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People who are pretentious, or who claim to be high-minded, often fail to see the essence of life, but simply live in their own imaginary world and be their own master. Such character traits have both advantages and disadvantages. The good thing is that if your talent is worthy of your pretentiousness, then you must be a rare peerless talent; But if you are just an ordinary ordinary person, then your pretentiousness will bring embarrassment to your life.
An uncle of mine, an ordinary person. There is no illustrious family background, nor is there any outstanding ability, and some only feel that they are superior and arrogant. It may have something to do with his family environment since he was a child, as the eldest son in the family since he was a child, he was favored by his family, and everything was provided as best as possible, so when he grew up, he couldn't look at anything ......He has already married a family, he was still an engineer in his early years, and his income is not very high, but in addition to supporting the family's expenses, he can also have some savings.
However, the extraordinary factor in his bones made him happily quit his job and go home to start a business. He always thought that he was born to be a boss, rather than working for others as a whole, so he quit his job, which seemed relatively safe and reliable at the time, and returned to his hometown to start a business. The uncle borrowed money from relatives and friends around him, and this is how he started his business.
However, the good times did not last long, because there was no formal license, every day was frightened, the whole was frightened, the small order disdained to pick up, borrowed a large order and was too busy himself, and he couldn't support it after staying up late for a long time.
In this way, the uncle's "self-employment" was given up. Small money can't be looked down upon, and big money can't be earned, and now he can only stay at home all day long, doing nothing ......
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I haven't met it, everyone is an ordinary person, and there is nothing extraordinary.
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My mother, her outlook on life is that she can't be an ordinary person, she must be excellent.
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1. The non-sellative character of a pretentious and boring person is: self-righteous, selfish, self-centered, thinks he is the best, and looks down on others.
2. The eye is high, the master is low, always think that the self-travel is the most powerful, always high to others, when it is necessary to show their outstanding ability, everyone finds that in fact, such a person will not do anything.
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The personality of a pretentious person is: self-righteous, selfish, self-centered, thinks that he is the best, and looks down on others. Eyes are high and low, always think that their ability is the most powerful, always high to others, when it is necessary to show their outstanding ability, everyone finds that in fact, such a person will not do anything.
From the Qing Huaiyin Baiyi Layman's "Hutianlu": "Shen Tong of Lou County, Nian Fu Guan, Xi Tikuo, pretentious, has the general idea of Tai'a out of the box and Changhong. "Qing Pu Songling's "Liao Zhai Zhi Wei Yang Dahong":
Mr. Da Hong Yang Lian, who was a famous Confucian in Chu, was pretentious. "Grinding Chunfeng.
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1.Self-deception: Some people may think they are powerful because of self-deception. They may place too much emphasis on their strengths and ignore their own shortcomings and shortcomings.
2.Low self-esteem: Some people may try to make up for their shortcomings by flaunting themselves because of their inner inferiority complex. They may lack confidence in their actual ability to fray and therefore try to gain recognition and self-confidence by exaggerating their abilities.
3.Social pressure: Some people may feel compelled to emphasize their abilities and values in order to gain a competitive advantage because of the competition and pressures in society.
4.Lack of reflective awareness: Some people may not be aware of their limitations and inadequacies, lacking the ability to self-reflect and criticize.
5.Caught in a bubble of feeling good about themselves: Some people may be in an environment where they only interact with their own people and listen to their own opinions for a long time, leading to a biased perception of themselves.
In modern society, self-promotion and personal branding have become a common phenomenon. Some may exaggerate their abilities and accomplishments in order to gain a competitive edge in a competitive environment. However, this self-aggrandizing behavior can lead to misunderstandings and disappointments for yourself and others.
Therefore, we should maintain a modest, truthful and objective attitude, recognize our own limitations and shortcomings, and constantly strive to improve our abilities and qualities.
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Because, a person who has no ability, it is difficult to be able to recognize his own shortcomings, what he thinks he can't do, others can't do, because he has no ability, even if he does a small thing, maybe for others, it is easy to rent Suiqin, it is difficult for him, he thinks that he can do such difficult things, then he must be an extraordinary person. So the more incompetent people are, the more pretentious they are.
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Yes, pretentiousness is the embodiment of the second disease. Popularly known as adolescent rebellion.
The reasons for pretentiousness may be as follows:
1. I hate others and have autism.
2. Be cool. 3. Be eye-catching.
4. You want to be different.
5. Look down on the people around you and complain.
This is something that many people have, and it must be experienced. Nothing to worry about. Time will work everything out, not explained.
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In this way, the patient's mentality is not well placed, and there are some problems in life or work, so he uses the topic to play. In fact, people who are conceited and overconfident in their hearts will always think that they are right.
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The average person is pretentious because of adolescence.
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In the final analysis, arrogance and lack of self-knowledge should not have a sense of superiority, everyone's personality rights are equal, and mutual respect should be made. You feel very bad, I studied psychology, I know that the subconscious mind is such a thing, you exude this negative energy field and the other party will feel it, and it will affect your interpersonal relationships. This world is a material objective world, you must have empathy, look at the problem from the other person's point of view, if others have the same attitude towards you, how do you feel about the loss?
Do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself, and consider your own burial and consider others at the same time, which is the normal state of good interpersonal communication.
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Pretentiousness, as the name suggests, is that you think you are powerful, powerful, unique, and extraordinary.
You know, as the saying goes, humility makes people progress, and pride makes people lag behind. The more incompetent a person is, the easier it is to be arrogant and proud, which is the so-called pretentiousness.
These people are typical blind optimists, complacent, arrogant, and unsightly. As everyone knows, they are deceiving themselves.
Only by correctly understanding oneself and recognizing oneself can one achieve extraordinary achievements.
When there is that kind of pride, please think about it vigorously, successful people never think how smart and extraordinary they are, and Yu Yinsong is how much effort they have put in and how many difficulties they have overcome.
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A smug little expression. Look at who is the corner of the eye up.
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One looks down on others.
The second will be very proud.
Sanhui is very conceited.
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Pride is self-righteous. Conceited. Eyes are high and hands are low. Pointing fingers at people and things.
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I think that a pretentious person is a kind of appearance of self-feeling superior, he feels better than ordinary people, whether it is his own appearance, his family situation, and all aspects of himself, he loves to flaunt everything about himself, and can't help but reveal his boastful intentions. In fact, this kind of performance is very disgusting, and I feel very proud.
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Arrogant, conceited, all kinds of self-righteousness.
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What I have learned and seen is that I think it is right, and if I think it is right, I can't listen to anyone's opinion, and what I say is all out of the blue, and if it's good, I will listen to any advice.
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1. Being a cold-eyed bystander and critic of oneself is a kind of cultivation, which can keep us awake and avoid falling into the ridiculous and pathetic situation of pretentiousness or self-pity.
2. As long as a person has a conscience, no matter how ignorant he is, after doing something wrong, his conscience will definitely feel uneasy. This uneasiness is not due to fear, but to inner self-condemnation.
3. Do you know how bitter it feels to miss someone day and night when you are extremely sad, but you still hold on to the happy memories and do not want to forget?
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Pretentiousness must have a great accomplishment to be pretentious.
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A person's pretentious performance? Is the heart higher than the sky arrogant? It's okay to watch the Internet celebrity Sister Feng, I'd rather go to the United States to brush the dishes than be the master here.
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It is often manifested as being overly sensitive to things, doubting one's friends and colleagues without substantiation, feeling conceited about many things for no reason, and unwilling to trust others.
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I can't listen to opinions that are different from my own, and I think that I am better than anyone else, but I just don't want to do it.
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I think a person's pretentiousness is overconfidence and immodesty.
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But I think everyone has this kind of mentality, but the difference is that some people learn lessons and continue to struggle, and really become the person they want to be, which can be said to be a powerful person, and some people complain about the sky and continue to be like that, being a salted fish.
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His character is too conceited and arrogant, and he feels superior to others in everything he does, and he feels that he is the strongest and lives in his own world.
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They are always self-righteous, they think they are particularly capable, but when they suffer failures in work and life, they cannot objectively analyze their own reasons, but put the responsibility on other people, such people's character, they are not easy to trust others, and they always judge with subjective thinking when analyzing problems, they are paranoid personalities.
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Whether in life or at work, they are always self-righteous and think that they are particularly capable.
But when they fail at work and in life, they can't objectively analyze their own reasons, but put the blame on others.
With such a pretentious character, they are not easy to trust others, and they always judge with subjective thinking when analyzing problems, and they are paranoid personalities.
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Narcissistic personality, easy to boast, always feel that they are amazing, lack empathy.
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A pretentious person generally speaks to me....Beginning!
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will look at other people's unpleasant eyes, and feel that they are so good that they still have to be with these ordinary people.
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I think I'm good at everything, and I'm often a little conceited.
I have encountered something that particularly painfully hurts me, I am very attentive to the children in my class, but they don't understand my painstaking efforts, and they go against me every time, so that I can't give them better lessons.
It definitely has an impact on you, maybe this little thing in life has an impact on you, but it doesn't have for him, it's relative, of course, some small things that are popular can also bother you. Generally, I value my friends very much, and I also care about what others say, so I think these small things are bothering me and making my heart calm, but I don't know that I don't need to care, just be yourself, why force it. The more you care about what you like, the more you can't get it.
A friend who is about to get married, because she was found to have a contagious disease and was abandoned by her fiancé, which man gave up on her and their children, selfishly only taking care of her own feelings.
When I was in elementary school, I was very picky in the eyes of others, because I never bought snacks, so I never gave snacks to my classmates, and every day when I went to school, my mother would bring me a bottle of water, and my mother said that I was afraid that my classmates would drink water together and be afraid of bacteria, so I never let my classmates drink water, and then I had no friends in elementary and junior high school, although I was very generous now, and I would share what I ate with my colleagues, but occasionally there would be times when I picked the door, such as classmates and colleagues who wanted to borrow money and borrow a car, I was reluctant to give.
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