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Hello: First of all, I want to tell you that it is not easy to forget a person, or to forget a relationship. It takes a lot of effort from us.
Someone once said that it is impossible for a person to forget the person he loves, because once he forgets, it is not love. If you think about it, it still makes sense. So you don't have to blame yourself and be distressed that you can't forget someone.
But we can't forget what we don't want to remember, and it will be very uncomfortable, so we still have to try to forget or look down on it.
1.It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. It's not impossible.
You can distract yourself by using the distraction method, such as: play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books, and relax. Watch some comedy and relax.
Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!
2.Time will make you forget her (him), it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better to stop living in the same city with her (him), it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her (him), because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her (him) again.
You can recall little by little about her (him), when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly unable to remember, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her (him) more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's even harder to really hate someone. You just need to leave the forgetting you want to her (him) to time to solve, and it's okay, after a long time, you will forget if you don't forget.
3..In fact, sometimes you can think differently: you love her (him)!
But sometimes, giving up is for a better option. On the one hand, you can find your own true love and get someone better than her (him). On the other hand, you love her (him), but you want her (him) to live better, maybe she (he) left you and lived better than now, you should actually be happy.
Friend, I can tell you a thing about me: to be honest, I have always liked someone, but that person doesn't like me now, but I also want you to be the same, every time I think about it, I have a feeling of regret, but I tell myself that I still have a long way to go, and that person doesn't accept me, no matter how hard I try, it will be useless. So bury this feeling in the bottom of your heart and treasure it.
Let me tell you one more sentence: the current girlfriend (boyfriend) or wife (husband) around me is not the person I love the most, in fact, it makes sense to taste it carefully.
The above is my summary, although it is not comprehensive, but I hope it will be helpful to you.
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Find joy in life for yourself, or find a job you love and take your attention away.
Gather with friends and talk about your feelings. Don't think about it yourself.
Believe that you can live a good life, and your life is as wonderful as it is without him.
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Do what you love to do and forget about it.
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I know you still can't forget him, and you still like him. How do you write it later?
You like him, you can't let go of it, and you can't forget it, so stay away from him, out of sight and out of mind, go to a place without him, start a new relationship, and wait for a period of time, when you see him again, you may not feel it. The key question is that if you want to open it, he doesn't like you and doesn't feel for you, so why force his feelings? Whether a sedan person has feelings for another person or not, no one can say what you can't say, no matter how good you are to him, he can't feel for you.
Start a new relationship, don't get stuck in a relationship that doesn't belong to you, and in the end you will hurt yourself.
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