Are poor couples really unstable, and what is a poor couple?

Unless both husband and wife are satisfied with the status quo and understand contentment, they are very stable. When a woman is not satisfied, she will not be stable, and when she sees that the living standards of others are getting higher and higher, and she is still struggling with whether to buy a dress, her heart will be extremely unbalanced, and after a long time, the current situation of life has not changed, and she will complain that her husband will not make money, and the two will quarrel, and the relationship between husband and wife will be affected from then on. The pressure of life will make them feel hopeless and unhappy, such a life can be endured for a while, but it is difficult to endure for a lifetime, especially in this era of changing women's concepts and being influenced by the outside world.

It's rare to hear of a lowly couple living happily.

In fact, there are many couples who have been noisy for a lifetime, so you don't have to pay too much attention to it. That kind of peaceful life may be more terrifying, there is a quarrel to show that there is feelings, and blaming the other party means that you care about the other party...

I'm not very old, I'm about to get married and now I'm living with my boyfriend, and when I really live together, I find that there will inevitably be all kinds of friction, but this doesn't mean that the relationship is not deep, or there are really strong contradictions.

You are still a student, so you should focus on learning, and the rest should be based on understanding, supplemented by enlightenment.

I think you may be a more introverted child who is reluctant to express his opinions.

When I was a child, I was very afraid of my parents quarreling, or even fighting, and then my father was gone, and I found out that my parents were maintained by this relationship, and noisy and noisy was their real state of life...

Understand them.

First of all, the families are poor, there are few family workers, and there are still diseases, most of them are rural farmers, rarely go out to work, and the income is very low, but the expenses are quite large.

Secondly, it is conservative thinking, earning very little money from work, and having to stay with his parents, the income of the small county town is low, so the family can only enter and not leave.

Moreover, it is any small matter, or any expense, parents and their own opinions are very different, the poor cannot afford to support themselves, and they must have children, Shikai increases the burden, resulting in more and more opinions.

Therefore, poor and lowly couples are not only poor in thought, poor in work, and poor in life, resulting in more and more poverty.

1. Poor couples rarely have happiness at all.

Poor couples mourn everything, there is no most basic material life between husband and wife, it is easy to quarrel about this, many quarrels in the life of husband and wife are caused by money, if there is abundant material, the relationship between husband and wife will be much more harmonious.

Poor couples are often discriminated against in their lives, and their children will also suffer from their parents' poverty. Because of poverty, many couples have to go out to work, leaving their children at home to take care of the elderly, and it is also the current situation of many left-behind children, because of poverty, they have no way to gain a foothold in the city where they are located, and the place where they live can only be a small house that can only accommodate two people. Some even in order to save money, male and female workers live in a room, each room has many bunk beds, and each bed lives in a couple.

Couples living in such an environment are hardly able to feel happy.

Second, poor couples have no way to enjoy life.

Living in poverty, the daily life of husband and wife is to run around for three meals a day, and there is no extra money to enjoy life. For example, if you want to buy a piece of clothing, you have to think carefully, and you have to bargain for a few cents to buy a dish. Poor couples have no extra money to go to see the world, visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and enjoy the customs and customs of various places like a rich brother; Because of poverty, they are reluctant to even go out to work and even buy a station to go home, so in order to save money to buy tickets during the Chinese New Year, they would rather not go home to see their children and parents, but stay in the city where they work, just to save the cost of a return ticket.

Second, the relationship between poor couples will become indifferent.

Rich in the mountains have distant relatives, poor in the downtown no one asks, poor couples are generally not welcomed among relatives and friends, if they have something urgent need to borrow money and want to find someone to borrow money, others will also take into account their family situation to see if they can repay and then decide whether to borrow or not, because poor, a lot of emotions will also become indifferent.