What should I do if I am not happy to be instructed to go?

Work hard secretly to one day have the ability not to be instructed by others. Take it a step further and strive to have the ability to direct others (but whether you want to direct or not is up to you).

If your superiors or elders tell you to do the work, try to cooperate.

If a colleague or other idle person is instructing you to come and go, then you can directly refuse a few times and form a new pattern.

Just run away, if you are not there, others will not be able to instruct you, or you will swallow your anger for a few months and try to make yourself stronger, and then others will not dare to instruct you.

It shows that you are a bully and will not refuse people, so you are being used.

Then recharge yourself more. Make yourself strong. so that they will not be sent out of order.

This kind of problem actually happens many times a day for everyone. But only a few people will take it as a problem.

This is indeed an ordinary emotion of an ordinary person, an emotion within the normal scope.

That's actually fine. A few more words.

In fact, it is not that others are telling you to do something that you are unhappy about. It's that I don't like why I'm being commanded.

Here's where a window appears. Heaven (God) has given you a chance to change.

A chance to start a new life for yourself.

I'm going to change! I'm going to make myself strong! I'm going to get myself right! I'm going to make most people happy! I'm going to take the initiative to work! I want to be energetic every day!

The reason why you are instructed to come and go is because you should have some weaknesses that can be easily spotted, such as cowardice, timidity, and not daring to resist.

The most important thing now is to improve your abilities, don't hold on to your weaknesses, study hard, read more, and improve your self-confidence.

Hello, this kind of problem actually happens many times a day for everyone. But only a few people will take it as a problem.

This is indeed an ordinary emotion of an ordinary person, an emotion within the normal scope.

In fact, it is not that others are telling you to do something that you are unhappy about. It's that I don't like why I'm being commanded.

Here's where a window appears. Heaven (God) has given you a chance to change.

A chance to start a new life for yourself.

I'm going to change! I'm going to make myself strong! I'm going to get myself right! I'm going to make most people happy! I'm going to take the initiative to work! I want to be energetic every day!

But this window isn't always open for you.

There is a saying in China: after this village, there will be no more shops.

Think about it!