I m in pain, and it s painful for me to be alive

Things have already happened, and the situation to face is the most realistic.

Please first of all calm your mind, be quiet, and accept this fact, it may be cruel, but it is still decisive to rebuild your mind by accepting a fact that even if you are unwilling.

If you are depressed for a while during this period, it is a natural reaction; If you can cry, it is not bad for your health. Cry heartily – if you can, tears can sometimes wash away a lot of sadness, and in some cases, it's good.

Learn to be in charge of your own life, and without a lover, you have the ability to live alone. At the beginning, this new situation may be very difficult, you can't see any progress for a while, and you can't be happy, but give yourself time, don't be anxious, take it step by step, one day at a time, don't be in a hurry, please believe that the resilience of life is amazing, cooperate with your own upward heart, and don't give up on caring for yourself. Why do I live, you ask?

What I can reply to is, live for the sake of living, you don't ask, live, life will naturally give you a fair answer in the future. I also want to ask you, how are you going to live? Do you want to cry and live for the rest of your life, or live peacefully and even with some joy?

This road, but depending on your personal determination and the way to improve yourself, after a while, you can start living well, okay? Don't look at the wound, it will scar one day, the scar won't fade, but it won't hurt anymore.

Many people say that busyness is the best way to forget about sadness, but I think that being quiet is the best way to deal with it. I didn't use the word "overcome", could you please take a closer look? I use "dissolve", which is more natural, don't you say?

We will take these pains as a kind of homework and learning, until one day when we really feel growth, and we will even be grateful for the teachings that this pain has given us.

I wish you new heavens and new earth.

Sanmao.

Why are you so sure that he is the person you love the most?

How old have you lived?

Maybe you love him, but he doesn't love you, love is not a person's business, and the love of two people is true love.

Just losing a relationship is indeed a very painful thing, and it can even be very heart-wrenching. But you have to think on the good side!

If he leaves you, then you should bless him, and you will be very happy that he can live happily.

To live a good life, study hard when you should study, and work hard when you should work. For the person you love, for your wishful lover, you can only go and silently bless it. Other than that, there's no better way!

I wish you to find someone who loves you soon!

Friend, I just lost the person I love the most, I have had a lot of objects, but I haven't loved others, I understand your feelings very well, if there is really no room for recovery, just take it easy I don't believe that time can forget everything, we should remember all the people we have loved, although she doesn't belong to us anymore, keep the love in your heart I don't want to say something formal, because I know that no matter what you do, you will think about the person you love, so it's useless to say what to do First you have to accept the reality of separation, opposite it !!Take it up and put it down, continue to be yourself, and enjoy every minute of pain and pleasure!!

Love that does not pursue results is unlimited, let the other party bless themselves, and also give yourself a reason to convince yourself, don't let yourself carry the burden of pain for worthless love, don't live up to everyone's expectations of you, you should reorganize your mentality and do something more meaningful. Love can't be forced, just go with the flow!

Looking for a stand-in As time goes by, your pain will become lighter and lighter until it disappears! Forget him as long as you want!

Shift the focus of your life.

It's not about numbing yourself.

It's about making yourself like one thing.

Life has a center. You won't be sad.

There are many things that we can't force to come, so you better face them. Maybe you will find that this relationship is not suitable for you in the future, or maybe you will find a better one in the future!

Please, it's definitely my favorite now, there are a lot of unknowns in life, if it's destined to be fruitless, why bother asking for trouble?? Cheer up, it won't be like this after success!!

What kind of loss are you talking about, is it dead?

It is indeed painful for the living to be separated from death.

Summary. Hello, dear. What a happy thing it is to live, people will always encounter a little ups and downs, step through this step, maybe it is the sea and the sky, the future world is very beautiful, you must be happy.

Hello, dear. What a happy thing it is to live, people will always encounter a little ups and downs, step through this step, maybe it is the sea and the sky, the future world is very beautiful, you must be happy.

If you encounter a vague problem, you should ask in time, get a lot of effective information, I hope it can help you!

I was very depressed recently, and then went to see a Chinese medicine, Chinese medicine said that I was very stressed, a lot of things, said that my spleen and heart are not very good, and my heart is also very hot, I am in the second year of junior high school this year, 13 years old, my mother has been partial to my younger brother since he was a child, saying that if there is my brother, there will be no me, so I have been under a lot of pressure this year, the pressure of studying, the pressure of my parents, the heart has always been convulsive and painful recently, and I have drunk a lot of medicine, but I feel that I am not worth it like this, and it is not good for my parents, and I also throw money, So it's a bit of a suicide <>

Kiss. Don't think so much about living, it's for yourself, not for others, no matter what, you must be happy, let's take our time, I believe you will get better and better.

In fact, I don't think I have any good in myself, I don't study well, I don't do sports, and I always make my parents angry, maybe my parents don't live more comfortably without me<>

Kiss. How can it be, they will be sad when they lose you, and believe that they will be fine.

In life, everyone wants to live happily and happily, but have you found it? People in life often live in pain at times.

Now that there are few children, those who are naturally lacking are precious, and they have become the treasure of the family, the little emperor! The family revolves around the child. I often worry about my child's picky eater, not eating this or that, getting angry and thinking about it, and being afraid that he lacks nutrients and is not healthy, and sometimes he is really anxious and has no choice.

There is more painful and tired for adults, tutoring children's learning, now parents, not only children's enlightenment teachers, and even become children's full-time teachers, the school caters to the parents' hope that their son will become a dragon, hope that their daughter will become a phoenix, and they will push too much responsibility to parents, so that parents can't stop and want to do really tired! I can't push it off, and I'm worried that it won't be able to do it well. In some families without conditions, the female head simply resigned and became a mother and teacher of the children around the clock.

It is worth paying attention to the fact that in the process of tutoring children's learning, we must pay attention to ways and means, carefully observe the child's ability to bear, and now the knowledge is too decentralized, we must respect the child's talent, respect the child's ability to accept, and do not rush for quick success, pull out the seedlings to help grow!

Here, I think of how many years ago, a male parent in Shanghai who reported on the socks taught his son to memorize Tang poems, and taught hard for a long time, and finally the child only remembered the first sentence, he was angry, flew up, kicked the child to the ground, found that something was wrong, and rushed to the hospital, ruining the child's young life.

Therefore, we must master the child's receptivity, the child is talented, just playful, not good at learning, no work, you can find ways to ta, strict discipline, but the child is very hard, but he can't learn, can't memorize, for such a child, parents must be patient, the man's method of teaching children is not advisable.

In short, life is colorful, but the reality is cruel, many times we feel that we are living in pain, but think about it carefully, this kind of pain is the joy of suffering, just don't take it too seriously and tell the mu.

Hold on a little longer, live to adulthood, fall in love once, get married, and dominate your life once, if you don't live now, you won't find a lot of interesting things.

You are still young, there are still many wonderful things you haven't experienced, wouldn't it be a pity if you die like this, don't be depressed because of your parents' beating and scolding, endure it for a few more years, and you will know how wonderful this world is!!

But why do your parents scold you?

In fact, whether you are happy or not depends entirely on yourself.

When I am with strangers, I can also be very depressed and uncomfortable.

Everybody has their worries, huh. It's good to be a little depressed. Don't get too tangled.

Be happy, get up and smile in the mirror every day

In fact, Bai is born with pain.

But it depends on how we view this pain. Hope you're inside.

Don't make some wrong decisions because of the pain of the moment, or should maintain an optimistic attitude, I believe that the pain of this time will eventually pass, people have the lowest ebb in life, when you do pain, is it to ask yourself, is your current pain really the most painful? In any case, please believe that life is like an arc, when you are already at the lowest end, then it will not be lower, and the rest will be an arc all the way up.

God has opened a window for others and a door for you, and God is fair.

I'm 18 years old and come every day to be someone else.

Sneering, I know not to care about other people's opinions, but more or less I will feel uncomfortable, and my family is like this, I always say this and that, it's useless, I'm not good in all aspects, I don't know what I can say, isn't life just to be happy? Why do I think the world is so dark? Do people live to be miserable, to be tormented?

I was also in pain, and I wanted to die for a long time, but I felt that I couldn't do this, what kind of torture do people have to go through to be successful? If everyone didn't like you, you wouldn't be able to do anything great, would you be alive? Every day's smile is full of helplessness and hardship, I don't know how long I can survive, you are still young, and in a few years you will be able to experience the feeling of just entering society.

Ha. When you grow up, you'll know that there are more people who are worse than you.