It s a sophomore, and I m confused about the way forward

It feels like there's a contradiction between your thoughts and reality.

First of all, you want to study abroad, and there is nothing wrong with the idea itself. However, if you can't go abroad, is there no way out? No.

You can complete your university studies in your home country and then seek out the possibility of going abroad. Even if you can't go abroad, it doesn't matter, you're already very good, as long as you keep a calm mind, the road under your feet will be wider and wider.

Second, don't be too yourself. It is necessary to link personal goals with the needs of the times and the needs of the country. If you simply use going abroad as the main means of seeking personal happiness (including future career, salary, etc.), you are putting the cart before the horse.

Third, be good at combining long-term goals with short-term goals, continue to make progress, and look back, you will find that you are proud of your achievements. The key to believing in yourself is that you have made those improvements compared to yourself, today and yesterday. Don't blindly compare, don't be in a hurry.

Be down-to-earth and believe that you know yourself. Be able to combine study and thinking, and determine the direction of your own efforts.

Fourth, there is a gradual process of academic progress. We must be good at combining work and rest, so that we can always maintain a vigorous mental state. Efficiency plus time equals performance.

Only by making yourself a brilliant pearl can you win the recognition of society. Studying abroad requires a variety of preparations, and it's not too late to start, and you still have plenty of time. It is also possible to study for a master's degree in China and then go abroad.

Fifth, don't read dead books. Going abroad requires a high level of English, but I believe that you can strengthen your training and be able to pass the test.

Finally, I wish you academic progress and become an accomplished scholar and expert in the future, and contribute to the motherland!

The guy who is attentive to you may not like you as much as he appears, he is just making a kind of "I am so good to you, if you don't accept me, you can't even pass this level of others, others will definitely put pressure on you, and then you will naturally be able to be with me". Since you don't like it, there's no need to force yourself because of what others say. Maybe after you are with another boy, the boy chasing you will be able to retreat.

First of all, tell the guy who liked you that you can only be buddies. Then you have to try to find the person you like. Trying to get close to him, appear in his field of vision.

But don't confess to Ou, it's better for girls to be reserved, so that boys will cherish it. Good girls are always not lacking in people to pursue, relieved. I don't feel guilty about him

Feelings are your own, others can't force you to love the person you don't love, according to what you said, I have a feeling, is your behavior misleading others to misunderstand that you are the one who accepts you, and then changed your mind, of course, I just guess, but I think the most important thing at the moment is that you explain your words without hurting other people's feelings, remember to explain, don't drag the mud and water, be resolute. After dealing with the first situation, develop a second relationship, otherwise it will make the situation even more confusing!

Like is to talk about feelings, not to be good to you to be with him, don't like reluctantly;

As for the boy you like, let it be, since both sides are not picky, and it feels good, let it develop, the girl should not be too active, keep a little reserved, the original boy should not think too much, you don't accept the words of others, he will think that he will always have a chance.

Send a text message to tell the guy that you already have someone you like, and hope that he will respect you and see how he reacts. If he gives up, then don't be eager to talk to another man, after a while, wait for things to cool down before developing with him, after all, you also have to observe and observe, sometimes it is more difficult once you have chosen a score. I talked about it in my freshman year, and now the relationship between the two has always been good.

I hope you've thought about it.

Then talk to the one you like, dare to love and hate! To like is to like, and not to like is not to like! You have a choice!

Be brave and follow your feelings.

He likes you, there's nothing wrong with that; In the same way, there is nothing wrong with you liking another him.

In fact, as long as you have feelings for each other, don't worry so much.

I think the guy chasing you will also understand that it is impossible for him to be with you.

Everyone has the right to choose whether to love or not to love.

It's your own thing to like.

It's not someone else's business.

It's not that you have to accept that others are kind to you.

Sometimes this concept is quite difficult to understand, but the reality is like that, there is a sentence called "Zhou Yu beats Huang Gai" and this is what it means.

How to say it, studying abroad is like this, you say that you waste a year in college, then there are still many people who want to study preparatory courses, so how can it be called a waste, fully prepared to go abroad, and I don't know if you are sure that you can immigrate or just plan to study abroad and then immigrate, if you have determined that you can immigrate with your parents, then immigrate to study, but it depends on which country, some countries' universities recruit international students, will clearly state that the student must be a foreigner, if you emigrate, It is the identity of their country, maybe you will have a little trouble applying for college, so you can also apply for the school first in immigration.

Big brother, you have already established yourself and are improving towards the state of life that is not confused, it is normal to have worries, troubles and pressures, especially at this stage of yours, it can really be said that there are old and young. Men, we have this responsibility, the necessity and obligation to strive for a happier life. If you still love your job and are interested in it, just because your position, status, and salary are not so high (under the premise that you have five insurances and one housing fund, or some of them), just as you said, you have to start all over again when you go somewhere else, no matter what, you have to work harder.

You can communicate with your wife and talk about your thoughts, after all, it is the husband and wife who don't have too many worries to say what you think ...... heartYou decide together. Come on, I believe that tomorrow will be better.

One will be a success! Politics is like this, there are few leaders and many comrades.

You can look at the resumes of most leading cadres at present, and very few of them come directly from big cities, and they all have grassroots work experience.

Personally, I have reservations about people who enter politics as soon as they graduate from university, because China's civil service system is a closed circle, and the vast majority of civil servants lack strong professional knowledge and professional experience. This is very detrimental to the follow-up work and policy designation.

It's hard to say, but first of all, it depends on your own interests, follow your heart...There is no right or wrong choice of life path, as long as you grasp every opportunity, stick to your choice, and love your choice;

Secondly, the idea of exercising yourself is not bad, there is no too late to say on the road of life, no matter in the **, you want to be strong, professional background, experience are very important, increase experience, experience life ......

ps: Personal opinion, currently drifting in Shanghai, for reference.

You yourself are so entangled now, even if others analyze it with you, won't you be entangled?

So, the most important thing for you now is: think about what you want to do!

If you think about it, you won't be entangled! What others say is just a reference, and you are the one who makes the final decision!

I used to build in China Railway, never.

Generally speaking, the work is all about looking.

The project, the DU project is good, the project manager is good, not necessarily. China Railway DAO is large, a standard of billions, billions is normal, China Railway management is still relatively chaotic, and there are fewer affiliations, this is where the money is, if you work hard for a few years in it, mixed with an official and a half-job, the money is still very big. Judging from the national 12th Five-Year Plan, the only mention of the development of a high-speed railway, the unit price of high-speed rail is very high, and the profit is very large.

It's better to go to those new bureaus, there are more projects, fewer people, and it's easy to get on the top, if you're a diplomatic type, it's okay to eat, drink, and pat horses, which bureau has a great future, just a personal opinion. FYI. Having said all that, bro, give points :)

I think the two are similar, first of all, it depends on your own hobbies, interests, and environment, both of which are jobs to run, you may be able to follow the policy, now or in the past 5 years, they are developing high-speed rail, and they need more people and things.

CCCC China Railway, I personally think which bureau is about the same, mainly depends on your ability, ability, there will be great development if there is an opportunity, it seems that CCCC three is very good, a few male classmates signed that.

Go to China Railway Construction and do it, good luck.