Why can t a woman get married?

If marriage can be settled, then life is estimated to be like this.

It's the 21st century, love is free, marriage is free, and if a woman is going to die for the sake of getting married, then this woman can't be happy.

Married life occupies most of a woman's life, and a woman who is about to get married may also live most of her life, which is painful for herself and may be a harm to others.

A marriage without love is almost not happy, life is not an idol drama, and there will be no Prince Charming and Cinderella storyline that happens in reality.

And married life is inherently dull and cumbersome, if there is no love and it will be settled, then who will understand your difficulties in the future.

Life is already so difficult, marriage will be enough, and after marriage, it will be for all kinds of things, such a life is not as good as it.

My sister felt that if she couldn't meet the right person again, she would forget it, but after getting married, you will find that even a soft woman is not willing to compromise, she still needs someone to feel sorry for someone to love, she will deliberately not accept ** because of my brother-in-law's indifference, and she will be happy for a hug from my brother-in-law for several days.

If you ask her if she wants to compromise, she will definitely not agree. She said she would rather take a little longer, but never settle.

A woman must meet a lover, that person does not need to love you very much, but at least he can know that you are good, and can share your pain and happiness in the later married life, so that you can have the courage to continue to spend the rest of your life together.

Marriage is the most important thing in life, and it is impossible to achieve happiness for a lifetime.

From the perspective of modern economy, modern women are no worse than men, they can be financially independent, have an independent personality, and live a chic life. Looking for someone to marry may be because of emotional needs, or mutual recognition of values, how many people are willing to be single now, or together but do not get a license, but also live a good life, not bound by marriage, and both parties have a dependence, this is a very subtle feeling.

Women can't get married, because marriage is related to who they will live with in the next life and what kind of life they will live, so they must think clearly before marriage. Don't let others, parents, and colleagues nag you to go on a blind date and get married quickly, and you will just find someone to get married, which may be an even more tragic thing.

I have a college classmate who has always been very maverick, and she has not been married yet, but she is not particular about marriage, she does not find someone to marry, she has always adhered to her own standards, and now she is also living a good life, and sometimes I still envy her free and fresh life.

The essence of marriage is, to put it bluntly, a matter of offspring and property.

The resource that is most closely related to a woman's marriage is fertility resources

Reproductive rights are a resource, but many people don't realize it.

Since it is a resource, it has a limit, and there is a possibility of depletion.

ThereforeWomen should make careful use of their fertility resources and maximize their fertility resources, convert them into value to the greatest extent, and obtain the most effective benefits

The value and benefits that fertility resources can create are the most direct ones that are high-quality offspring

ThereforeWhen a woman chooses a partner to marry, she is actually choosing the right father for her next generation and investing in parenting for herself and her children.

The process of choosing a woman a mate seems to be the process of choosing a husband for herself, but it is actually the process of choosing a father for her children.

Because it takes ten months for a woman to conceive and give birth to a child, and it takes several long years to take care of a child, a woman cannot use her reproductive rights indefinitely in her life, and the number of times she can give birth is very limited.

In other words,A woman's reproductive resources are so limited and precious

Therefore, it is absolutely impossible for a woman to choose a mate to marry.

Choosing a mate and getting married means that women ignore and deny their genetic value.

It means that she does not pay attention to the quality of her offspring.

It is human instinct to reproduce high-quality offspring, and mate selection is a reserve process made for oneself to create the best quality offspring.

The higher the value of women, the more important they are to mate selection, and the more unwilling they are to give up and lower the criteria for mate selection.

ThereforeWomen who are not compromised in marriage are women who are truly worth it

In fact, this kind of girl says "marriage is not going to be done", she wants to express that the marriage that will be made is not happy!

In the upcoming marriage, the two make do with each other, because they don't have much emotional foundation, and to put it bluntly, they don't know much about each other. Slowly adapt to and accept each other's habits, and if a lucky person meets a responsible person who treats himself sincerely, he can still get by; If you are unlucky and meet a stinky temper, then it is very unlucky.

Girls don't want to get married, the most important thing is to pursue happiness. In fact, it is beyond reproach that everyone is on the road to the city in search of their own happiness. Everyone's standards for how to position happiness are different.

Some people, even if they are about to settle, are because they see that the other party has some items that need certain items, so they want to settle.

I think that dating is a marriage that is about to be. Because it is based on the detailed introduction of the matchmaker, and then choose whether to live together according to a variety of criteria for understanding each other. Do you have feelings?

At first, there was probably none, but it is likely to happen later. And most people feel that if a marriage without love is not easy to be happy. Because love is very crucial in marriage, like the grease between the two transmission gears, adjust the run-in period of each other.

It is precisely because of that kind of thinking that I will cling to my feelings and ignore life. People can slowly enhance their feelings, even if it is a marriage obtained by a blind date, there will be feelings and happiness. Subjective assumptions aren't a good thing, so don't dismiss all the possibilities.

Among the people I know, there are many people who find love based on blind dates.

I think it's natural for girls to pursue perfection and their own feelings and happiness. Whether it is a boy or a girl, the attitude towards marriage should be to find someone who is in love to marry. And if a person who is in love merges, the marriage will be more harmonious and happier.

Older people, if they haven't found someone they love, they can actually think differently. If you can't find someone you love, then just find someone you don't hate, or someone he likes you, for you, people who don't hate are actually very likely to shape feelings.

For young people, I think it's an attitude that should be. And for some people who have already reached the urgency, in fact, you can change your thinking, don't be too persistent, maybe your happiness must be cultivated!

Because marriage is not a trivial matter after all, you can't be careless. Sometimes a little sloppiness may lose a lifetime of happiness, as the so-called men are afraid of entering the wrong industry, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man.

Because if you get married in the future, it will have a certain impact on your life, and you will get divorced in the future, which will cause a lot of harm.

It's because these girls want to find their true love, they don't want to live a life with others, and they live a very aggrieved life.

I agree with the idea that late marriage is better than just about it.

It is better to marry later than to wait for the marriage after marriage, regretting the marriage and divorcing. I'd rather wait for someone who loves you or you love to live for a long time.

I was very touched by Qin Shi's sentence in the TV series "The Law of Twenty-Eight", "Marriage is just a beginning, it is a contract, but no one can guarantee the longevity of this love, and it will be more responsibility and family affection in the future" Late marriage can be those who have been together for a long time but have not been married, it is for us to have a life together. It can also be the other half of the same frequency resonance that can be produced with your life balance pin.

There may be many people who have different opinions, but this is just about not worrying, just be yourself. A future marriage may not determine whether you will be happy with your family forever, but you will need to spend some time with your significant other, get to know each other, and adapt to the rhythm of each other's life.

Because my idea is that my parents don't urge me to live on my own, if there is a compatible other half of Youshi, if everyone can have something in common for the future, then it is very satisfying to naturally enter into marriage.

After all, it is still the traditional idea, marriage is a lifelong thing, even if it is suitable before marriage, there will be contradictions after marriage, so if it is said that it will be married, then the fit after marriage will only get worse and worse.

When you meet an inappropriate person, the infinite quarrels after marriage can make you lose patience with love; When you mistake a flirtatious ambiguity for love, you give him a chance to hurt himself; When you are with someone you don't like very much because you are going to be compromised, you will eventually have to choose to separate because you don't love. I lost my feelings and hurt myself.

I don't think so.

The word will not appear in my dictionary, women do not cover Zheng Zai should be, but should find something similar or almost like themselves, the personality is not much different, and then like-minded people are Wang, Cong is a person with good moral character, self-motivated, has all kinds of good habits, and is a two-way rush with himself.

No, getting married will only make your life more difficult, he won't give you shelter from the wind and rain, but your dengyu is all given by him.

Different ages, different conditions, have different selection criteria. As for whether or not to get married, you really have to make a decision based on your actual situation. Everyone wants to find a prince charming, but not every person who checks the manuscript can get his wish.

Hello! Both men and women. None of them should get married. Marriage is a lifelong event. Think carefully.

There are many reasons why modern young people are reluctant to get married, such as work pressure, housing pressure, life pressure, loan pressure, and pressure to support the elderly.

With the development of the economy, although the standard of living is much higher, modern young people are facing unprecedented pressure, they dare not fall in love, and even their own survival is a problem, let alone dare to think about starting a family. If you have money, no one wants to be single, which is caused by many pressures.

In the past, the carriage and horses were very slow, the mail was very slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime. However, modern love comes and goes quickly!

The kinder party paid money and time, but in the end ended up with "no people and money", the risk cost of marriage has increased, and it has been consumed to the fullest. Modern young people really don't dare to get married casually, unless they are really very rich and have always had the ability to support their families, otherwise they just raised their husbands (daughters-in-law) for others, and in the end the gains outweigh the losses, there are too many people who are spare tires!

Even if a person finds a second marriage, it is raising children for others, not biological children, no matter what, people will still find their biological parents when they grow up.

In the past, the marriage was very simple, a cow, a sheep, or even a dustpan of soybeans or a sack of sweet potatoes were married. Today's love, the three major pieces (house, car, ticket) are all indispensable. In the past, it was all about feelings, but now it's all about silver.

If you have less silver, you don't dare to get married, and if you have more silver, you will have confidence, which can be described as "drought and waterlogging".

Young people, without capital, really dare not step into marriage, just like some girls say: "Your little silver is not as expensive as my box of cosmetics!" ”

Although the young boy has a smile on his face, only he knows the pain and pain in his heart. Others are persuading you to get married, but in fact they can't help.

Take marriage as an example, a house costs millions, a car costs hundreds of thousands, and a gift money costs hundreds of thousands.

As for how long the marriage will last after marriage, it is unknown. Modern young people turn their faces faster than books, no matter how much you pay, the other party will send you a sentence "We are not suitable, break up!" ”

The girl will get married, maybe she thinks this boy is more suitable for her, so she will marry her, not that she will be compromised, now the marriage is free, and Ying Qiwu should say that he still quietly thinks that marrying him will be happy, so he will marry him.

It depends on the trend and the likelihood.

It also depends on what kind of general it is, and different generals will be very different.

The other party can't satisfy you now, but if it can withstand the transformation, or will be good, you can consider it.

If the other party can't satisfy you now, and he won't be able to satisfy you in the future, don't compromise.

The other party is not very satisfying to you now, but in the future, you will probably not be able to meet a better sock lead than him, and if you don't want to be single for the rest of your life, there is a high probability that you should settle.

Don't look at people and life with a static eye, but be soberly aware of your own ability and luck. Now that the divorce rate in first-tier cities is 40 percent, there should still be many people in the future.

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