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Anonymous users2024-02-12Question adds: In fact, the living habits are different, I can't get used to eating their food, now I like to make my own food, when I stir-fry, my mother-in-law likes to nag on the side, saying that when I serve the food, it is turned out, not let me turn it inward, I have said it several times, I can't make it like that, but every time I say me. Every time I eat, I say, eat so little, I say I'm full, she will say:
How can you be full when you eat so much? To be honest, my mother-in-law is still good to me, but I still can't bear her daily nagging, plus I build a house outside, I am upset by the noise, my husband is not around, I am not familiar with life here, I don't have a friend, I am really in a mood, and I can't stand my mother-in-law pointing fingers at me every day, nagging and nagging, she gets used to getting up at half past 5 every day, and I have to get up early like her, saying that people here get up early 、、、 early
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Summary. Hello dear, the happiness of a marriage is not recommended to live with your mother-in-law, even if your mother-in-law is good, don't want it, I can understand your mood now.
Hello dear, the happiness of a marriage is not recommended to live with your mother-in-law, even if your mother-in-law is good, don't want it, I can understand your mood now.
We are currently living with my mother-in-law, but I can't stand her various behaviors, so I quarreled today, the key is that she is still unreasonable, and the quarrel is boring, because she can't listen to what I say, and it will only distort a lot of Zhaoli.
But I quarreled with her, and I didn't get hurt, and it was my husband who would be tormented, because my mother-in-law would always ink with his son.
I have now said my bottom line, it's not that we are not filial to her and don't support her, it's just that everyone is in a blind and pantsy community, each living in their own house, and she is not willing to do it, saying that I will chase her.
My dear, I empathize with your feelings, so do you love your husband? If you love it, you don't want to see your husband send the old class home every day, it's very tired, and you have to watch you and your mother-in-law quarrel in front of you.
My husband actually agrees in his heart, because he can't stand his mother's behavior.
Since my husband agrees, I think I can let my wife do her mother-in-law's ideological work.
I hardly ever quarrel with my mother-in-law, but I do sulk, and this stuffing is already making me uncomfortable.
My mother-in-law has a tendon.
Don't sulk, my dear, it's not good for your health.
Mother-in-law is the thinking of the older generation, and she has been over the years, and she will be more or less stubborn.
It is recommended not to quarrel with your mother-in-law, communicate well if you have problems, and since your husband is on your side, then you can let your husband be a lobbyist to persuade your mother-in-law.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10There are some challenges and difficulties associated with living together, but I think there are positive aspects to this lifestyle.
First of all, living with your parents-in-law strengthens family relationships. Marriage is not just a relationship between two people, the state of the world also involves the integration of two families. Living with your parents-in-law allows you to get to know them better and also deepen your relationship.
In life, both parties can take care of each other and enhance family cohesion, especially when the elderly need to take care of each other. In addition, children can also have better contact with their grandparents and receive more care and education.
Second, living together can reduce the financial burden. Nowadays, housing prices are getting higher and higher, and it also costs a lot of money to buy a house and renovate it. Living with your parents-in-law can reduce your financial burden and share family expenses.
At the same time, the cost of living between family members will be lower, which can make both parties more financially comfortable.
Of course, there are some difficulties and challenges associated with living together. For example, private space may be limited by a single cluster, and both parties need to respect and understand each other. In addition, different living habits can also lead to conflicts and conflicts, requiring mutual adaptation and compromise on both sides.
However, as long as both parties can communicate openly, respect and understand each other, and solve problems together, they can overcome difficulties and establish a harmonious family atmosphere.
Overall, living with your in-laws also has its advantages and disadvantages. This lifestyle is also acceptable if both parties are able to adapt and respect each other and establish a harmonious family atmosphere.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Should I live with my in-laws after marriage? In fact, it mainly depends on the following two points:
1. Whether the in-laws are capable or not determines the quality of life after living together.
After getting married, there are a lot of places to use money at home, congratulations, even more so after giving birth, in addition to bearing the child's tuition and daily living expenses, but also to prepare enough pension money for the elderly.
If you live separately, you will often incur a lot of unnecessary expenses, and it will be too much waste of money. And if you live with your parents-in-law, you can also help take care of the children, so you can focus on your work and make more money.
After getting married, whether to live with the hungry in-laws, the first thing to see is whether the in-laws are capable, some women find that their in-laws are very lazy, and they rarely do housework, basically do it themselves.
If you meet such parents-in-law, it is recommended not to live together, because once you live together, it will have a great impact on the quality of life, and you have to worry about all kinds of housework every day, that is, you will be blamed by your in-laws, and you will live very tired.
2. Do your in-laws like to be nosy, if you keep looking for trouble, you are looking for trouble for yourself.
As for whether to live with their in-laws after marriage, some people think that it is good to live together, they can take care of each other at ordinary times, and their mother-in-law can also help cook three meals a day to ensure that the family eats healthy and safe.
Of course, some people think that it is very unaccustomed to living with their parents-in-law, such as wanting to sleep lazily in the morning, and even after a long time, there will be all kinds of contradictions, and they are uncomfortable.
In fact, whether you want to live with your in-laws depends on whether your in-laws usually like to meddle in things.
Some parents-in-law have unique personalities and conservative thoughts, and they cannot be integrated with the thoughts of young people, and all kinds of contradictions and disputes will arise in the long run.
Some in-laws like to be nosy and can't tolerate and understand young people, so there are constant conflicts.
Let's live separately from my mother-in-law. The old man is unreasonable, which is really a headache. But filial piety can't be ignored, so don't quarrel with her, let alone cut off the relationship. Once you live apart, distance produces beauty, and friction will not affect your relationship with your husband.
As soon as I got married, I really respected them, and I bought whatever I bought for my parents, and sometimes I didn't even buy it for my mother, but bought it for my mother-in-law, for example, I bought two gold necklaces for Mother's Day, one for each person. But my mother said, she has it, I didn't want it, I bought it for my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law said put it there, didn't say anything else, there are many examples, don't say it one by one, just talk about the cause of the matter, my husband is a mother-lover complex, for example, I don't do anything as good as my mother, just got married and kept arguing, just because of housework, and no matter what happens in my family, my husband will talk to his mother, big and small. For example, one thing that the two of us discussed, buy a small washing machine, convenient for washing diapers or something, said that it was okay, but when it was time to eat at noon, his mother knew about it, and did not let him buy it, saying that it could not be washed and so on, in fact, he was afraid of spending money, but I want to tell you that my mother-in-law has never given us a penny since we got married, and every time we eat something and other expenses are our own (my mother-in-law has money, not no money, the old couple has a monthly salary of seven or eight thousand, more than us, and our sister-in-law's family eats at his mother's house all year round, Later, in the end, I didn't buy this washing machine, and when I was confined, my sister saw that my mother was tired and bought one. >>>More
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