How to face such things, how to face bad things

It's that you've experienced too little. I used to be like you too, and after a little more experience, it won't be like this anymore, and I don't feel sad. You care a lot about others discussing you, in fact, you can think like this, you are not a star, you are not a big person, do you really think that you are a very small thing that others will discuss for a long time?

Nope. You want people to pay that attention to you, and no one has done that yet. In fact, many people and many things are like this, just talk about it, and no one will take it to heart.

Be brave and you'll be great.

This phenomenon of the landlord is something that everyone has experienced or is experiencing or waiting to experience.

No one is born with a very thick face, they have all experienced it a little bit, from the little things at the beginning to the face that does not change color in the future, this is a kind of life experience.

It's actually quite simple to change this. The landlord may wish to think like this, if someone discusses himself, it proves that he still has a certain status in the hearts of others. If others reprimand themselves, then prove that they still have the potential to do better, at least others are not willing to reprimand them if they feel that they are hopeless.

In addition, when others discuss themselves, the landlord may wish to be generous and tell himself that he is not afraid of shadows.

I hope it can help the landlord o( o

This is a personality problem, it is difficult to change, it is recommended that you learn more from others, and slowly change yourself from others.

Be confident, don't care about other people's opinions and opinions, live for yourself, and do the right thing yourself.

Since the matter has happened, it should be faced calmly, and evasion and procrastination will not solve the problem. In life, there are many people who like to procrastinate when they encounter problems, and they also like to make excuses and want to keep themselves out of the matter, but the more this happens, the bigger the problem often arises.

When faced with what has happened, the best attitude is to face it positively, treat it rationally, and solve the matter as soon as possible.

In life, there is no need to be anxious about what has not yet happened, this is a very stupid behavior, not done by a wise person. None of us know what the future will bring, but we must believe that we can face the future well!

Don't be afraid, don't be afraid, and don't be restless and panicked. If you're scared, what you don't want to happen is likely to come right away. However, when you are calm, when you are calm, when you are calm, then no matter what the future holds, you can cope well.

Seize the present, focus on doing the things that you are most sure of, and throw away all the miscellaneous things. Many people like to be greedy, do this thing, dip that thing, and in the end, a lot of things have been done, but none of them have done well!

No. People's time and energy are limited, and we must learn to use the most sufficient energy to do what we are most sure of, which is the smart way. Focus, it's not an exaggeration to say thousands of times, many people work hard, but not enough focus, and the result fails!

When you focus on doing one thing well, you will be the fastest on the road to success!

Respecting the old and loving the young is our traditional virtue, and there is nothing wrong with letting our younger brothers and sisters do nothing. However, this kind of good reasoning is for reasonable people, and if both parties can't think about each other, and just pick out the words that the older should give way to the younger, it is very wrong. As the saying goes, the eldest daughter is like a mother, and I don't see that he respects you very much.

As for the idea of patriarchy, it really lasts for thousands of years, and it is very difficult to eradicate it completely, what an individual can do is to let himself not have this kind of thought, and then pass on his own thoughts to his family. Don't have mental baggage, the more grievances you suffer when you are young, the more thoroughly you understand this kind of thing, and you will be a good mother.

By the way, I think it's wrong when you say about the education of children in the future. The truth itself is correct, and you feel wronged now, not because the reason is wrong, but because your parents are not good enough. If the younger brother robs the elder sister of something, and the older sister lets the younger brother, you should praise the elder sister and then educate and criticize the younger brother.

Let siblings know what is right and wrong. I feel through what you said, you may be a little impatient and love to drill the horns, this is not scolding, I have to make it clear!! This may have something to do with the injustices you suffered in your family as a child.

Small problems are not enough to worry about, but there will be more worries on weekdays, and you have to learn to regulate your emotions.

And your brother, this kind of stinky brother who can't be called by my sister cares about him, I'm afraid you have nothing to do with Voldemort. If you're an adult in your twenties, don't treat him as a cub, you're not a, and you're not obliged to be wronged for him. But after all, they are relatives, and if they can repent, they will give them a chance to have a deep relationship between sisters and brothers.

If you are still a little emperor, you will send him a red envelope and let him take a taxi as far as he can.

Finally, I would like to say that the truth that can be passed down for thousands of years has a reason for its existence. It is always the one who does the wrong thing that distorts its value. The truth is that the dead are alive, and it is enough to have a good heart and a clear conscience.