What can I do to stop worrying???????? Alas

Are you a Cancer? Your calculations show that you care, and every girl wants to be pampered and cared for. Is it that you are too young, every pair of people together has their way together, when you know what he does to represent, it means that you already know each other and have a tacit understanding.

Love or not? How much love? It's just too hard to ask.

So, Duoduo found out that he was good, he didn't send you home, maybe he still had something important, and then he thought that you could go home by yourself before it was too late, he couldn't remember what you liked to eat, forgot Valentine's Day, maybe he was busy with something and was very careless. The relationship between two people is a process, in this stage of doubt and denial, please believe him, think more for him, take the initiative to make your love sweeter, find a suitable way to tell him if you are dissatisfied, tell him, ask him to correct, remember what you like to eat and what you don't like to eat, and take the initiative to buy your favorite food with you in the future, there will be rewards, etc., don't press it in your heart, add up to a lot. It's important to cherish together, isn't it?

Falling in love is a complex thing in itself ...

Don't be restrictive, see the truth in the midst of adversity...

But in daily life, it seems that there are no winds and waves...

This requires you to feel it with your heart ... If he loves you very much, he will definitely do things for you that are beyond the ordinary people... You've said you're a very detail-oriented person, so look at his strengths, details aren't exactly disadvantages...

May you untie the knot in your heart as soon as possible...

Love is to give and not to ask for it, you have to open your heart first and love him well, let him feel that you love him, love him very much, it is possible that he knows that there are many people who pursue you, and he has no confidence in himself, if you like him and love him, give him confidence.

It's not that you don't like it, love is not about sending a few chocolates, sending a few flowers means how much he loves you. Love is felt from the heart. As for your leader, hehe, I think he's jealous!

But I don't want you to see that he is implicit! Perhaps, from this you can also see that he loves you. He doesn't want to bring you the feeling that he doesn't trust you!

Trust is the most important thing in love! Do you understand?

Although he disappoints you every time, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, and don't pay too much attention to the horoscope, although the above sometimes describes quite realistic, but it can't be completely according to the above, like what you said, it is all to be cultivated slowly, not just in love, you have to understand, otherwise there will be no interest in love.

You're called a careful eye! It seems that your personalities are complementary; A very good pair;

It's hard to change your personality.

Being less aggressive requires a certain amount of effort and developing a positive mindset. Here are some methods that may help:

1.Improve psychological quality. Exercising more, participating in some activities that interest you, and adjusting your mentality appropriately can help improve your psychological quality and ability to resist stress.

2.Change your attitude towards problems. Many of the problems encountered in life are small things, learn to relax, learn to look at the world with tolerance, and be more tolerant of yourself and others.

3.Rekindle this visual communication. When interacting with others, try to understand other people's thoughts, try to communicate with others for different points of view, have an open and inclusive attitude, and try to dilute your stubbornness and prejudices as much as possible.

4.Improve your abilities. Learn to expand your knowledge and improve your abilities, so as to better face life, work and interpersonal relationships, and gradually increase your self-confidence.

5.Imagine someone else's situation. Sometimes we focus too much on our own interests and ignore the feelings of others. You can try to experience different situations from the perspective of others through empathy, so as to better understand the feelings of others.

In general, developing a mindset that does not take things too hard requires us to face life's problems calmly and deal with them from the point of view, action and attitude. Communicate, think and communicate with others, don't put pressure on yourself, even if you don't do everything very well, but these few steps will definitely make you feel worthy of love and respect.

The first way to change him. The second method is to adapt to him.

In the first case, there is often a gap in ideas between men and women, after all, the identity, status, environment and education of two people are different. If your boyfriend is too calculating, causing problems in your relationship and life, then you should sit down and talk to him about the various disadvantages caused by calculating, and then help him fundamentally correct this shortcoming.

In the second case, on the basis of changing his unsuccessfulness, if you have a relationship with him and want to continue to live together, since you can't change him, then it is recommended that you adapt to him. After all, although he cares a lot, it may be because the god cares about you or values the interaction between you too much, and attaches importance to the hard-won money, and it is not all bad, so adapting to him is all you can do.

Of course, any situation will arise in life, and it depends on the person who sees things which is better, whether to change him or adapt to him.

I hope the above answers will be useful to you.

Hello, it depends on what the situation is, and then decide whether to worry about it or not.

Today, my teacher just talked about this, because a little friend in the study group couldn't let go of one thing in his heart, which was a problem of communication with others, so he felt very uncomfortable, and then asked the teacher how to adjust his mentality, and the teacher said: A gentleman should be informal. Otherwise, you will be poor for the rest of your life.

Many people are too perfectionist, so they will take care of everything, and all their energy will be consumed in details, and they will not be able to grow up in life. If you want your life to develop in a good direction, don't worry about the places where you connect with others. However, the teacher also said that young people should be careful about small things, which refer to the mental problems they encounter in their own growth.

For example, in the process of interacting with others (everyone other than yourself), in the things that happen, do you see the impact of your own mentality on the development of things, such as jealousy, complaining, greed, narcissism, hypocrisy, etc., which will hinder your own growth of the mentality or emotions, you should have a calculating attitude towards them, and ask yourself in time: why do I have such a state of mind, what should I do next time to make myself grow in the same thing, and then watch myself change. According to the ancients, it is to be strict with oneself and lenient with others.

So, don't take the little things seriously, it's not worth it.

Personally, I think that in love, the girl thinks that the boy who is willing to spend money for her may not be the one who loves her, but the person who is not even willing to spend money for her will not be happy together in the future.

Your AA system requirements seem to be very reasonable, in fact, if you ask, the male friends around you will know, the man must pay more money than the woman, and even the woman has not paid at all, so everyone says that it is a luxury for boys to fall in love, because if you can get married, then the money is everyone's, and it is good to say: there is also a situation that when it comes to the final division, the money spent is wasted. But now you find a girl who she pays for when you go to dinner with, and it's almost extinct So, resign yourself to your fate.

Your girlfriend's idea is quite reasonable, at least I think so, if you want to change her concept, it's difficult, because it can be seen from your words that the female friends around your girlfriend also enjoy the benefits paid by their boyfriends, and there will inevitably be a gap in comparison, so instead of paying him AA system, it is better to solve the problem from the root cause and improve your income.

The subject feels a little confused in interpersonal relationships, and is not too embarrassed to talk to friends around him, so he comes here to ask for help, which proves that the subject is a person who cares about his heart, and has the courage to ask for help when he encounters difficulties, which is very good for his mental health. The subject feels that he is a little calculating, and hopes that he can improve and improve in this regard, and here are a few suggestions for you. Learn to take the initiative to share For example, you can usually buy some snacks or fruits to share with everyone, in fact, the calculating personality is usually more picky, reluctant to let others eat their own things, but if you can take the initiative to invite everyone to eat your things, the habit will naturally change over time.

Learn to take some responsibility on your own The average person who is scheming is reluctant to take the responsibility of being trapped on them because they will find it troublesome. If you want to change this personality, you can only take the initiative to take some responsibilities and let yourself have the burden and pressure to dismantle the inspection, so that you will consider the problem from the perspective of the overall situation. In fact, we see that those who are responsible, they are not born with responsibility, most of them are constantly honing themselves to do some responsible things the day after tomorrow, and they slowly become responsible.

Learn to give up some of your own vested interests Generally, people who like to be scheming are more likely to compete with others, because they feel that they will suffer if they don't fight. So if you want to change, you have to give up something that belongs to you. For example, when you are working in the company, you can give up your rest time to work overtime in the company.

Or maybe a colleague has a job that can't be done, but you can help him deal with it if there is an urgent matter at home, or you can share what you would have rewarded with your colleagues. In short, there are many ways. Best wishes