What should I do if my classmates feel guilty about themselves, should I feel guilty about myself?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Please tell this classmate of yours that she has nothing to blame for. On the contrary, her "refusal" is sane. Because students are students, they should focus on learning.

    And those students who are willing to give up their studies and fall into distraction are completely caused by their own subjective reasons, what is "no motivation"? Don't listen to what he says, it has nothing to do with the so-called "rejected confession" at all. Even if he didn't refuse at the time, such a person would not be productive, just by nature.

    How can a teenager with a healthy mind and sound mind easily give up his good time because his confession to the opposite sex is "rejected"? This shows that people themselves have no sense of responsibility and are already indulgent. Therefore, such a person should be very self-reflective, and there is no need for others to blame themselves for it.

    If this female classmate of yours goes to show them something because of self-blame, if he is sure to express it well, it may be beneficial, but if he is not sure, he will fall into the quagmire. The muddy waters that have subsided, don't stir them anymore.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hello. Don't be sad, the world is impermanent, there are many changes, the boss will understand your difficulties, besides, two-way choice, next time you must tell the boss about your difficulties, communication. If the boss is reasonable, solve it properly. Don't let him down!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's not that I'm timid, I can't do it in the future, it's hard to get a foothold in society, I'm doing an internship now, they think I'm cowardly, and it's easy to be bullied! In the words of my teacher, it is only with thick skin that you can live a good life! Come on, forget about this after this is over, and pay attention to it in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's really important to be a good person. I do my best to do what I promise others now, because I read an article not long ago and realized that there is a problem with the city's letter.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't overdo it during this time to make him think that you care about this matter, which will make him very helpless, because he doesn't pay attention to it at all. And don't invite him to dinner. If you are in the same class as him, you should be kind to him in some aspects, silently compensate for your fault, he knows everything, and you will definitely take a deep position in his heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's okay, explain it to him well, with an apologetic tone, people are soft-hearted, and their classmates will forgive you, as long as everything is said and done, there is nothing that can't be passed, don't fight and don't know each other, maybe you will become good friends in the future, bless you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Find a suitable time to ask him for a snack, don't seem too deliberate, or others will feel embarrassed, just be naturally generous.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Two options 1, put it on the table, be generous, and apologize. Say something nice! 2. If it is over, give favors in the future and deal with the relationship! The relationship is in place, it's all trivial!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Tell him, friend, if you take my phone, please give it back to me, I hope you will tell the truth! No matter what the outcome is, I'm still friends with you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find a reason to invite him to dinner, remember, find a reason. Don't say ask him because the phone is apologizing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Have you murdered him, if so, apologize sincerely to him, if not, don't blame yourself! Don't do that next time, be careful.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Just say to him (her) sincerely: "I'm sorry, I misunderstood you, please forgive me." "If it's a good friend, I'll generally forgive you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He's not upset, it's just that you can't think about it, it's just your own wishful thinking, he doesn't have anything to do... Don't think about it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's a man, how can there be so much twisting between men. Just make it clear to him that it's over.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You feel sorry for your classmate because you misunderstood that he took your mobile phone, and your heart is entangled, it shows that you care a lot about friendship with him, whether your classmate really forgives you or not, I think it is necessary for you to explain it to him, and tell him the reason why you have difficulty trusting others, let him know that it is not that you don't trust him alone, but that you are insecure, and I believe that only a reasonable reason can unravel the mustard in his heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Make an appointment with a time and place, and solemnly apologize to him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Find a chance to explain it to him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Go and explain the situation to him, after all, now that things have happened, you can't change it no matter what, only have the courage to face it, let him feel your sincerity and regret, and apologize to him!

    I wish you a long friendship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Be honest with your classmates.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Can you hide it? It's not comfortable to hide it for a lifetime! There are shadows!

    Therefore, if you can't repay it with your own strength, and you are in a hurry, then you still take the initiative to confess to your parents, your parents still love you, just to educate you, as long as you progress and perform well, they feel that it is worth it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can't always owe it if you can't afford it yourself, face it sooner or later, it's better to be a day late, parents always love their children, no matter what, as long as you admit your mistakes with a good attitude.

    You write a review and put it in your pocket, and then go and tell your parents that you must not talk back, and that your mistake is your mistake and don't defend it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Tell him about his situation, give him an IOU, repay the interest, and say that he will pay him back in a few years, or just tell his parents directly, everything will pass, don't miss your good future because of this little thing.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It can only be said that you are too easy to promise others! It seems that you have to slowly save money to pay back to your classmates. Take your time and work hard.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Well, see if your friends are in a hurry to find this thing, if they are in a hurry! Slowly save some for yourself! After all, you can't break your trust.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Generally speaking, foreign workers can be employed, but child labor is not allowed in China.

    So I still told my parents that it was good, not that it was an eternal pain, but that it was only a temporary pain.

    I think saving money is what to say. After all, it takes me 10 months to save 1,000 yuan, and it depends on whether your classmates can afford to wait, and you can save money if you can afford it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If it's a woman, let's pay for it, and the man asks him if he stirs the foundation?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I seem to have done this kind of thing before, and at first I was afraid to tell my parents, but later I found out that it was not a big deal.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I owe 1200, do you feel better landlord?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Tell him not to be sad about this. It's not his fault, just let him be cautious next time.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's not hypocritical, on the contrary, it's very real to live, it's normal to hope that you are friends with rich officials, you don't want to be friends with classmates from poor families, there must be your reasons, no matter what the reason is, but this is a person's freedom and choice, no need to blame yourself, if you force yourself to accept what you don't want to accept is really hypocrisy.

    There are many reasons why I am reluctant to be friends with classmates from poor families, it may be because I am afraid that being friends with poor classmates will become a burden, and there are also because of the material disparity factors, everyone has different interests and living habits, so they can't find a common topic; There are also people who want to get closer to the rich and alienate the poor because they are already poor themselves. Whatever the reason, there is no need to look at it with contempt and an attitude of judging right and wrong, because this is freedom and a right, and it is a reality.

    In fact, from another point of view, poor students don't necessarily want to be friends with rich students, so don't just think about whether you are willing and ignore whether others are willing, because the same poor students also have the freedom and right to choose!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then go and make friends with them. In fact, you can't discriminate against those classmates who are from poor families, they are children, and they can't change it if they are born in a poor family, it's not their fault. But they don't have low self-esteem, they work hard to change their fate, and they still have qualities worth learning, so you can't discriminate against them, be good friends with them, now!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's nothing, who do you want to be friends with? That's your own freedom, don't think too much about yourself, most people are different, some people can be friends with anyone, some people have very little, that's because everyone's experience is different, the choice is different, you want to be the opposite, you don't want to be friends, and the reality is to do it, then it may be a bit hypocritical, don't think too much about yourself, feel at ease to be yourself.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Then go and make friends with him, maybe you can feel better, and it won't hurt him, and it's not his fault that you consider poverty for others to take the test, as long as he has a good character.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Explain as much as you can, prove yourself pure.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It depends on whether the criticism is right or not, if it is what he does wrong, you can say that he is everyone, not necessarily a class cadre. And I can't help but blame myself, everyone has the right to make mistakes, as long as they can learn from it and do better next time. As long as you are upright and sit upright, you don't have to be afraid, and other classmates won't blame you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    A class cadre has to mingle with everyone and communicate more with classmates If someone else makes a mistake, you have to remind and warn him first, if you really can't do it, just remember your name You have no reason to blame yourself for such a classmate who has repeatedly taught Some good students occasionally make mistakes You try not to remember his name If it's a big event, you report to the teacher, and he won't blame you For example, if you make small movements, you don't have to report to the teacher, and it's easy to make upset.

    If you see someone who is unhappy, you must find a reason why people have nothing to say, in fact, you have to be popular with everyone, just be easy-going.

    Remember, make a move when it's time to make a move, and you can't help but be afraid of this, that, no one likes it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There is really no need to criticize them. As a class cadre, the important thing is the mass foundation. Play more with them and work for the benefit of your classmates, so they will like you more. So if you blame yourself, pay attention to it later, why make them unhappy and you won't be happy, right?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You should be clear about your responsibilities, and as a class leader, it is your duty to point out and help correct the shortcomings of your classmates. You should be aware of your identity and responsibilities and do what you think is right.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Since you are a class cadre, you should learn to be selfless.

    If it's really their fault, there's no need to blame yourself.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's useless to say more, three words, it's okay.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you love her, don't mind her past, if you love her, take care of her for a lifetime, go through it with heart and affection, no regrets, so I hope she is happy to love and happy to face your sincerity.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You say that that love is your teacher, it teaches you what love is and how to love. I am so lucky to have met you, I understand you and need your love even more. How can you see a rainbow without wind and rain!

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