How to drive friends who are not familiar with each other not to be cold!

I'm talking about finding a topic that everybody knows about, so everyone has something to talk about.

Find a common topic hobby, even if it's smoking, and talk about something that everyone else might not know about, and get someone's attention. Don't refute what other people say, but correct them with tactful points.

Find a topic and chat casually. Or find a hobby you share.

If it is a temporary party, first of all, before the party, prepare some humorous jokes or stories, or even some small games to liven up the atmosphere, small magic, small riddles, etc., to liven up the atmosphere or adjust it when it is awkward. Secondly, pay attention to everyone at the party, even if others are really cold, you must not be infected by others, you must follow your own emotions, even if you pretend, you must pretend, and use your emotions to infect everyone's emotions. Thirdly, we must find a way to arouse the emotions of relatively active people first.

Then, when they are active, they care about other friends who are more introverted.

But these are just emergency solutions. Because there are many times when it is too late to prepare for the meeting. So the best thing to do is to develop your sense of humor for a long time, and try to consume some jokes, humorous stories, classic quotes, etc. every day.

When you accumulate a certain amount, these problems are not a problem at all.

I think there are several ways to solve it, I hope it will help you.

1.Talk about topics that the other person is interested in, and how to find the topics that the other person is interested in depends on your ability. Talk about some **, sports, literature and other aspects of the topic and see the other party's reaction, or directly ask him about his interests, hobbies and other topics to start with.

2.Taking friends to places with a lot of people, like playgrounds, game cities, karaoke, clubs, etc., requires multi-faceted interaction.

3.The place to eat is set in a more easy-going place, such as a self-service restaurant or a self-service hot pot or something, where many people can eat together and eat well.

4.If you can, you should take the initiative to drive the atmosphere, if you are not good at driving the atmosphere, don't be too reluctant, because it may cause the opposite effect, and it is okay to find a friend to help.

That's all there should be.

But don't ask about other people's privacy, you can follow the following current news and ask your friends for their opinions on a topic. And so on

In short, asking questions is the best way to go

If the other person is very cheerful and talkative, then pay more attention to what the other person is trying to say.

If the other person is more introverted, find more topics that the other person likes to talk about.

There is no common language, no way, and I am the same with a good friend, when I first started in school, there was always a lot to say, but then I graduated.

Each of them is in a different school, and it has been a long time.

The two of them sat together for half an hour, unable to say a word, and had no choice but to say, I still have something to do, I will go first.

I envy you very much, I used to chat with my friends so carefree, and I always couldn't find a topic, and even after I hung up, I hit again, and lied to him that I was going to do it.

Then everyone laughed.

But now, I hardly have time to talk to my friends, and I'm so busy with work that I can't argue with customers.

After a long time, you will understand, in fact, if you have nothing to say, then don't say it yet, it will seem that you are indecisive and a waste of time.

Isn't it? Good luck.

You can discuss with him what you are interested in. Let's blow it.

9494, deliberately find some topics, just do it.

Too nervous, right? Relax and the topic will naturally be the topic!!

What should I do if I talk to someone else?

Hehe, as long as I think you don't care too much, just say whatever comes to mind, the more you care about these things, the easier it is to be cold, and maybe you will talk too much when you meet.

Shh

Act on the right and use local materials.

A good friend is just a timely and no topic, and the two of them will not feel embarrassed.

It's okay to talk about something interesting, and that's fine.

A kind of person is far away from you, and when you are splendid, he must be a friend; A kind of person who is very close to you, and when you are in your glory, that may be a villain.

Boyfriend and girlfriend can be said to be the closest people, even if they don't talk together, they won't feel cold.

There are several possibilities if there is a cold scene, first, there is a contradiction or misunderstanding between the two sides.

Second, the two sides did not treat each other sincerely and did not trust each other, and third, they had just started talking about each other, and they had not yet reached the level of intimacy.

Today I played ** with her on QQ for the first time, she is very talkative, but if I don't prompt, there is always a time when the topic is finished. Chatting is mostly about interaction. When you don't feel like you have much to talk about, you need to be as informative as possible so that you can get to know each other better.

The problem is him, not you, you have to press him and force him to find something to say, otherwise he will always be on the ground.

Reach out to his friends and get in touch with the things he likes.

Don't you like him like that? Why bother to change him.

Take your time. In a hurry.

But it doesn't take long to say a word.

That's not good.

You can talk about it for you personally, and then talk about what you like.

There were a lot of topics to talk about.

"Haha, the weather is good today, the weather is good, and the situation is more OK =

Jokes".<

The first time I asked about something in my daily life, and when I got familiar with it, I made some jokes or something, hehe.

Ask the other party about the situation, since it's the first call, you need to know the other party's situation

In fact, there should be more face-to-face conversations.

There's not that much to say in it.

I'm a man. I'm a little experienced in this area!

The one on the first floor is well said ......

In addition, you can find a friend who is familiar with you to accompany you, or you can divide the friend into several parts and sit together with each other, and you can mediate in the middle.

In fact, it's not that serious, everyone is familiar with it as they talk about it......

Stand up and say. It's the roar of the man. Everyone yelled...

Since they are all gentlemen, you don't have to be polite. You know your brother, and you know you. That is, you know you.

Come. Have a good time, everybody. Brother, I'll do it first.。。。

After drinking, that's embarrassing. I'm going back to reading. You guys play slowly.

You're welcome. Don't give me face,. Have fun and enjoy hi.

Answer questions by hand. Give me the score.

Take the initiative to introduce to everyone.

At the same time, wine is a good thing, which can quickly bring people closer together.

How hard it is to play a game!

At the beginning of the conversation, you should always focus on all the information that is being talked in front of you, grasp every point, think about the meaning of each sentence, and continue to expand the topic of the conversation from the beginning, then the source of your thoughts will continue to gush out, and the line of conversation will be unimpeded.