How can I become faithful, sunny, and positive?

Maybe I'm just like you and I procrastinate and give up, although I didn't do it myself, but I know that people like us are always used to something and it's hard to get rid of him. You may need some friends to hang out with, try to change yourself, when you feel that something is not suitable for you, and you can't make the right decision yourself, ask your best friend or relative to see if it is suitable for you, when others say that it is suitable for you, even if you are still awkward, try to do it, maybe you can get used to it after a long time.

It's not enough to change your appearance. You have to try to make yourself talk more to your friends, such as making jokes. Go out with friends and relatives, especially when they are looking for you to play, it's not important to go to play together, like traveling, going to drink or something.

With good friends, you're more able to talk.

In short, the key lies in three aspects:

1. Resolutely complete the problems you want to think about, when you find problems, you are making progress, and you will not feel that it is difficult to think after thinking for a long time, and you are unwilling to think. It's a matter of habit, and it can be changed.

2. Believe that you are sunny, don't feel inferior and unenergetic because of a little bit, so that you will only give yourself a hint in your heart and make yourself more and more marginalized. Do more to cheer yourself up, and firmly believe that you can believe. Get out and about, especially if the weather is nice, and go to a group of friends.

This is a mental hint, don't listen to those tests, online reviews, such as choosing such and such fruit is what kind of personality you are. That will only make your mental suggestion heavier. Your own mentality is the most important, maybe you will not adapt to it at first, or even give up, but you insist on cashback yourself will change a lot, and you should learn from other people's comments.

3. Of course, you must be positive in your own principles, don't let yourself exceed this principle, as for faith, I don't think it's unnecessary to have faith or something, but you can't blindly believe, you must have discernment.

In this way, rely on yourself and not on others or beliefs.

Yahweh, the everlasting God, the creator of the earth, is neither weary nor weary, His intelligence is beyond measure.

He strengthens the weary, He strengthens the weak, He who waits on the LORD will regain strength, They will soar up like eagles, They run and do not faint, They walk but do not faint.

This problem is something that most people will encounter at this age, and only by "correcting" what they feel awkward little by little, will they gain confidence step by step, and in the end, as long as they feel that they are already good, they can do it. There is no such thing as perfection in this society! Remember:

Don't be confused, and don't fantasize! Go yourself!

Part of a person's self-confidence comes from appearance, and you can start with a change in appearance to increase your self-confidence. For example, if you are serious about getting a new hairstyle, you can do a simple facial treatment for both men and women, or light makeup. Buy a piece of clothing that you like but are reluctant to buy;

Psychologically, you can read more famous books to improve your awareness. For example: let yourself be more active, make more friends, whether you like or dislike, you can communicate more, and get in touch with other people's life circles.

You can do it whenever you want, don't think about upsetting things, and mentally hint to yourself that you can do it.

Have a healthy mind, a healthy body, open-minded and happy, tolerant and understanding of others, self-improvement and self-reliance.