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It doesn't matter if it's in the countryside or in the cityIt is very important to do a good job in neighborly relations, as the saying goes"Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. "It is impossible for anyone to have smooth sailing all their lives, and they do not need the help of others.
If the neighborhood relationship is good, we will get help from our neighbors in times of crisis, and if the neighborhood relationship is good, we will be in a good mood, and life will feel more meaningful.
How to maintain good neighborly relations?
1. Be considerate of othersFor example, when you watch TV or listen to ** or entertain yourself, you should first think about whether the sound is too loud and whether it will affect the rest of the next door. When our own children get into a fight with a neighborhood child, we should first go and see if someone else's child is hurt.
If it is our child who is wrong, we have to bring the child to the door to apologize, if it is someone else's child who does it first, we should not blame other people's children, how big is the child fighting. (When I was a kid, I got into fights with the neighborhood kids, and my mom would only lecture me no matter who was right or wrong.) )
2. Frequent visits: I often go to the neighbor's house to visit the door, cheer for the family, and ask for warmth. (But there must be a degree of visiting, and it also depends on the inconvenience of others.)
Excessive visits may be offensive. When you have good food and wine at home, you can invite your neighbors to gather at your house, so that you can strengthen your relationship and rapport.
, often give a helping hand:When we see that our neighbors are in trouble, we should take the initiative to help as much as we can. Give people roses, and leave a lingering fragrance in your hands.
What should I do if I meet someone who is unreasonable?
1. Small problems can be let go: If it's not a big problem, and the other party is not particularly excessive, we can take the initiative to put up with him, it's not a big deal. Like my mom said:
Doesn't arguing with unreasonable people mean that we are also unreasonable people? It will not be good to show weakness, and it will be troublesome if you are strong.
2. Find relevant departments to solve major problems
Summary. In the countryside, most people understand things and help each other, and everyone is actively helping when someone has something, but there are a few people who don't get along with their neighbors, and they don't like anyone, and they are completely in an alternative posture, and they scold others at every turn, as if they are better than others, and they are the king, and everyone looks down on this kind of person.
If you really want to meet unreasonable people, stay away from him, try not to associate with them, alienating him is the best way, we can't afford to hide if we can't afford it!
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Legal analysis: If it is legal, you can ask for the removal of the obstruction and ask the village to come out for mediation. If mediation fails, if the neighbor's behavior violates your rights, you can file a lawsuit with the court and ask the court to exclud the infringement.
Legal basis: "Civil Code of the People's Republic of China" Article 1166: Where an actor causes harm to the civil rights and interests of others, regardless of whether the actor is at fault, and the law provides that tort liability shall be borne, follow those provisions.
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You can call the police for public security mediation. According to Article 153 of the "Provisions on the Procedures for the Handling of Administrative Cases by Public Security Organs", it may be mediated to deal with violations of the administration of public security, such as assaulting others, intentionally injuring others, insulting, defaming, falsely accusing and framing, intentionally damaging property, interfering with the normal lives of others, violating privacy, or illegally trespassing into residences, and the circumstances are relatively minor, and there are any of the following circumstances:
Disputes between relatives, friends, neighbors, colleagues, and students over trivial matters; The perpetrator's violation was caused by the victim's prior wrongdoing; Other cases where mediation is more likely to resolve conflicts. For civil disputes that do not constitute a violation of the administration of public security, the parties shall be informed to apply to the people's court or people's mediation organization for handling.
For public security cases where the circumstances are minor, the facts are clear, the causal relationship is clear, there is no dispute about the loss of medical expenses or goods, or there is no dispute between the parties for the payment of medical expenses and goods loss, and the conditions for public security mediation are met, and both parties agree to mediate and perform on the spot, they may mediate on the spot and make a mediation agreement.
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