If there was a conflict between work and love, which one would you give up?

I will choose love, because you can find it again when the job is gone, and it is difficult to meet love when it is gone.

I will give up my job, in my mind, feelings come first, and love is hard to find.

Give up the job, the job can be found again, but the lover, missed may be a lifetime.

Give up love, in this stage of my life, love is really not important to me, only hard work to make myself better is what I should do.

If it were me, I would give up my job, after all, I don't want to regret it later.

If there is a conflict between work and love, I will give up on love. Personally, I think that if you give up a job with a good salary, it will not be so easy to find, so when there is a conflict between work and love, you must choose a job, and if you have a good job, are you afraid that you will not find love? ‍‍

You can find a job again, love can also be found again, compare the two, which is heavier, which is lighter, I know, when the two are almost important, I will choose to give up the job, after all, it is easier to find a good job.

If it is really good and suitable for self-development, it depends on whether the love has just started or is ready to get married, if it is just beginning, I will choose to give up love, if I am facing marriage, I will give up my career.

I would choose to give up my job because I am more dedicated to my feelings, and I can find a job at any time, and some people will not have it again if they miss it.

It depends on whether it is before marriage or after marriage, if I will definitely give up love and choose a career before marriage. But after marriage, I will choose love, family and children, they are more important than career, without them I have a good future and I can't be happy, my life is full of life with them, without them my life has no meaning at all. ‍‍

It's common for love and work to have conflicts, but rarely to the point where one has to be given up to have the other. As a social person, we must get used to the existence of contradictions and the ability to coordinate them. If it really comes to the point of irreconcilability, people who choose love may be more emotional, while people who choose work may be more rational.

In fact, there is no right or wrong choice in any choice, only whether it is suitable for you. There are factors such as experience, wealth, and cognition, so it should vary from person to person, and the one that suits you is the best. ‍‍

I will give up love, and eternal love also needs bread to sustain it. And it will change over time, environment, temperament. Work and career are the fundamental guarantee for your life and the foundation of your life! ‍‍

If you are a person who loves to work, the other party will definitely support you! It's not a matter of fish and bear's paws! If the other person loves you, they will understand you!

If you don't understand, there's no need to continue such feelings! Sincerely move people, as long as you spend your time and energy on positive things, the other party will feel it and will support you! Everyone hopes that lovers will succeed in their careers, love is not only love, but also family, career, and society, only when they all take care of each other and take responsibility, they are a person with a sense of responsibility, and their future marriage will be happy! ‍‍

This cannot be generalized, and there will be different choices in some cases. If you can't have other options for your job, and you have to give up the job in the face of love, you should choose to give up love, but this situation is only an isolated case. Most of the time you should still choose love, because if you really love each other, then I believe that it is not impossible to change jobs, and it is not so difficult to find a job now.

If you can get a job that is not particularly bad on the premise of having love, wouldn't it be the best of both worlds? The most important thing is to look at yourself, because only you know what you will lose and what you will gain if you give up one. ‍‍

Give up your job. If this relationship is a small acquaintance and worth having, then there is definitely no reason to give up work. I have the ability to find a new job no matter what, but if I lose my feelings, I can't come back, and in the current society, a sincere feeling is especially valuable. ‍‍

If you can do both, then take care of it! I think it's all important! If you only take one of them, it also depends on the situation, to see if it is enough love, if so, then I choose love.

If you don't love enough and you're young, then work is definitely more important. The most important thing is that he loves me, if he doesn't love me, ** love, it's better to work hard! It's more down-to-earth that way. ‍‍

Many people say that they are very busy at work and have no time to fall in love, therefore, when they reach the age of marriage, they have no object yet, and their parents are very anxious and always urge themselves to fall in love and get married quickly, do you think love and work conflict?

1. I don't think love and work are in conflict.

When I was in college, I was very envious when I saw others in pairs, and I hoped that one day, I would be able to have a beautiful love. But at that time, I was still studying, after joining the work, I began to pave the way for my love, I think that working hard and making myself better and better, then it will attract a lot of people's attention, and it will also attract the favor of the opposite sex, I am like a beautiful flower, there will be butterflies and bees flying over, this is the same reason. After having a lover, if you can grasp the balance, you will definitely be able to make love and work not conflict.

Second, a good relationship can make work more motivated.

A good relationship can make us experience more happiness and sweetness, and we hope to be able to be with each other for a long time, so we will work harder and harder, work hard to earn money, and give each other good living conditions.

3. We should know how to deal with the relationship between love and work.

However, when we actually deal with work and love, we must know which is more important, when their work is particularly important, the customer urges very tightly, and the leader also attaches great importance to it, then we must first put the focus on the work, and the lover side should also explain it clearly, the other party will not feel that he only attaches importance to the work, does not pay attention to him. When we are not busy at work, we have to interact with our lovers, and two people can eat, chat, and drink tea, which can enhance the relationship.

I don't think there's any conflict because everybody is very energetic and can balance these two things very well.

Love and work are not in conflict, we should concentrate on work when we are working, and we should fall in love when we are in love.

I don't think it's a conflict, if one can solve these problems directly, and they can be easily dealt with.

I will definitely choose to work, I will have a very good income, and I will also become very rich in life. will make yourself stronger.

I will choose love, because fate is a rare thing, and if I miss it, I may regret it for the rest of my life.

My point of view may not be the same as that of anyone here, because I am talking about a high probability of universality:

For people who are important to their careers, love is more important;

For those who are important to love, career is more important.

In other words, for workaholics, it is time to elevate the status of love in their lives and divert some attention to love.

For the love brain, you must have a career of your own, and the stronger this career, the better.

It's a bit of a mouthful, but the principle is simple:

The more you feel that something is important to you, the more likely you will be to be harmed by something in the end. And often only the opposite option is the support for you to save you from fire and water.

It's not inevitable, but it's a weakness in human nature – otherwise why would we always be happy and sad? Will always be the opposite?

Because when you really need something, you have to push too hard. It is often this excessive force that backfires and causes the most harm.

Therefore, workaholics will always devote all their time and energy to cold work and fake interpersonal interactions, the more desperate they struggle, the greater the physical and mental pressure, and there will inevitably be problems, and the moment when they need companionship the most, they may not even have someone around who treats them sincerely.

The love brain uses all the self and feelings to nourish the other party's vanity and hypocrisy, overkillly treats him well, and pays without leaving a way out, but in the end it is not easy to be cherished, and after being abandoned, he realizes that he doesn't even have a backer.

So, before this question, it is more important to understand yourself. After all, what is right for others may not be right for you.

The only thing that matters in life is love and work", but what happens when "love" and "work" can't be both?

Most men may still be relatively sensible because they have more concerns, while women seem to be more likely to give themselves, perhaps starting from scratch after quitting for love, or being stay-at-home mothers after marriage.

The biggest misconception of a stay-at-home mother in society is that she is idle, relaxed, and worthless.

But they don't know that they are actually the ones who give the most and sacrifice the most for the family.

Because of their bravery this time, many of them have found good jobs, have a new circle of friends, and stepped into the palace of marriage with their lovers, and some people have found that the gap between reality and ideals is not a good ending that can be exchanged for blind pay.

Young people will get carried away by love, but only those who have really experienced it will understand that your stable job is also part of what makes you good.

Therefore, every young person, true love, bold love, and full love cannot affect the normal work for the sake of love.

Work will not fail you, and as much you give, work will be rewarded in the same way.

Work is logical, and love has no logic.

Work is down-to-earth, you work hard and you are motivated, you will be paid more and promoted quickly.

We shouldn't make our own conditions worse in order to fall in love, especially when we should be most motivated to work hard for the future.

In the years of struggle and progress, it is always the most stupid behavior to mess up your own conditions, which not only seriously reduces the value of your marriage and love, but also may reduce the protection you can give to your wife and children in the future.

Love and work, like material and spiritual, are indispensable, and neither is happy.

Love is important, but it will be fragile without material support, so you don't necessarily have to give up on any of them.

Some people compare love to sugar water, saying that every breakup is like being diluted once.

In the first relationship, the other party tastes 100% sweetness;

In the second love, the other party tasted 70% sweetness;

The last time they fell in love, the other party couldn't taste any sweetness.

In fact, work and love should not be abandoned, but for the sake of yourself, you must not give up your work, if you don't have a job, you will have no economic foundation, and you can't even support yourself, let alone love?

I'm not going to give up on anything else I'm pursuing. For example, when you have your own business, achieve financial independence, and don't need to rely on anyone, your life is in your own hands. In the relationship, you will not be in a passive state, you will have more choices.

Take feelings, for example. In our usual relationship world, many times it will not be the best of both worlds, especially for people in long-distance relationships, if you need to consider being together, sometimes Yehe has to give up his job in the city for love, I think giving up work for love, this needs to be considered according to the actual situation.

First, two people are together, have a common goal, and are also rushing to get married, and at the same time, if you are not satisfied with your current job, there is a better job in his city that can provide you with options, and it is also worth giving up your job for love, after all, it is better to get along with each other when love transitions to marriage.

Second, if two people are just simply in love and don't think about it, it will be irrational for you to give up your job for love, especially if you have no income after resigning.

All in all, before giving up your job for love, you should be mentally prepared, especially if your job is better and the salary is good, you must carefully consider whether this love is worth giving up your job.

I don't give up a relationship for work, because it's very important to be able to find a lover who is suitable for me. You can find a job again, and once the person you like gives up God, it is possible that you will regret respecting the dust for a lifetime.