Everybody helps me about such feelings

You are a stupid person, I have known her for 4 years, and I don't know her at all, this is a very abnormal performance, one: has he dated other boyfriends in these 4 years, if so, it is likely that something is wrong, borrow you to cross the bridge, you are just a chess piece, two: if he has not dated other boyfriends in the past 4 years, and he has a relationship with you, and shows such a phenomenon, maybe she is lonely.

I'm sure she doesn't love you, you're not where she wants to be. (There's also the possibility that her past or something doesn't deserve you, and the better you treat her, the more uncomfortable she becomes.) I've known her for 4 years, I don't know what she thinks in her heart, and she said that she likes people, you are stupid, if you really like him, you understand him thoroughly from today, start with life.

There is another question, you say that she is not feeling well, you go to the diet, you say you are stupid or not, who are you, you are a doctor, you are very considerate from your own point of view, you have thought about what she thinks, you should carry her to the hospital as soon as possible, so that her heart will be very sweet. Alas, stupid to death, no wonder it took 4 years to get started, don't make this mistake in the future. This is a fatal problem.

First of all, make sure that your own heart is really like her from the bottom of your heart, rather than going with the flow because you are a friend. Find your true thoughts. If you really like it, it's simple, continue to use your "heart" to her, find her needs, and give her the feeling she likes, such as why did she choose you in the first place?

It must be because you have the feeling she wants. It's just that after a long time both parties have been negligent, you can try to talk to her and find out what she needs is very simple, "People are only hungry when they crave food!" "What did she say" I feel that the friends around me are so invested in love, and I feel that it is difficult to understand!

Listening to what you have to say, I don't think she likes you! Your unilateral liking of her is not the reason for you to stay together until you grow old, because a happy marriage is created by two people, if being with her brings you only troubles, not happiness, then give up on her and find someone you love her and she loves you for a lifetime, so that you will be happy forever!

Don't guess what a girl thinks, because you can't guess at all. Judging from your narrative, your girlfriend should be a very rational and assertive girl, so in the face of such a girl, you don't have to think about how she will treat you in every detail. Be your own and go with the flow!

Wishing you happiness!

Time can change everything, and time can give birth to love.

Women like to coax, maybe she doesn't see you as the other half of the future yet, I can only say that she may have a good impression of you, but not to a certain extent. It's not deep enough, you just keep working hard, her calmness is just a character, maybe you can ask her, it's much better to ask directly than to worry about yourself alone.

Communication would be better! Personally, I think you just haven't found a breakthrough from friends to couples, couples should be like couples, friends are friends, and proper intimacy will make you both feel happy! Hurry up and pierce the window paper, the more you drag it out, the more troublesome it is!

You also have to pay attention to your behavior and think about why she doesn't trust you.

It may be out of the love of being friends. I liked it non-lovely. No matter what kind of girl she likes a man, it never feels like this.

Don't think of love as sacred, even though it is!

Let me make an important point: you tell your friends: a successful marriage requires two people to work together, and for a marriage to fail, one person is enough.

It's been four years, and I asked her if she wanted to get married, right? I'm sure you've talked about this once in a while!

Unleash your youth! Can't waste it anymore, ask her bluntly!

She doesn't like you, she just thinks the time has come and it's time to find someone to settle down. over

At this time, it is best to communicate with her, so as to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.

Are you sure she likes you?

And you don't just be her meticulous best friend, you should be more manly when appropriate.