It s normal for my dad to be impatient, and sometimes he gets nervous

Dear, first of all, you have to know that a person's character is given by God, not what he wants, he also wants a good character, there is no way God doesn't give it to him, God wants to give it to you, as for cultivation, it is a matter of personal cultivation. I don't know how many you have now'Older, how old is your dad, I think your dad may be in menopause, and like teenagers, having puberty is a very normal physiological phenomenon. You have to take care of your dad, just like your dad is the same as your adolescence, and when you know one day, it's too late, and you don't know if there is a dad, pity the parents of the world, don't let you not understand to punish your dearest dad.

Your own dad is one. Please respect and understand him, do you think about what a child without a father is like? Be content, men around sixty years old, menopause has reached the reaction period.

You silently pray for him to be healthy every day, and when you talk to him softly, he will naturally calm down slowly.

Nervousness is also a very normal phenomenon, I think you can sit down and discuss with your father, communicate well, do things what should be done, tell him that what he is doing is actually wrong, and you can also slowly enlighten him and guide his thoughts. Think on the calm side, not just talk about him. Discussing him mainly lowers his own self-esteem.

It will also be his heart becoming sad, because now his father is very sensitive and fragile. Only by communicating well and talking to him well can there be a glimmer of opportunity. This is not a bad thing, it is just a very normal psychological personality trait, and it is good to change it slowly.

My dad was the same. He was very short-tempered and spoke harshly, and I was especially reluctant to be at home with him. Now that I'm in college, I'm very happy, I just feel like I can finally get out of there.

And now I haven't had a boyfriend, and I'm especially wary of the opposite sex. So being a parent is really important. Because you don't know how much damage your actions will cause to your child's future.

In life, many parents are impatient when educating their children, and often treat their children roughly. A parent's short temper can easily affect the child and eventually make the child irritable. If parents don't adjust their parenting methods, their children's bad temper will only get worse.

Some time ago, a boy in the third grade of primary school in Tangshan ran away from home and attracted attention. On the same day, the boy's parents found out that he did not take online classes seriously, so they taught the boy a hard lesson, and the boy felt very aggrieved and ran away from home in a fit of anger. Thankfully, the town's staff found the boy, and the family was reunited.

The child runs away from home and has a short temper, but this is inseparable from the parent's education method.

Hello, the father is short-tempered and irritable, this as a child, it is really difficult to change the parents, so the mother can persuade the father well, as a child to do his own studies, do not make the father angry, so that it is okay, after all, everyone's personality is difficult to change.

Question: Hello teacher, something unpleasant has happened recently. When I went out to buy something, I didn't see the other party's person clearly, and I bought the enemy's son's things, and our two families didn't share the same sky, because there were conflicts over some things. When it was time to pay, I found out that it was him.

Then the father saw it on the side and was very angry. scolded me in front of so many people at the door of my house and ignored me. What to do in this situation.

Because I am short-sighted, I may not look at what the seller looks like when I usually buy things, only the top of other people's products, and then there are other customers next to me, I bought baked gluten at that time, and everyone has finished baking, do I turn around and leave at this time, or continue to pay? At that time, I felt that I didn't know it, after all, I asked for someone's things, so I paid and left quickly. My dad thought I was not good at my eyes, and it was a shame to be embarrassed, and he was angry at me in front of many people at the door and didn't let me enter the house.

Whether you turn around and leave, or continue to pay, but buy a little bit of goods, and don't buy them anymore, your father is just angry with you.

Question, and I also brought my two-year-old son, he threw all my things at me, said I was blind, told me to get out of here, and scared my son so much that I cried, I felt very uncomfortable, because this matter was really a mistake and I was a little embarrassed to go shopping without seeing the other party clearly. I'm really sad in my heart. But I don't think my father had to do that.

What has already happened.

Answer: Especially in front of the child, making a lot of noise will scare the child, your father has gone too far, even if you buy the wrong thing, it is only a small mistake, this is a big fuss.

Question: Well, what if he keeps ignoring me? I've been to his house recently, haven't I? At that time, my mother was at the door, and went in with my mother, and then he told me to get out of here, and he said I was not leaving, so he left, and asked my mother to tell me to go quickly, don't do that again! Then I went home crying with my son.

The answer is no, although my father said this, in fact, he will regret it later, but he is short-tempered and lacks self-control, so don't go home for the time being, and wait a month or two before going home.

Hello question, thank you, teacher.

My dad is such a person, sometimes his temper is really bad, and in summary, his emotional intelligence is too low. But then again, when my dad was in a good mood, he really didn't say anything to me, when I fainted with low blood sugar, although he was very worried and worried, he would still scold me to the end, what stupid, stupid to death, and all kinds of disgust, but I know that he may not be able to express anything.

My parents have a big temper, I have tried to communicate many times, but I can't help it, combined with some of my own experiences, I agree with one sentence: don't try to change a person easily, because his personality is caused by his long-term experience and living environment, don't expect to change in a few words. Change, more often than not, depends on oneself, thinking and knowing oneself.

I don't know which sentence is right to make him laugh, which sentence is wrong will make him lose his temper, the so-called tantrum is sometimes scolding, sometimes it is just a high voice, my dad always speaks in a low voice, sometimes he is not angry is to suddenly raise the volume, can scare me to death, I feel that I have been cautious in front of him, I will be nervous and scared when I hear others talking, I want to stay quietly to feel safe, especially afraid of emergencies, I feel very scary, I guess that's what he influenced me, but that's what he didn't do, and the rest was good.

Find out the reason for the father's irritability: everything happens for a certain reason, we wait for the father to be less angry, and ask the father or others what is going on, maybe the father has his reasons; Communicate more with your father: We should communicate more with your father, especially if you are a more irritable and unreasonable father, try to open your father's heart and talk to your father, which will help improve your father's temper; Care more about your father:

Sometimes we may misunderstand my father's irritability, and maybe what he needs is for us to reason with him, so that we can care more about him; Understand the father: As a child, you should understand your parents, drink more from your father, communicate with your father, understand your father, and enhance your feelings.

My father was a businessman who would go to sea in 2000, and he was very smart, reasonable, and principled. The only downside is that I have a terrible temper, which is where I get tired. When I was a child, I was not beaten less, and before the age of 16, I didn't dare to look at him, I didn't dare to talk in front of him, basically when I did something wrong, I would be scolded with my head and face, and the scolding was not dirty but always degraded me to nothing, every time this happened, I could only bow my head and not speak, and then I would leave when he finished speaking.

My dad is also very irritable, if something doesn't go well, he will get angry, he always beat me when I was a child, and when I was older, he would discipline me. Now that I'm out of college, I'm always resistant to going home during the holidays. Once I said that I should find a girlfriend and take it home for him to see, I told him, people see you, I guess they are going to blow it to me, my mother laughed next to him.

I always hoped that after work, I would have money and find a psychiatrist to show him, because I was too angry.

My dad is an extremely short-tempered person, for example, he has to open the door when he comes home and knocks, otherwise he will curse; He hit us **, ringed within three seconds to pick up, a little later to pick up the first sentence began to scold, today to send him something, from the south of the city to the north of the city, a few minutes to deliver, I received ** rushed downstairs to ride as fast as possible, it took ten minutes, the first sentence to see me scolded me, I was too embarrassed in front of others, silent and sad. And so on, I've gradually rejected my dad, it's not that I don't love him, it's just that I've forgotten how to get along with him...Now I want to study hard, get into a school that is farther away, never come back, and wait for me to go to work and earn money to take my mom over and stay away from my dad.

I don't know how old you and your father are, I don't think you should be big, in fact, everyone's personality is different, the way of doing things is different, and some people are anxious and can't change it. Now that you know that your dad is such a character, then pay more attention to yourself when things happen. He is determined by his personality and does not mean to be bad to you, so you have to be clear that it is not that he does not love you.

On the contrary, it may be that hatred of iron does not make steel. You can talk about this topic when you are calm. You get the idea.

This can only be endured, this is a matter of character.

There is no sympathy upstairs!

I'm sorry, can you ask your gender, and your age?

I don't think he will listen to you if you keep persuading or blaming. Because that's what his personality is, it's fixed. Of course, you can't blame him, so you and your sister should learn to be self-reliant at this time.

After all, family changes are not a trivial matter, and trying to change something is not worth the loss. The best thing to do is for you to be independent and do more for the family, so that it looks like you can afford the family. Then you will be qualified to persuade them, or they will listen to you.

Also, you should relax at home and not give everyone a heavy feeling, so things may turn around, and if the whole family is dead, it will probably be worse.

The above is just a personal opinion, I hope you can all have a happy family.

It's better to go to court to sue for divorce, your father has done everything like this, and he doesn't care about the feelings of husband and wife, since he doesn't want to live a good life, let your mother divorce him. In the new "Marriage Law", your mother may be the one who is at fault first, so she will not get too much property, but only get out of the sea of suffering, what is the money?

This matter really can't be delayed any longer, it's a disservice to everyone, and I'm sure your father may be in pain too.

May you solve it soon!

Talk to your father, and if you can't do it, go to a psychiatrist, right?

The main thing is that your heart is empty, that's not nerves, that's because you think too much about things, and your brain is messed up. If you look for something happy to do, you will get better, if you are in a bad mood, you will mess up your nerves, you must treat yourself well, want to open a little, everything goes with the flow, everything follows the fate, the fate comes and the fate gathers, and the fate goes and the fate is scattered. Treat things with a normal attitude, everything will become very beautiful, your mood will gradually improve, and you will live a very happy and happy life.

I don't think so, parents can't decide by themselves, but the future can be chosen by themselves. Since you ask such a question, it proves that you don't have a complete denial of yourself in your heart, hoping that you can become better. No matter what age you are now, in that terrible situation, believe in yourself.

I don't know if you'll succeed, but a person who denies himself first certainly won't. Life is sometimes very dramatic, no one can say that a person is useless before he dies, maybe today he is still a person who does not learn and does not know, and he can become a successful person in a few years.

But don't always think that pie will fall from the sky, if you feel useless right now, you should change yourself. Start learning now. When you reach a high enough level, you will find that the pain you have suffered in the past will be the most precious treasure of your life.

Maybe you'll be thankful to your parents then.

The education of parents is very important for the development of a child's character, but these can be changed. As long as the heart is strong enough, what cannot be defeated?

The child is timid and cowardly, which is a helpless thing for many parents, who have been teaching their children to be brave, but the child is as timid and afraid as ever.

Personally, I think that children's timid and cowardly character is mostly caused by their parents' behavioral education.

So what are the behaviors of parents that cause children to be cowardly?

1. Parents often beat and scold their children;

2. In life, the parents take care of the big and small things of the children, and the children lack choices, causing the children to be at a loss;

3. Parents' doting on their children makes them unable to adapt to group life;

4. The parent's strength in the family causes pressure on the child and has no self-confidence;

5. Lack of communication and play with the outside world;

6. Children have narrow horizons and rarely go outside to play;

7. Parents have too many restrictions, and usually prohibit their children's attempts and explorations;

8. Family discord, frequent quarrels, lack of love;

9. Often scare children and lack a sense of security;

10. The life circle is narrow and there are no friends;

11. Parents are too nervous and strict in disciplining their children;

12. Often blame children for making mistakes, and children are afraid of failure;