What can I do if my loved one has cancer and I can t do anything about it?

You can use those donation apps to donate to your loved ones.

In our society, because the food is not clean and the food is not clean, it is guaranteed to get cancer.

There are more and more people, although the human factor is becoming more and more superb, but there will still be, some, incurable cancer, there is a big reason, that is, in our rural areas, there is no habit of having two physical examinations a year, which leads to the detection of diseases, generally, terminal cancer.

So we must insist on going to the hospital for a physical examination twice a year, to check our physical condition, don't always feel that the examination is a waste of money, and you can't send much money in advance, and you can rest assured that you can get a physical examination once, and the last diseases that are detected in the province are terminal cancer, and you can't cure it if you have money. Your loved one has cancer, and although you don't have the money, you can use those fundraising apps to raise money for your loved one.

Many people have cancer, are using this method, after all, in this society, there are still a lot of good people, the network has a great ability to spread, as long as you post fundraising software on the Internet, I believe there will be many people who donate to you, I think you should also know that in the past two years, this kind of fundraising software has been used by a lot of people, and we also have a lot of people who have donated.

The only advantage of this software is that it can spread to anyone you don't know, and a caring person will donate a little money, no matter how much money he donates, no matter how much power he donates, no matter how little money he does, it will add up to more, and it will be stronger than your strength alone, as long as the illness of your relatives is sent, there are many people who sympathize with her, and you can make up twenty, thirty, thirty, or forty thousand.

So you can't help your loved ones, you don't have to feel self-blame, as long as you have worked hard, I don't know the name of the fundraising software, anyway, there are several, you can search for it, and then put your loved one's medical records.

The name also has a doctor's list, and you can start fundraising by taking a picture of it.

For natural and man-made disasters, sometimes we are really powerless in the face of them! After all, we are not God, and we do not have the ability to cover the sky with one hand. No matter how strong a person is, there is nothing he can do in the face of illness, even if medicine is so advanced now, there are still many diseases that cannot be cured.

All we can do is be strong.

My grandmother, who brought me up since I was a child, passed away some time ago! Because I just gave birth to a baby and the child can't live without me, I still insist on wanting to see my grandmother for the last time. I often cry alone in the middle of the night, thinking back to the days when I was a child and my grandmother.

Think back to the happy times we had together.

I was very angry at why my relatives didn't take good care of my grandmother, and I was very angry that I couldn't take my grandmother to live with me. Living in pain and tangle every day. I quarreled with my parents, why didn't my grandmother take her to live at home during her illness.

Quarrel with your aunt, why don't you take care of your grandmother.

But in the end, I found that in addition to making myself more painful and helpless, the quarrel will also increase the pressure and helplessness of my relatives. It's simply in vain. Hurt others and hurt yourself.

In the past few days, I have eased a little, and after thinking about it, I apologized to them, explained my immature behavior to them, and they also understood my relationship with my grandmother. I think my mother and aunt must be more uncomfortable than me, after all, it was my own mother who died! How can I condemn them and rub salt in their wounds?

So what you can do now is you have to calm down first. Don't feel like you can't do anything, maybe your words of comfort are more than all of them. Calm down, find a way to ** the disease, and let your relatives spend their last days quietly and happily if they can't be cured.

Birth, old age, sickness and death are human nature and natural laws, don't be too sorry, if you love your relatives, he will also hope that you can not worry about him, sometimes people's lives are destined, patients can not do what we have to continue for them, so that they can have a good mood, maybe miracles will happen.

When it comes to cancer, there are usually four types of people who appear:

The first type of person is panicked, who is terrified all day long, fearing that the cancer will worsen and threaten his life.

The second type of person, the appointee, learned that he had cancer, so he sentenced himself to death and took up the mandate of heaven.

The third type of people, the rejection type, often never admit that they have cancer, thinking that there is a problem with the diagnosis, so they never believe that they have cancer. Refuse**, and don't worry.

The fourth type of people, fighting type, after they learned that they had cancer, they made up their minds to fight against cancer, to fight against fate, to gamble with their lives, and actively cooperate with modern medical treatment, plus their own anti-cancer experience, these people finally set up an anti-cancer club to jointly resist cancer, and many people have cancer and live for more than ten years.

Most of the first and second types of people died of cancer quickly, and they were all scared to death, while the third and fourth types of people survived, with a good mentality, physical and mental transformation, and emotions had a particularly great impact on cancer cells.

As a relative of the patient, if you can help the patient adjust her mentality to ** cancer, adjusting her mood and prolonging life is the greatest help. As for how to help, you yourself are an expert on your own problems.

Help him release her, I know a woman with uterine cancer released well, I heard others say that she is still married, it's incredible....Another cancer is also very well controlled, I see her often, three years. There's no need to lie to you.

Buddhism teaches people life and death, enlightens wisdom, sees through and lets go, and dies in the blissful world.

Cancer is caused by excessive plastic pollution in the home, usually when the home is renovated or built. It is a healthy person who is poisoned, and he can heal himself if he leaves.

Tell him that there is a way to relieve it on his diet.

Always comfort and comfort him (her), don't keep mentioning her (him) cancer, and talk more about happy things.