Withdrawn and inferior, I want to change myself through the tour guide, and I kneel to ask for help!

Tour guides can try it! Start with a training course. You can also study other accounting and finance.

Computer. But I suggest you learn more practical skills! Because you said it was because of the body.

I'm not talking about your physical defects or anything. It's not a big deal to have a scar on your body. Don't mind too much.

It's just that I want to give you useful advice. Now decent jobs are more beautiful. Therefore, if you want to survive, you must learn practical things, and I am afraid that if you want to learn, you will be rejected.

You can learn fashion design. The design of the web page! Finances!

Or maybe you make some money from your job! Learn to start a small business, etc. These are all more practical.

If you like a guided tour, do it! But first of all, you have to study hard! If it's rejected, that's okay.

There are still a lot of practical skills to learn, give yourself confidence! Don't keep thinking about your physical defects, it's nothing.

Believe in yourself!

Get ready and sign up for a tour guide training school......You can practice in front of the mirror, hehe!

Otaku: Let's go!

In fact, there is nothing to dare to, you will find that it is very easy to communicate with people!

I said, "Yes!" Absolutely!

Strength is the real ability, and the current society is no longer a society where people are treated by appearance, and strength is king.

Believe in yourself: I can, attitude is everything. Time is of the essence. Take control of yourself. Even if you fall, you have to get up, the sun is always after the wind and rain.

It's like this for people who don't have the experience, because you're human, and you can essentially do everything that others can do, and your potential is limitless, but it's not being developed.

There is a saying that if you cultivate to get the real world, you have to struggle.

I'm also very proud, there's nothing bad to feel bad about, others can't compare to me, my brother has the capital of pride, the proud person is saved, and the inferior person is not saved.

You are who you are, and you will always be the best you.

Are you a wreck! No, you are the only person in this world, you are you, and you are the only one!

Let me admit that I have the same personality as you. When you talk to strangers, you will have nothing to say, and the first time you talk to someone else, it will feel unnatural. Then you will doubt your character.

Hehe, I don't think there's anything wrong with introverted personalities, we are introverted, humble, self-minded, honest and trustworthy. Actually, I have also changed a lot now, changing communication, I can teach you two little tricks. One is smiling, and the other is caring for others.

Dare to break through yourself, learn to "talk to yourself" in unfamiliar situations now, and then someone will talk to you too.

Be confident and give yourself a smile. Take it all seriously!

I think you should go somewhere like an insurance company or something

Try to communicate with friends or family members and talk as much as possible.

What you need is change, change yourself to be fast, self-confidence will make you different, low self-esteem will only make you worse and worse. People's character is largely determined by the environment in which they grow up, family factors, social factors will affect the development of a person's character, self-confidence is a part of people's character, plays a decisive role in the growth of people, if there is a lack of self-confidence in the character, the road of life will be very difficult, so you can not be without self-confidence. The country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, and the character of a person is difficult to change, but there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with a heart, and some methods must be tried to know.

My cousin is seventeen years old this year, and he has been introverted since he was a child, which is related to his living environment when he was a child, his parents are busy with work, rarely take care of him, and give him too little care, so that he has a withdrawn personality, is not good at expressing himself and communicating with others, and is confident that he does not know anything to him. Seeing that her grandchildren are about to become adults, my grandmother is worried about her cousin, and she blames herself, she always says that if she cared more about her cousin when she was a child, she wouldn't be what she is now. Grandma is really worried about her grandson's future life, and the family also tries to help his cousin, let him talk more, exercise his courage and thick-skinned, and everyone firmly believes that his younger brother will find self-confidence.

Grandma is a person with a lot of ideas, and he has heard people say that things that open the light can bless people, drive away the bad luck in people, and make people healthy, happy and full of confidence. Grandma has no culture, but she is still very researched about these things, and asked me to help find things that open the light, I am not interested in these superstitious things, but grandma's orders have to obey. I'm lazy, and I won't go to temples, ancestral halls and other places to find it, I think the network information is so developed, there will be something I'm looking for on **.

I really found it, in the store that helps you make a fortune, there is a kind of blessing bag for opening the light, the shopkeeper Fan Fei and Yuan Ying said that their wish bags are all opened by the masters, which is absolutely true. I don't know if it's true or not, but it's really necessary to buy one, this thing looks quite spiritual, and I have to buy one for my cousin anyway. My grandmother put the bag of wishes I bought under my cousin's pillow, and there were words in my mouth.

I soon forgot about it, but when my cousin asked me how to pronounce the English word confidence, I was suddenly dumbfounded, I couldn't believe my eyes, is this my cousin, and there seemed to be a little smile on my face. Gradually, the family members noticed the change in their cousin, became more cheerful, dared to express their thoughts, and spoke with a kind of confidence. The happiest is grandma, one day suddenly came to make me my favorite cola chicken wings and plum cabbage button pork, of course I know why, this is a secret between me and grandma.

Some people are withdrawn, not easy-going, and not in groups. One is to be lonely and self-appreciative, self-pretentious. This type of person feels that the behavior and habits of others are vulgar and shallow, low-level and boring, a bit arrogant, unwilling to be in the company of others, even if they sometimes want to "accommodate" others, it seems extremely unnatural, and others are not willing to accept this kind of subservience, so they become alone.

The other is to belong to people who have a special habitual behavior, that is, those who have strange behaviors. Make it difficult for others to accept and unwilling to touch him. The key to overcoming the psychological barrier of isolation lies in a turn of mind.

You can't just think about your own strengths and strengths, and you can't be too strict with others. Even if you have an insight and a skill in a certain aspect, you can't look down on others because of this. As far as society as a whole is concerned, no matter how great a person's ability and knowledge are, they will always be a drop in the ocean.

Everyone has self-esteem, and others don't look up to you because you're withdrawn. On the contrary, they will look down on you because of it. In this way, not only will you not gain anything, but you will also bring a psychological burden.

As for those who are eccentric, they should try to change their habits and make themselves popular with others. Furthermore, to change one's withdrawn character, one must have a kind of perseverance, a kind of perseverance. Through adjustments, change the living environment and one's own behavior, consciously overcome adverse environmental influences, and cultivate a good character.

Dude, why are we so similar?

Experience things, these are not easy to change anyway, especially its sensitivity and suspicion, really, too difficult, to tell you the truth, you can only try not to let yourself not want to, otherwise you can't stop at all.

I think I am also a person with this kind of personality, if you want to change yourself, you must find your own problems in the continuous social process, reflect and then improve, and listen to the advice of friends around you.

Start small, pay attention to your emotions, face life optimistically and positively, I hope it can help you!

Find something you're interested in doing.

Reading The Locks of the Mind will reveal a lot.

Causing inferiority and loneliness is caused by many complex external factors, but it is mainly because of yourself, according to your own description, your self-confidence has been hit by several failures, at this time we should vent our emotions reasonably, say it, show it, and don't hold it in our hearts. As for your relationship with your classmates and families, you still have to communicate and take the initiative in doing things. One last word for you:

Only when you are strong and respectful of others can you win and wait for the respect of others.

This can only be found in an environment where you can get along with multiple people.

Hello, I am also such a person, change, I don't believe it, because change, means to do a lot of things against their will, and then you will not be happy, what is the most important thing in life? Of course, it's happy, if these so-called shortcomings of yours don't affect your normal life (the satisfaction of physiological needs, security needs, love needs, belonging needs, self-realization needs, etc. is not hindered), it's nothing, because the purpose of human communication is not to get rid of boredom and depression, or to satisfy self-realization, self-esteem, or to make a living or something? If a person is alone, it doesn't make you feel bored, etc., and it's nothing.

The easiest way is to release yourself and let your heart go out, in one word, madness.

Like you, I suffer from severe depression and am unable to work and live, and I still can't find a way to change my personality. Although the future is dark, I have a kind heart, which cannot give light to others, but can still make me feel warm, and that is enough.

Customer service inferiority complex methods - appreciate yourself, affirm yourself, love yourself!

Free yourself from the shackles of your mind!

Give yourself more hints in your heart and let yourself do it.

If you meet people who are on the same path, you will be lucky.

Change the environment, do something you like to do, communicate with good friends more, in fact, low self-esteem, caused by yourself, you have not had the courage to overcome yourself, forget some unhappy things, let time take it away, and you have to follow the time, that should be better.

Stand in front of the mirror and look at yourself, and think about your good in your heart, think more! Don't say that you have no merits, a person has no merits, is it a human being?

Try to find a unique side of yourself that you can use to hide what you feel inferior.

Go out and play more, communicate with friends, and participate in meaningful activities.

Go for a sale! It's a very workout, and I can exercise it in one year.

Drink too much and shout microphone at KTV.