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Self-esteem is one of the traits that everyone has, but the difference is that the strength of each person's self-esteem is very different. Some people have strong self-esteem and can't tolerate a little embarrassment, and they can even be said to be very sensitive. There are also people who don't have very strong self-esteem, even if other people say something serious, they won't feel embarrassed, and they can probably use thick skin to describe this kind of person.
Of course, weak self-esteem has the advantage of weak self-esteem; Strong self-esteem also has the disadvantage of having strong self-esteem. In my opinion, if we have too much self-esteem, it can have a very serious impact on our own personal lives. It will affect you unconsciously, prevent you from doing something, make you regret it for a long time and cannot change anything.
I was deeply affected by it.
I remember that before high school, I could be said to be a very thick-skinned person, especially when it came to studying. I especially like to take the initiative in class, and if there is something I don't understand, I will definitely do it, and my grades have always been very good. But everything changed when I got to high school!
After I entered high school, my self-esteem became very strong, and my study methods changed a lot from before. After having a problem, as long as it is not a last resort, I never take the initiative to ask other people's questions, always thinking that I can solve it independently, always afraid that I will be ridiculed after asking others, and always worried about my self-esteem. This indirectly led to the decline in my high school grades, which I regretted later!
There is another thing that I regret a lot, that is, because I had too strong self-esteem in high school, I never took the initiative to confess to the girl I liked, which also became a big regret of my youth!
Let go of your pride and be brave enough to do what you want to do!
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Actually, sometimes I really hate myself because I am a person with a very strong self-esteem, and because I have a strong self-esteem, I have done many things that I regret since I was a child. <>
When we were sophomores, our club asked us to sing a famous Japanese song, "Castle in the Sky" by Jean Hisaishi.
Because we only joined the club when we were sophomores, my other two classmates and I were the oldest people in that club, and most of the others were freshmen.
So we think that a few of us have a lot of voice in this club, and when we first started rehearsing, we all took singing seriously.
But in the next few days, as there were more and more problems, and those freshmen pointed fingers at us, several of us felt very uncomfortable in our hearts, thinking that a freshman would dare to point fingers at us in my sophomore year.
We didn't rehearse seriously from that day on, even though we had been rehearsing for more than a week before that.
Later, even the president couldn't stand it anymore, so they said to us, "What the hell is going on with you guys?" If you love to sing, you can sing, if you don't like to sing, we can still perform on stage without a few of you."
A few of us were also very angry at the time, and after the president said this, a few of us just threw the lyrics book on the table, picked up the schoolbag and left.
But only I know in my heart how reluctant I am, because this piece is my favorite song, and there is no one.
But I couldn't help but quit, and my pride didn't allow me to bow my head and beg them to join the choir again.
Finally, on the day of the performance, I went to see the performance, and when I saw the melodious singing of those juniors and sisters on the stage, I felt remorseful.
I once promised my girlfriend that one day I would take her to Australia to play, and I have been fighting for this reason until now.
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