Do you think there is anyone who is secretly manipulating our lives?

It doesn't matter, just be yourself and live with love and heart, even if your fate is predetermined, it will swing because of your own behavior.

Hehe, although I don't believe in theology, I believe that fate has already been arranged.

It's a mysterious force that is manipulated.

It is you who secretly manipulate your life!! Doubt it anymore.

You should have watched Ni Kuang's Wesleyan "Toys". There was nothing in the first place, where to stir up dust.

I once took an elective class and watched an old black-and-white movie called "Gaslight." The film tells the story of a heroine who was originally beautiful, confident, and able to think independently, but under the careful psychological manipulation of her husband, she became suspicious of reality and questioned herself, and finally was almost completely controlled by the other party mentally.

One of the classic scenes is that the actor deliberately turns the gas lights in his home on and off. When the heroine expresses her doubts about the abnormal change in lighting, the male protagonist firmly denies it, insisting that it is her hallucination and that she is too suspicious. In the end, the heroine also began to doubt whether her perception was reality.

Later psychological research referred to the emotional manipulation of this relationship by "distorting the reality in the eyes of the victim" to control the other person's emotions was named "gaslighting" (Calef & Weinshel, 1981; gass & nichols, 1988 ）。This kind of manipulation may seem a bit sensational, as if it only appears in movies and ** scenes, but in fact it is very common in relationships, and it is quite powerful.

More than one friend on my side has been manipulated like this. Today's article will also be interspersed with the story of one of my friends, A. In those real scenes, you may find that psychological manipulation is not far away from you.

Before answering this question, we must first clarify a question, whether it is in love, family and friendship, do you have a feeling? No matter how you do it? I feel sorry for her, this feeling is called guilty, it is a subjective feeling, when you do something that you feel violates your conscience, you will regret or feel guilty about your behavior afterwards.

In fact, this kind of guilt is a common means of emotional manipulation, emotional manipulation is a form of soft violence, a kind of psychological abuse, is to manipulate other people's behavior with feelings, and then achieve their own goals, such people, when trying to establish relationships with others, often involuntarily manipulate others, only when others are completely under their control, they will feel safe, emotional manipulation produces a kind of power asymmetry, on the surface I am obedient, In fact, I used your guilt for me in exchange for something I wanted, and the reason for making others feel guilty was actually a lack of deep communication and not expressing my true inner thoughts.

Whether it is intentional manipulation or unintentional control, stopping emotional manipulation is the first step to establish a correct view of love, to reflect on oneself, establish a correct view of love, love is not an emotional manipulation game, there is no win or lose, love is equal, respectful, intimate, two people encourage each other, hand in hand.

I have 2 new concepts here... I checked... I don't seem to see it... Is this really the title?

Is it interesting to tell the classics?

If you really like him, you should digest these things yourself.

Male: Taurus vsFemale: Libra.

Pair index: 40

Constellation gravity: 40:60

Both Taurus and Libra have a common ruling planet, Venus, the goddess of love, who rules love, beauty, and harmony; But other than that, the two signs don't intersect, and it takes a little miracle to sustain a long-lasting relationship. Because there is a potential disharmony between the fluidity of the air signs and the fixity of the earth signs, you should not be afraid of conflict, but pay attention to the most essential problems.

Yes, but whether you love him or not, you also need to be sincere and relative.

No one knows whether there is a soul after death, no one has spoken to the dead, let's believe that everything disappears after death, just live well when you are alive, don't pin the unsatisfactory life in another world, even if people become souls after death and enter another world, life in the real world is not satisfactory in the other world may not be wonderful, so whether people have a soul after death and wait for the real death to know, what has not yet come is not to think so much, in vain to increase troubles.

In scientific terms, there is no such thing, there is only consciousness, and there is no consciousness, as for the phenomenon you are talking about, it should be that you have opened your mind, or you can say that you are awake, and it is also an epiphany in Buddhism.

If the assumption is true, people really have souls after death, so what is the use of souls? In fact, many science fiction genres** write that there is a kind of life that exists as a spiritual body, that is to say, they are a kind of spiritual body that we can't see, but the funny thing is that we can't see it, but they can see each other! This shows that they are also a material existence!

It's just that we can't see it! It's like we can't hear the sound of ultra-low and ultra-high frequencies! In fact, it is very easy to verify that this kind of spiritual body does not exist!

Have you ever seen a three-dimensional transmission image? It is to present the flat image we see in a three-dimensional way! It's still an event!

The same can speak, communicate, and behave! Do you understand the origin of many legends now? However, all of this is just to cover up the existence of immortals!

We are desperately trying to explain that the existence of immortals is just a technological means with everything we know, but we are actually deceiving ourselves! Because we have made too many mistakes, we are afraid of the gods! Many people can't stand this huge pressure of self-condemnation, they will go crazy, they will point fingers at the heavens and the earth, do nonsense, and many times just want the gods to appear in front of them and punish them! Hehe!

There may be, there are foreign countries that specialize in studying these, they call your feeling near-death experience, that is, the experience of dying between life and death, some people see a strong light, some people see the vast sea or endless wilderness, etc., but it cannot be said exactly that this must be a hallucination, because after some people wake up, they can accurately describe the situation when they were rescued by the doctor and the surrounding environment at that time, etc., which is very mysterious.

Your divine consciousness has entered the universe in an instant! But you shouldn't have died, and you're turning around! This is a normal phenomenon that occurs when a person dies!

Don't be surprised! From now on, take refuge in Buddhism! Learn Buddhism honestly!

Read more Buddhist scriptures, open up wisdom, and grow your mind! Don't look away! Everything has a cause and effect!

Yes, it depends on whether you are an idealist or a materialist, you have played bungee jumping before, and you feel that people will hallucinate when they are extremely close to death. You still have to face the beauty of life, after all, you are still alive now, you have to live well, don't think about what happens after death.

Well, that's your soul coming to life, but your consciousness is still in the dark.

People really have a soul after death, and people must have the courage to survive, no matter how great the difficulties they encounter, they should not think of death, because human life is only once.

The ancients said that "people die like lights go out", and a wisp of green smoke will disappear without a trace. When people are on the verge of death, they will have the feeling of being out of their bodies, but in fact, it is a psychedelic consciousness generated by the presence of breath. Consciousness depends on matter, just like a flashlight, when the battery is exhausted, the flashlight will have a trace of afterglow, and the light bulb will not light up again.

Live well.

People really have souls after death, and if you reach the end of your life, you really won't be able to live, so people have to do good deeds and learn the Dharma, so they can know when they will die.

Ha ha. The human soul is made up of the superstring, the smallest unit of life in the universe. Satisfied with this answer.

If you want to open up, you will come to this world once in your life, and you will not be willing to do something. So, don't die, save your life to eat more delicious food, and have some fun.

The way of animals, the way of hungry ghosts, the way of humanity, and the way of heaven are the same, you should still recite the Buddha well.

It's amazing, when I was young, there was an old grandmother near my home, and the news came in the morning, saying that the old grandmother had passed away, and everyone was busy with the funeral, but in the afternoon, the old woman woke up, and she said that she went to a very dark world, where there was no sunlight, and kept going, and someone said that she had not reached her life, and asked her to go back, and she came back

Did you hang yourself and faint quickly? I heard that hanging will soon die, the mortality rate is high, and there is no pain yet, is it true?

There are so many things about the soul that there is no need to distinguish between the true and the false.

There is no reason to discern, to live in the moment.

You can't even live your life well, what's the use of thinking about what will happen after you die?

We will finally not be in touch again, whether you think of me or not, I don't think I have any regrets, because once, how I wished I could continue with you, but in the end I realized that you only saw my turn, but you didn't see through my world.

Man dies like a withered tree, and burns like grass ashes. The so-called soul is the memory of the dead in the consciousness of the living person and the imagination that appears in the dream because of the belief that there is a soul, isn't the dream what it was like when it was alive, and it is not seen in any temple what the person looks like after death, and it is still in the shape of a normal person. The generation of individual people is like a tree, when life has difficulties and disadvantages, if you want to open a point, you should compare with the upper and lower than the next, do not dwell on a certain thing, and the meeting will pass, and you will be happy when you see it, I wish you happiness.

A person who has a mind, a consciousness, and a feeling will have nothing after death? Even according to the law of conservation of energy, it should not be.