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You should know that no one will ask a silent person to say something "earth-shattering", don't take other people's opinions too seriously, don't demand too much from yourself, calm down, and don't be nervous at that time.
Maybe you can seriously think about it now, plan for the worst, take into account any situation as much as possible, and then mentally teach yourself to accept the worst possible outcome, and then figure out how to perform at your best.
Any problem, as long as you prepare in advance (see the problem and find a solution), it can always be solved. And doing so will give you confidence, give it a try!
Believe in yourself and you can do it!
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First of all, you need to be calm, calm, and confident. Finally, familiarize yourself with the implementation of the speech a few times, and then follow it on that day.
Don't be nervous, you will be overwhelmed by the tension. Believe that you can do it well, and those are your colleagues.
You can just talk about what you've learned, like how enjoyable you are working here, and you can say whatever comes to mind. A little more atmospheric!!
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Don't talk about it. It will make people feel that you are fake, although you have to be fake in society, but what you don't say makes people feel too fake, that's not good.
Tell me about the situation when you first came, who helped you, the more detailed the better, to show that you are grateful. Tell us about the changes and prospects of the company.
Finally, let's talk about the day's food. When it's a funny ending.
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Start with a draft, a few short lines. Don't be nervous when you go on stage, just keep your head down and read the draft, and say thank you at the end.
It doesn't matter, even the United States has to read it according to the draft.
Moreover, you usually have to talk to people more, so that you will speak more fluently and topically, and your personality will be more cheerful.
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Tell something funny, joke anything, pat the horse.
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Be confident, girlfriends are relatively close people, so you have to relax, so that you can talk eloquently, have good communication, and the two can have a long-lasting relationship. Read some articles aloud often, exercise your eloquence Come on, bless you
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From the woman's point of view, if she is really interested in you, then whatever you do is good. It doesn't matter if you are perfect or not, show your truest self, if you stay with her for a while, you still feel very nervous, then just tell her that she will feel that you are very honest and understand you, and there will be time to slowly improve in the future. In fact, when a person tells the other party truthfully, the other party will know more about themselves, so that the relationship between the two people will be more relaxed and natural, and they will not be so nervous.
If you want to have a sense of humor, you can watch more comedies, or books about it, and it shouldn't be difficult to be humorous. And there are jokes everywhere in life, just like some of your special experiences, as long as you are good at observing, recalling, and collecting. But the main thing you need now is to solve the question of how not to be nervous, and when this problem is solved, you can set a goal.
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Friends, we seem to be a bit alike, but we are not used to showing our confident side to everyone, when talking to others, consciously talk about what you are good at, don't rush to finish everything you know at once, learn to listen to what others say, and then consciously slow down the speed of speech when you speak, raise your voice, practice more, and you will find that the people around you are more willing to talk to you than before, as for how to be humorous, that is, humor comes from life, and you should find the aspects that the other party may be interested in in the other party's conversation In connection with the things that have become more popular recently, and then don't be so serious about everything, and life sometimes needs leisure.
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There's something to talk about.,Idle talk.,Anything can be pulled.,As for the other question.,There's no need to think too much.,Your girlfriend likes you and won't care too much about this issue at all.,Just talk more and practice a few more times.。。
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You've got a mouth, you're a human being, and there's no reason why you can't speak.
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Be bold, after all, it's a boy, be cheerful, and slowly become more topical.
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It's easy to be humorous, as long as you're good at observing things in life and connecting with something funny. Don't be nervous when speaking, watch more comedies, learn the humorous characters in it, and I'm sure you will definitely be confident!
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There is nothing wrong with being silent, being silent when you should be silent, and being cheerful when you should be cheerful. People are different, it's just a character, only when you're in your own world, you can do whatever you want. Otherwise, why are you so tired of being a human being..?
The true self belongs only to oneself.
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Silence is just a copy of a person's personality trait, maybe Bai people are just introverted and a little shy. Zhi silence does not mean that this person is withdrawn, most of them do not want to participate in your conversation, they are not interested in these things, if they are interested, they may speak freely. An occasional word or two can also liven up the atmosphere.
But silence is not always good, know that communicating with people can not only expand your social circle, but also increase your knowledge, know what to say in what kind of situation so as not to appear abrupt and awkward. High IQ is slightly better than high EQ. If it does not erupt in silence, it perishes in silence, silence when it should be silence, justification when it should justify, and voice when it is time to speak.
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Silent people are often more likely to disguise themselves, such a more insidious, on the surface looks upright, whether it is upright depends on what he does, can't rely on feeling or speaking, people with high IQ, sometimes they can't meet a confidant and will be silent!
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To be a man is to be a play, to be silent when you should be silent, and to be cheerful when you should be cheerful. Only when you are in your own world, you can do whatever you want. Otherwise, why are you so tired of being a human being..? The true self belongs only to oneself.
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Silence is not that he doesn't like to talk, it's that he doesn't have the right object or the right topic, or it's just a way for him to express a certain feeling.
I like a challenge, and the more silent a person is, the more I want him to speak. Because silent people are often very connotative!
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In fact, many geniuses or people who are very talented in a certain field are more introverted and more silent.
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In fact, silent people can also have very rich feelings, although they do not express themselves through speaking, but they give people a kind of.
DAO is mature and stable.
Because they don't talk much, every sentence has been carefully considered by themselves, and they speak more appropriately and boldly.
Such a person can give people a strong sense of security and trust, and it is often easy to gain the trust of others, easy to achieve a lot of results, and the level of life is getting higher and higher.
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A silent person is not necessarily that he does not like to talk and does not like to socialize with everyone. Some people are silent on the surface, but they are actually very active on the inside. An individual with a different personality is an emotional animal. In fact, the heart is very rich. It makes people very stable, and some people are frizzy.
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If you look at bai open, you can be more happy.
du;If you care, you will have more troubles; If the dao understands, it will have more understanding; If you work hard, you will get more genera; If you are content, you will be happier; If you put it down, it will feel relaxed.
Life in the world, it should be like this, while fragrant others, beautiful yourself; While beautifying oneself, fragrance others. In life, there should be something to do and something not to do. Life is like a play, with ups and downs, wind and waves, still water, etc.; The clouds are also covered, and the sun is also welcomed.
Life is a big stage, everyone has their own plot, look down, the mood will be smooth, see open, the heart is clear.
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It's humorous and silent. Such people are very smart.
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Silent and funny.
Most of them belong to the sullen constitution of cold on the outside and hot on the inside.
Cultivate common hobbies and give each other a sense of groundedness.
Show your strengths and slowly capture their hearts.
It's much better to be silent than to talk about people everywhere.
If one person is very good at flirting with you, then he can also flirt with others.
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Personally, I don't want to be a talkative person. Although the public thinks that it is healthy
Talking is a plus. Of course, being too talkative and rambling is enough to make people bored. I don't want to be someone else's microphone. And for those who are silent in speech, it can be said that being able to have good ideas is not the same as being able to express them.
In short, people have to speak, to have all kinds of relationships with the people around them. Speaking also means taking responsibility for our words and actions. Even if the words spoken will offend the interests of others, speech is free.
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Silence is a kind of inner cultivation, a manifestation of wealth and hidden depths.
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It should be a more introverted personality and not too public. But such people are more down-to-earth and can be trusted.
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Silent people are just silent to you, for finding someone they want to chat, they can really talk for three days and three nights without stopping, not talking to you just don't want to talk to you, it doesn't mean that she doesn't talk to anyone.
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Shoot when it's time to strike. Silence is golden. If you don't fly, it's enough. Soaring.
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I think silence is golden, and sometimes it's okay not to speak.
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The type of silence is different, I can't comment on it.
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When you notice a girlfriend.
When a friend wants to break up, what can I do to get my girlfriend back? At this time, the parties will compare.
The blind answer often does something counterproductive, which not only fails to save his girlfriend, but also worsens the situation and makes his girlfriend even more disappointed. So, when encountering such a situation, how can a man effectively save his girlfriend?
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Listening to you, it seems that your words are always misunderstood by others, right?
If that's the case, I suggest you have two options: One: be brave and say it.
No matter how dissatisfied everyone is with your eloquence, you have to go on with all the stops. After a long time, although everyone feels that your words are not good, they also know that you are not malicious, and sometimes, you will make some jokes when you say the wrong thing, you don't have to be shy, after a long time, everyone will also think that you are a ridiculous person, which will make everyone's atmosphere feel relaxed, so that everyone will take the initiative to get close to you.
Two: Then you will be a silent person, as long as you are a sincere and honest person, in this way, after a long time, although you don't like to talk, everyone sees you as honest and sincere, so that everyone will recognize you.
In any case, I still know my own problems best, so I can only give you some advice, and to find some methods that suit you, you still have to rely on your own exploration.
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If a friend is familiar with you, it won't suggest anything.
It is still recommended that you read more books on how to deal with interpersonal relationships, and try to express yourself in euphemism in language, although sometimes what you say is right, but it must also be acceptable to people, and will not refute his face, after all, people still care about that face!
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What should be said is to be said, it's better not to be too loud, don't be afraid of being misunderstood if you think it's the right point, occasionally say more to explain why you said those words, so that everyone understands psychologically.
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Don't talk about flattery, hypocrisy.
Don't talk about things that hurt people and say things that are arrogant.
Don't be too busy lifting the bar.
When criticizing others, don't be responsible for other people's lives, but judge things on their own merits.
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Just look at the communicative books for this.
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In fact, before you speak, you should think about what you are going to say.
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It's good not to say it, and if you see through life, everything is faint, and it won't be so much like talking.
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Love says it's in your nature! Don't change it easily! You're going to be miserable! Hehe.
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Actually, you can't say that.
Sometimes silence is also a technique.
It's just that if you do this for a long time, it will not sell your personal physical and mental well.
After all, in today's society, there is still a need for active people.
If you keep silent, you are suspected of autism.
Why not open your heart and try to get along with everyone around you.
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