Why can t I meet someone I love and love me?

Don't be too anxious, if you believe in fate, just rest assured, love will come when it should come, don't worry, if you really want to find the person you love now, first of all, change yourself, make yourself attractive, others will fall in love with you, secondly, let yourself learn to be considerate, care about people, the most important thing is to learn to love, even if your lover has not yet appeared, but as long as you know how to love, love is mutual, is both sides, no one will love you, so, don't give up, come on, The season of love is the most beautiful, maybe love is all around you, but you just haven't found it!! ＊

It's yours is yours, it's not you and me, it's useless for you to be in a hurry, it's useless for you to be in a hurry, I'm like you and me, I used to be looking for my true love, but now I won't, I want to wait quietly for it to appear, the only thing to do now is to have capital, if you come, it's over.

Don't be too anxious, it's just that your fate hasn't arrived, are you waiting?

Don't worry.

Falling flowers are intentional, and the flowing water is ruthless

You may not be able to wait until the day when the flowers fall and the water is affectionate

Love? Bullshit.

I never believe in bullshit love, to use the most realistic analogy, if you are a billionaire, there will be thousands of people who love you, if you are not, then don't talk about any love, you are not qualified, people live realistically, no matter what kind of love, what is the sea is rotten, white head will become worthless in the face of money.

Emptiness is at work

If I had to choose, I would still choose what I liked.

What I don't like may only be touched by him, but it won't be a genuine like, so be sure to look for it carefully...

Good luck! Happiness

Sour. Falling flowers intentionally follow the flowing water, and the flowing water has no intention of falling flowers.

Don't be in a hurry. Glad your screen name is the same as my previous name.

Because your guy hasn't shown up yet, but you can fight for it.

Let us do whatever we want! I'm just like you. Maybe he will appear in your dreams when you don't think so.

In the process of interacting with others, it is always easy for us to fall into the trap of our own preconceived ideas. I always feel that sincerity is the result of gold and stone. As long as you give sincerity, you will definitely gain sincerity. But in fact, how can life be so simple?

There are some people who appear in your life just to tell you what a son of a son is. In the face of such a person, you are still struggling to pursue and try to find opportunities and reasons for him, which is not kindness, but stupidity.

Of course, whether it is a friend or a lover, in the process of getting along with each other, there will definitely be a lot of contradictions. In the face of these contradictions, you should analyze rationally, is it just a disagreement, or has he never really treated you?

Generally speaking, when a person will often do this to you, it is disgusting with you, hurry up and block it, don't continue.

1.Often speak ill of you behind your back.

People who treat you sincerely, it's too late to defend you, how can they slander you?

A person who slanders you, even if he shows a very warm attitude in front of you, is only an illusion created by him.

The real situation is how bright he smiles when facing you, and how much he dislikes you when he turns his back to you. Make friends, fall in love, what you want is sincerity and sincerity, if you don't want to treat me well, then why should I be merciful to you?

Therefore, when a person will often slander you behind your back, put all kinds of labels on you, and smear your reputation, then no matter how long you have known each other, even if your relationship is deep, it is better to quickly block and delete it! Otherwise, your sincerity will only be viciously smeared.

The harder you try to maintain the relationship with each other, he will only trample on it again and again, so what is the need for your kindness?

2.I always borrow money from you, and I don't pay it back.

No one's money is blown by the wind, and even if you are really rich, you should spend it on people who deserve it, not on those who are cheap and sell well.

It is normal for friends and lovers to help each other. However, if a person treats your kindness as a donkey's liver and lungs, and treats you as a wronged person. Then the most important thing you should do is let him roll as far as he can.

Therefore, if a person always borrows money from you, but never pays you back, the difference is thirty or fifty, the most is three or five hundred, or even thousands, tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands, but he never mentions the matter of repaying the money. Moreover, once you remind him to pay back the money, he will instead call you stingy, say that you don't trust him, and that you don't look at your friends' feelings. Such a person is actually relying on your kindness to him, being unscrupulous towards you, and shamelessly demanding.

In the face of such a person, you must ask him to return the money to you, or let him pay the due price, and then block him immediately. Otherwise, in the long run, the last person to suffer is destined to be you.

Summary. Hello <>

Dear, glad to answer for you. If you can't meet someone who loves you, there are the following reasons, personal conditions and values: your personal conditions and values may not meet the requirements of most people, such as not outstanding in appearance, flawed personality, no stable income or career planning, etc., and the expectation and pursuit of love are not active enough, not too confident, and lack of action, which will lead to difficulty in finding someone who loves you.

Why can't I meet someone who loves me?

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Dear, glad to answer for you. If you can't meet someone who loves you, there are the following reasons, personal conditions and values: your personal conditions and values may not meet the requirements of most people, such as not outstanding in appearance, personality defects, no stable income or career plan, etc., and the expectations and pursuit of love are not active enough, not too self-confident, and lack of action, which will lead to difficulty in finding someone who loves you.

What do you mean? Are you a boy?

Do you usually know how boring your friends of the opposite sex are? What do you usually do when you're with your friends? You can describe it in detail, and I'll analyze it for you.

Not much, usually work, one to stay.

Person. That's the problem, you're more introverted. Likes to be alone.

1. People who have requirements for themselves have never had a bad time, the more ruthless they are to themselves, the smoother their feelings, and the more ruthless they are to each other, the farther their feelings are.

2. Those love that makes you feel painful and sadistic, please let go as soon as possible, don't be afraid to find no regrets to your heart, you must know that under the premise of your excellence, find the person you really love in your heart, you will find that the sun sprinkled by the breeze is so dazzling, the streets are so clean, the air you breathe is sweet, and the world is so beautiful.

**。3. Please remember that no matter when, your 80 years of time should be used on yourself, whether it is reading, socializing, traveling, or working, you will find that love not only does not leave, but will get better and better.

4. It is very important to choose people, if the other party is a mature person, your sensibility and understanding are all pluses, if the other party is an abusive person, these beautiful qualities in you will become mediocre and boring.

5. Please believe that things gather by like, people by groups, when your own comprehensive value, including your mentality, skills, literacy, personality, etc., how many are they, and the people you match are naturally about the same level.

6. Don't believe in the nonsense that girls are too independent and bad, this is a serious mistake in chicken soup, the more independent you are, the higher your emotional intelligence, learn how to deal with interpersonal relationships, your love object, the higher the quality of love.

7. When the world is full of various love regulations, learn to correctly judge its gold content, and develop the habit of thinking independently, and your view of love will be a long distance from others.

True love is hard to come by, as long as you actively work hard to find it, I believe that one day you will find your true love.

Each of us hopes that we can get a happy and sweet love, and we strive for it. ......Among them, the love at first sight love that touches the heart at first sight is the most romantic and what we look forward to. But that doesn't mean that we will give up when we meet a boy or girl who doesn't have a crush at first sight.

The reason why I say this is because love at first sight is hard to find, people can only really understand each other through long-term interactions, and love should be rational and not emotional.

1. Love at first sight is unattainable, so it cannot be forced.

At first sight, this kind of love at first sight is the most romantic, and it is also the most enviable and expected headshot. ......But this kind of love is hard to come by, and only a very small number of people can get such love, and it is undesirable for most people. ......Therefore, we can't force this kind of love, even if we can't meet it, we should choose it rationally.

2. People can only really understand each other through long-term interactions.

Fundamentally, for two people to fully understand each other, they must be able to achieve it through a long relationship. ......Therefore, the kind of love at first sight, although it may be romantic, is not necessarily the best state of love. ......In fact, for love with the goal of lifelong companionship, two people who love each other should still get a full understanding through long-term dating, in order to achieve true happiness.

3. For love, we should be rational, not emotional.

Although love is a kind of feeling, the process of pursuing love cannot only focus on feelings. ......Emotional love is destined to fail to achieve a satisfactory result, so the kind of love at first sight that looks at the first glance of the heart does not necessarily lead to happiness, only through rational analysis and judgment, choose the most suitable person for yourself as a partner, in order to find a lover who is truly suitable for you. ......Therefore, even if we meet a boy or girl who is not attracted at first sight, we should continue to choose and give each other enough time to get to know each other, so that we can leave no regrets.