How can you have your own opinions? Have your own ideas, be bold, and don t be bullied

We have no opinions, no ideas of our own, and are timid because we are afraid!

Fear of failure, fear of being looked down upon by others, fear of doing wrong.

To solve your problem, first and foremost, you need to be --- not afraid.

Regardless of other people's thoughts and opinions, stick to your own right choice.

What you may need to do now is to do something that gives you a sense of accomplishment and can be praised by others, so that you can slowly change when you accumulate more "good" experience.

If you want not to be bullied, you either have to have money, or you have to have power, or you have to have someone, to do the following, you have to study carefully, hehe.

Study hard to get ahead and have a measure and temperament that others don't have.

I wish you happiness! (Hee-hee-hee.......)

A person who has no assertiveness is like losing the bones of his spine, without motivation, without direction, without thinking, everything is dragging mud and water. Generally such people will not be assertive:1

People who don't have goals don't have opinions. 2.People who don't like to think, who don't have ideas, don't have opinions.

3.Anyone who does not do it himself and relies on others will not have an opinion. 4.

People who don't have self-confidence are generally not assertive.

So what do you do if you want to be assertive?

1.Assertiveness is something that people slowly experience in life; We should always think about it, summarize the goals of each stage, and summarize our own growth.

2.It is best to develop the habit of independence, from small things, it is best to solve the problems that can be solved by yourself, and it is best to do the things that you can do by yourself, and do not easily ask others for help unless you have to, so that you are helping yourself and doing it harmless.

3.Over time, you will develop a strong and independent personality, and everything you say will naturally change.

4.The main thing is to have self-confidence, to believe in yourself at all times, not to lose faith in yourself, then it would be hopeless.

5.Don't be afraid, speak up if you have anything, and you will grow up fast!

Don't always rely on others, think more about what to do!

It's a matter of character, don't push yourself. Adjust your mindset and make yourself confident.

Find someone you like to marry, then you will not be assertive.

Do everything yourself, and take appropriate advice.

A person goes to a foreign place to live alone for a period of time.

From now on, don't ask such non-opinionated questions!

It's hard to change, and even exercising has to be a process.

Because your current temperament is not something that can be achieved in a day or two, it is the result of the influence of many factors!

One point, family factors, it is possible that you have a family background that is not very good, and your parents do too much work on your behalf, which has caused your weak personality.

Second, the body size factor, your physique may be relatively small, so you will often be bullied by others, and others only need to bully a few times, and they will be used to bullying.

Three points, personality factors, you may be too obedient, so your personality is very casual, not easy to turn back, peaceful.

Therefore, if you want to change, you must first dare to do it, dare to get angry, dare to give up, and then dare to take responsibility. Of course, temperament is not something that can be changed, it takes a long time. One is that you slowly get used to your new personality, and the other is that the people around you slowly get used to your personality.

To make yourself assertive, you must first be willing to be assertive, and other external conditions need to force you to be assertive.

If you want to be assertive, you can solve the problem neatly, start with your circle of friends, such as proposing to eat, entertainment, bravely express your thoughts, make clear what you don't want to do or don't want to do entertainment activities, such as you hate eating fish, then when you discuss where to eat, you have to express anything, but don't eat fish, they are all friends, there will be no opinions, and then take your time. Entertainment ditto above.

External conditions force you to be assertive, in many cases, you can only believe in yourself, let yourself make decisions, in many cases, such as family members have an accident, such a problem, can only be solved directly by you, without asking for help from others, in this case, you have to make a decisive decision, rather than temporarily call ** to ask for help. Stay calm and come up with the quickest and most effective solution in the shortest amount of time.

I can only give a rough idea, the specific situation is up to you to do, I provide advice, point out the general direction of the event, but it is up to you to make the decision, so my method can be a reference.

My name is 14, and I hope it can help you.

Practice more, order 10 people in 5 minutes, don't be afraid to take responsibility, and make your own decisions even if you make mistakes.

It's about trying everything and making your own decisions.

A lot of things are forced out ... Alas.

Find one thing, you are wrong with him, there must be an elder or someone to prove that he is wrong, so that he can realize that he is really wrong.