Why can t you do your own thing?

Actually, don't be so pessimistic, I can feel from the above paragraph that you pass on to me the feeling that you are very self-motivated, enterprising, crisis-conscious, and a person who cares a lot about other people's opinions and has a sense of responsibility. You may not have adapted to the underlying rules in the workplace, adaptation is a process, too nervous will hinder your thinking, take it easy! Remember not to look at what you don't have, look at your own advantages, everyone's life is different, don't pursue comparisons with others, your life has your own wonderful!!

First of all, you must be clear about which things are more important and urgent, and you must be the first to deal with them, important and urgent things. This kind of thing has to be done right away.

2) Important things that are not urgent. For this kind of thing, you must set a specific time to do it, and you can't decide so-so, I will do it in a while.

3) Something unimportant but urgent. Leaders can delegate to others when they encounter this kind of thing. If it's a regular employee, you have to do it yourself.

4) Something that is not important or urgent. At work, energy is limited, and for some such things, you can choose to give up depending on the situation.

There is a clear lack of confidence, and things must be prioritized, and at least you must know that it is better not to have a sense of dependence, or I can guarantee that you will achieve nothing.

It's better to make a small arrangement in advance, so that you can have time to organize things.

People can't do things all at once, and they have to go through some setbacks, so don't worry. However, whether you do things or work well in the future, you should pay attention to it, make a little progress every day, and slowly you will naturally become excellent in a year or two

Participate in group activities and communicate with others. Learn skills and develop your hobbies. It helps to improve your self-confidence and develop better. Believe in yourself, persevere and work hard You will gain a better version of yourself.

No one is born to deal with this or that.

However, we can learn.

Do not be discouraged, and do not hold a grudge against them.

Don't beat yourself up! The more you face setbacks, the more you have to be strong to challenge the impossible!

You are a kind of personality, you demand perfection, you have high requirements for yourself, it's okay, relax, don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't take it too seriously! Such people tend to be very serious in their work, which is not a bad thing, and I am the same.

Hello, according to the feelings you copied and described yourself, I think that you can take a preliminary test.

Bai is worried about the inferiority complex caused by the strong Du self-esteem

This is a negative psychological tendency with low self-evaluation, which belongs to the general psychological problem. Therefore, I suggest that you need to consider that what you need to consider at present is to help yourself seek professional psychological counseling in terms of personal growth that I provide for you, so as to help you further improve your personality characteristics, effectively eliminate the psychological factors that cause you to have a strong inferiority complex, and enhance your psychological quality, so as to help you get rid of your current troubles as soon as possible.

Talk about it, you have to know that your parents are also good to you, and parents all over the world want their children to be good, so you have to talk to them and change your own shortcomings.

Then make a list, plan everything after getting up every day, and improve day by day, and it will slowly get better.

What's the matter, since that's the case, don't wronged yourself, do what you want, don't care about others, in fact, only you won't treat yourself badly, they don't understand you.

Maybe your personality is quiet, introverted, and hungry. Failing to do anything may be because you are holding yourself too high. Here are a few suggestions for you to change your current situation:

1. Actively participate in social activities and exercise yourself to be more lively and outgoing in terms of personality;

2. Establish a good attitude, seriously think about your own standards for doing things well, and think about whether your standards are too high;

3. Communicate more with peers and elders.

Be confident and believe that you are doing your own thing. Don't care too much about what others think.

It's not that you don't remember well, it's that you don't recognize the truth, you carefully click bai to write down every order, how can you not! At the beginning, I am not familiar with the dao point, but I should be careful. How to improve self-confidence Everyone has setbacks at times, but don't doubt your ability because of temporary setbacks, and then form a kind of pressure.

When you encounter setbacks, you should keep your mind clear, face reality, face it bravely, and don't run away from it.

It is inevitable to just leave the society, and be brave enough to face the complexity of society!

Society is a materialistic society, if you have the ability to bring benefits to others, others will think you are good, and if you can't bring benefits, others will alienate you. Maybe you don't realize that your mind is delicate and cares about other people's feelings, but the reality is like this, no matter who you care about or not, it doesn't matter, all interests come first. For example, they all call Ma Yunma's father not that he is really like his father, but that he has money and experience in making money, so people approach him, on the contrary, will people call a beggar a father, unless he is also a beggar?

I feel that your current problem is to make feelings, family affection, friendship, and love the focus of interpersonal relationships, and the most important things. But the reality is that money is the bond that maintains interpersonal relationships, except for direct blood relatives, it is estimated that no one cares about your feelings, and there are always more people who read jokes than help you. So, let yourself live well, (I'm a man) let your parents, wives and children live well, where other people love it, they won't care about your life or death, why do you worry about others, put your worries on yourself, maybe we will get rich.

Remember 1. Love your parents, your wife and children. 2. No one asks about the poor in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.

It's not that you're not good enough, it's just that you're not going well for the time being. We all face adversity, and the key is to get through it.

Don't want to cite others who are more difficult than you.

Because there are too many, and this is not good, you should not conclude that you are happier or lucky through this comparison.

There are some things that are hard to change by man.

But what you can do if you do your best.

What's there to regret.

Don't imagine yourself as the superman who saves the world.

You are very sensible and capable.

It is also very demanding of yourself and life.

Now it's just a momentary loss of courage.

It may be that you are independent, a little tired.

Don't think too much about it, I've been starting to be kind to myself lately.

Eat your favorite food and buy your favorite clothes.

Coax yourself to be happy.

All you can do is try to make yourself better.

There are a lot of helpless things in the world, and if they can be solved, do them.

If you can't just let go and accept it, things won't disappear or be forgotten, but how you look at it, but sometimes two people solve it better than one person, depending on how you measure the problem.

This one has connotations.

In fact, I often have such feelings, bad grades, bad temper, and bad character. But later, as long as you calm down and think about it, you still have a lot of time to cultivate in the future, and grades are not the factor that determines everything. If you do something that is fun for yourself, you may be able to relax a little.

There is pressure, but you have to keep it right.

Not enough experience. Advice, the establishment of a record of handling things, what is not handled well, where is not good, whether it can be improved, if not, what is the reason, improve yourself. Record what you do well and motivate yourself. After three months, there will be a small success, and a year later, there will be a large success.

You've made a bad mark for yourself. If you want to change yourself, don't think that you are not good at doing things. Learn to be confident and learn to cheer yourself up. Every time I finish something, I have to think that next time I will do better. Come on, buddy

Maybe it's because you've done less and don't have the experience to do so. If defeat is not a big problem, usually pay more attention to life and help others, you will naturally feel that you can do things smoothly.

Don't be bullied, what you think about is that your relatives will be more than you want, but the problem is that he respects you. How can you get along if they don't respect you?

If you don't want to be estranged, just say it and see if he changes and admits his mistakes. If you don't change, don't admit your mistakes, forget it, keep your distance.

Alienate him, isn't it angry to get along with this kind of person!

This depends on the person, and everyone's hobbies, interests, and environment are different, so it cannot be generalized, because everyone in the world is unique.

Build self-confidence, I am born to be useful.

Because life is like this, no one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just keep in mind:

Don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sun is always after the wind and rain! I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.

Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.

Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.

Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.

Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.

Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it!

Finally, I wish you a happy life!

Only by being thoughtful and thinking about everything, you should discuss more with the people around you and listen to their opinions, so that you can strengthen yourself.

It's not that you're not perfect, it's that you demand perfection from yourself, I've had this experience, I suggest you still do it with a normal heart, as for the result we can't predict, but just ask for a clear conscience!

Are you asking too much!? Think from someone else's point of view before you do something, so that it won't be thankless, but don't care too much about other people's feelings, there will always be people who are not satisfied with you! Get a little optimistic!

You're much happier than I am, at least you're careful.

In fact, no one can be perfect, just do your best.

If you want to do something perfect, it's going to be a second time you've done it, because the first time it's for you to learn from it, and the second time you do it, you know the ins and outs of it, and you can take control of it.

Careful people can't do things perfectly.

No one is perfect, so why should you care too much about perfection, if your heart is a little empty, you will be stronger.

Work hard, work hard, work hard, work hard.

I'm the same, because I'm not careful enough, not serious enough

Do things quietly and treat everyone with gratitude.

Take it for granted and go with the flow.