to report it. I beg them to forgive you for cutting and playing first, and you got your certificate in advance.

Hello! This girl.

You and your boyfriend have already obtained the certificate, which means that the relationship between the two of you is currently a legal husband and wife, that is, only the last procedure is needed to hold the wedding ceremony.

And the two of you got the certificate, but you didn't tell your parents, you were hiding the marriage certificate from your parents. I don't know what your reason is here? will choose to secretly obtain a marriage certificate from his parents. I'll make a reasonable guess:

Maybe your parents don't like your boyfriend and have always disagreed with you being with your boyfriend, so in order to get married to your boyfriend, you chose this way of cutting first and then secretly getting a marriage certificate. I just want to fight with my parents, and I have to agree to use a de facto marriage to force my parents to agree, and I have to agree if I don't agree. You are in charge of your love, and no one wants to stop you, even if it is your biological parents.

From your point of view, maybe you don't think you're at fault. But a very real problem is currently in front of you, your wedding without the participation of your parents, there is no way to continue to go down, such as the establishment of parents needs to meet, and the ceremony of discussing the wedding also requires parents to be present. And the purchase of dowry, sending relatives these steps need to have the mother's family to support the scene, and a marriage without the blessing of parents is imperfect.

Obviously, if you get the certificate without the prior consent of your parents, there is a problem with the operation itself, which is an absolute challenge to the authority of your parents. It undoubtedly increases the dissatisfaction and provocation of parents, but when it comes to the end, no matter what, we can't continue to make mistakes.

What you can do at the moment is to go home first and tell your parents about the fact of getting the certificate, accept it no matter how your parents blame you, and sincerely apologize to your parents. Although parents may be dissatisfied in their hearts, after all, you are their daughter, and in the end, you have to take into account the overall situation, and you will choose to accept the reality if you forgive or not.

Next, let your boyfriend solemnly bring a gift and come to apologize and propose. You should also tell your boyfriend to accept that his parents may have an unfriendly attitude, in fact, as long as he gets through, he will go on the same path as other girls getting married.

Finally, I wish you a happy marriage! The marriage went well! All wishes come true! As you wish!

In fact, you should tell your parents before you get the certificate, this kind of thing can't be hidden from your parents, because it is not easy for your parents to raise you, and you must discuss marriage with your parents.

Getting a certificate is such a big deal, why don't you tell your parents in advance, even if you notice it. At this point, it's best to take your boyfriend to your parents to apologize. What else can I do, you can't get married, have children, and you can't talk to your parents when you get old, get sick and die, and don't talk to your parents.......

Then tell your parents that the marriage is a fact.

You're not a little bold! This kind of big thing.

I don't tell my parents either.

Find a chance and explain.

This matter is not well thought out. Tell your parents and apologize.

A marriage that does not receive the blessing of parents is doomed to be unhappy.

It's best not to go behind your parents' backs to get the certificate. Because it is said that love without the support of parents and relatives and friends will not end well, and this sentence is not unreasonable. Love that no one recognizes must have some fatal problems that you yourself are not aware of if you can't go to the future.

First of all, first of all, exclude that your parents worship money and just want you to marry a rich person, but nothing else is to ask this kind of parents who have more strange views, basically normal, parents who love their children are for the long-term development of their children, and will resolutely interfere with your marriage. You have to think about it, is your boyfriend good enough or capable of spending the rest of his life with you?

Many people have zero IQ when they are in love, and sometimes their experience is shallow and they don't see enough long-term so they can't find each other's shortcomings, but your parents have more life experience than you, they may think that the boy you are looking for is too impetuous and will not live a life of firewood, rice, oil and salt with you in the future, and can't give you stability, but you are willing to accompany him to spend the days of wandering the world, but what about after having children or getting old? Maybe you think your girlfriend is very beautiful and will dress up and bring out to save face, but your parents think that she has no connotation and is too fancy, and she is not a woman who can get along for a long time? Parents will be calmer than you, and stand on the basis of your future good to make a comprehensive analysis, he has money but can develop in the long run, he has no money now but is not self-motivated, and whether his ideological connotation is profound enough, they will examine and consider it for you.

If your lover is really so good, even if your parents don't agree at first, you won't resolutely oppose it if you can find his advantages after a long time, otherwise you have to think about whether your lover can give you a happy life.

Now that we're all in our twenties, we're sure to have some impulsive thoughts, some not-so-practical ideas. The same goes for love, we can get carried away by love and appear to have zero emotional intelligence.

But our parents will be very calm, they will weigh the pros and cons, they will seriously analyze whether this boy is suitable for you, and they will be particularly uncomfortable with the good cabbage of their own family being arched by pigs.

If this boy is very good, I believe that your parents will definitely agree to your marriage, but they do not agree, have you ever wondered why? Is it because the boy is too attentive or because the boy doesn't have a stable job?

Don't think that nothing matters after having love, you can't live without bread after all. The reason is that we are inexperienced, have no social viability, and we are easy to be deceived by some rhetoric, or it may be that a little princess is gradually disliked after becoming a housewife.

Of course, it is also possible that your parents are too rigid, you can also take your ID card and household registration book to follow the boy to get married, but you have to think about the consequences, in this case, you will elope, and what is the situation of the boy's parents?

If both parents don't agree, you will seem lonely and have no one to approve of your love.

There are many examples of this in TV series, but many of these stories come from life, and in the context of a big society like China, there are very few examples of working hard for themselves without the help of their parents, and finally being happy together.