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A discordant marriage can be given up, now is not in the old era, divorce is nothing.
An unhappy life may also be your own feelings, the key is a problem of mentality, you can try to adjust it, or, be brave, to seek your own so-called happiness, except for yourself, others can not give you happiness, because, others do not know what the happiness you want is like, you have to seek it yourself.
Internet, others say it's illusory, but it's true or false, only if you have experienced it, you can't let it go, you don't want to try to accept it, if it's really hurt, it's hurt to understand.
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I think you write very well and you are a very good person.
It's a pleasure to watch what you write, and maybe that's how the other person is hooked on you.
Marriage is a very strange thing, it takes many, many factors to make it up, and this thing can't be explained clearly by two words. I think that if you can't get through it together, try not to divorce if you can't get divorced, because people who don't have the patience to maintain the first marriage may not have the patience to maintain the second marriage. Is that right?
As for the outside, I think because you haven't lived with it, it's all good in front of you, so you'll be obsessed, you will miss it, and you will want to try to have a beginning. Maybe once you're together, over time, it's probably not as happy as you were with your original partner, really.
However, it doesn't hurt if you hide it from the original partner and sneak it around, because after all, only after you try it, will you completely die of this heart.
Finally, I wish you to find the answer as soon as possible, find happiness as soon as possible, and live happily and happily.
I love what you write, it's very well written.
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After all, people are animals in real life, in fact, the Internet is real, but once people intervene, it seems so illusory, so forget the past and return to real life!
Another point of human nature is that it is easy to forget certain things, ignore the existence of certain people, and let everything be!
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You're all living in reality, and you know how it's going to end, maybe you just don't want to think about it. Why not let time tell. After a long time, the problem will have an ending. Short-lived annoyances don't hurt. This problem is dealt with too quickly and does not work well.
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I woke up from the dream when I was in pain.
The moment when a meteor flies by.
Tears blurred his vision.
Feeble pursuit.
The route she left.
But. She's gone.
Walked without regrets.
Walk without nostalgia. She. Let's go.
She's not coming back. She. Let's go.
She has left his world.
Went to another day.
to another him.
A long-hidden smile.
Love. Is it really so helpless?
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People who are too emotional are prone to "hurting" themselves;
People who are too rational are prone to "hurting" others.
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What is fantasy and what is reality, you should first figure it out. When you figure it out, you'll know what to do.
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Isn't it time to give up? Time to let go? Go and be a new version of yourself, change your face, so that you are tired, and make yourself happier than what?
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Time fades everything, and in retrospect it's just a touching story!
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Since you can't communicate, let's leave.
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The Internet is not illusory, what is illusory is the human heart!!
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Literally, these are the distorted usages on the Internet, and I will ignore the distorted usage on the Internet.
Such as a ride in the dust: the mount is very fast, flashing by, so that people can only see the mount without seeing the dust, or only the dust and smoke without seeing the mount.
Dust-free 1, feet do not touch dust, describing Mercedes-Benz fast. "Zhuangzi Tianzi Fang": "The master runs away from the dust, and he is stunned to come." "It was because Yan Hui imitated Confucius and couldn't do it. Later, because he thought that he was beyond the mundane and unattainable.
2. Isolate the world. Gao Lian's "The Story of the Jade Hairpin": "The cypress is burned in the seat, and the plum blossom tent is dusty, and it is really ice and jade." '
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Six dusts, in Buddhist language. That is, color, sound, fragrance, taste, touch, and law. When connected with the "six roots", the mind can be polluted and purified. Baoyu's departure from the dust is actually otherworldly.
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The fallen leaves in front of the window are in the past! It has fallen from the dear tree! Now we have to face reality! After the yellowing and dry leaves fall, new green leaves will grow! Let it be! Seize the moment!
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"Red" refers to red dust, "Lou" refers to Yihong Courtyard where Jia Baoyu lives, and "dream" refers to illusory.
Jia Baoyu lives in a rich and noble family, with the love of the old man (Jia's mother), the servant serving, and the sisters who are like flowers and jade beside him, Jia Baoyu originally thought that he lived in heaven (Daguan Garden), but as he grew up, he found that all kinds of unsatisfactory in reality always accompanied him, he wanted to live a poet-like life, but his father asked him to chase fame, and many girls around him ended miserably, and the whole big family also went from prosperity to decline. The most unacceptable thing for him is that he can't be with his beloved Sister Lin, and finally Baoyu realized, it turns out that the happiness in the red dust is not long-lasting, just like a sweet dream will eventually wake up, and finally Baoyu chose to become a monk.
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Don't be jealous of others.
Since ancient times, there have always been some people who, seeing that others are more capable and better than him, have a jealous heart, and try to answer and harm others by any means. Zhou Yu in "Borrowing Arrows from a Grass Boat" is such a person.
In "Borrowing Arrows from a Grass Boat", Zhou Yu saw that Zhuge Liang was talented and surpassed himself everywhere, so he wanted to kill Zhuge Liang. On the grounds of the lack of arrows in the army, he ordered Zhuge Liang to make 100,000 arrows in three days. Who knew that Zhuge Liang agreed and made a military order.
Zhou Yu was secretly happy, thinking that he could get rid of Zhuge Liang now. And the erudite Zhuge Liang, using his profound knowledge, watched the stars at night, and rode the fog to Cao Ying to "borrow" more than 100,000 arrows to return to his life, so that Zhou Yu's conspiracy failed to succeed.
In our daily lives, there are indeed such people. They are afraid that others will surpass him, and when others have achievements and are praised by others, he not only does not study modestly, but also talks behind the backs of others. This is a practice that harms others and does not benefit oneself, and in fact it is an extremely narrow-minded and despicable style of vulgarity.
The famous mathematician Hua Luogeng is not such a person. As a child, he did very poor arithmetic and often failed. He did not envy his outstanding classmates because of this, but often encouraged himself:
Others are also human beings, and I am also human beings, and I can do what others can do. So, he studied why others did so well in the exam, learned from others' strengths to make up for his own shortcomings, and finally became a famous mathematician, what a valuable enterprising spirit!
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