Optimism doesn t have to be strong, optimistic people are actually very strong

Yes, because optimism is attitude!! It's your "performance" when you're faced with a problem

Strong is the quality, is what you should have when doing things, one is to face things, the other is to do things, of course, it is easy to face things, it is difficult to do things, because you will encounter a lot of problems and difficulties that you don't want to face very difficult.

For example, Xiao Ming failed the college entrance examination, and he can't always be sad, so he should be optimistic. But is optimism really that easy? The expectations of family, the trust of friends, the ridicule of villains, the helplessness of teachers, and the road ahead This is not something that can be solved by mere optimism.

So you have to be strong, stick to the optimistic mood, and turn your grief into strength to solve it one by one.

So it's easy to be optimistic, but it's hard to be strong, so being optimistic doesn't have to be strong. Hope!

Let's talk about it from my experience:

I broke up with my first love, and during that time, I was always alone, and I couldn't help crying, in the words of my best friends, I loved her, and I loved the kind that could die for her, so, really, the tears were unbearable, and the heart was torn, which reflected my lack of strength, so to speak.

During that time, in front of my classmates, I was still so happy and had a good time, of course, only in front of them, but it also reflected my optimism.

I don't know how much you can understand by saying this, but I think the examples are better understood.

It's a bit contradictory that you say this, optimism means that you can think about everything very openly, and you can see it very openly, and you don't necessarily have to be strong that even if you see it very openly, you may not be able to stick to it, and I hope mine can solve your problems.

Optimism is the attitude of looking at things, and being strong is the performance of dealing with things!

I can live strongly, but that doesn't mean I'm optimistic.

Sometimes being strong is forced by external pressure, and life forces you to be strong, with a certain degree of objectivity, but optimism is different, optimism is a subjective state of mind, which is emanating from the heart.

Optimism is a good state of mind. It's not about being strong.

What is optimism?

Optimism means that you will face it with a smile when you encounter unsatisfactory things; Optimism means that no matter how much you want to cry, you won't shed tears easily!

Optimism is that there are two people walking together on the hot desert, each of them only has a bottle of water, and one person picks up the bottle of water and says sadly: "I only have one bottle of water left!" And the other person also picked up the bottle of water, smiled and said, "I still have a bottle of water!" ”

Well, that's optimism! Optimism is actually very sleepy and simple, but it has magical power, it can make people full of confidence and courage in their own life and the world, and optimism can make people strong and make people happy all the time.

Optimism is optimism, optimistic people are actually very strong, optimistic people are not far behind, as long as a person learns to be optimistic, Wang slippery regret can be very happy!

To live in this society, you must learn to be optimistic and strong! Be worthy of yourself.

The main thing is your mindset and the way you look at things.

Many people are unhappy in life because some of the behaviors of others do not meet their expectations, and you will have an unconscious sense of loss. So you have to learn to lower your expectations of others, which is a good way to reduce disappointment.

After experiencing a lot of things, I will become strong and optimistic if I look down on some rules of doing things in the world. When I encountered something, I also thought about cowardly escaping, but later found that escaping did not solve the problem, but only exacerbated it. So I had to be optimistic and strong.

Instead of letting some things torment yourself, it's better to be happy, maybe there will be surprises waiting for you.

The first thing you have to do is change your attitude. Whether it's a person or a thing, your ideas are very important. If you want to be optimistic and strong, tell these things when you encounter pornography, don't be afraid of failure, even if you really can't do it well, tell yourself, and try to maintain an optimistic attitude to get things done.

First of all, look at things a little more openly, do more self-psychological hints, think that this is nothing, psychological hints are more, and slowly become strong and optimistic, and secondly, you must be confident, you must be confident, you must have a domineering spirit, you must have your own beliefs, your own persistence, temper in adversity, you can think more happy things again, try to do something well, you can also run, find a place where no one shouts, practice boxing, fate is not sympathetic to the weak, be open-minded, you have to break through your psychological barriers.

Being strong is never innate, and only after experiencing the trials and hardships of life will you become strong.

Everyone wants to find an arm that they can rely on to shelter themselves from the wind and rain. But the reality is that all the wind and rain are borne by yourself.

When you are accustomed to facing all kinds of ups and downs in life, you will gradually become strong and calm.

As for how to be optimistic, it's innate. Some people smile in the face of life, and some people like to complicate simple things, and it is easy to get into the horns.

In fact, if you don't dwell on the little things and the things of the past, and don't care about the things that haven't happened yet, there is no big problem. Why should a man be embarrassed by himself?

I think that only when a person has experienced some things, his mind has matured, he has seen a lot, and he is sensible, will he not panic when encountering things, and take solving problems as the theme instead of complaining and confiding, so that he can become optimistic and strong.

After watching Mr. Hu Shih's touching "My Mother", I was deeply moved by the great and selfless maternal love. The moment I closed the language book, I remembered my mother.

My mother was a cheerful, lively person. If you want to ask me what I receive from my mother'The biggest impact, I think, is my optimism.

Let's talk about the "Auditor Qualification Examination". Tens of thousands of auditors from all over the country participated in this examination, and only a few hundred were elected. As a result, there are very few people who hold an "auditor certificate".

In addition to the pressure of numbers, the difficulty of the exam is also not negligible. Mom studied until midnight for several weeks in order to prepare for this exam. Every day, as soon as I get home, I drink saliva and read a book, and of course the task of cooking is left to me and my father!

After dinner, she took a shower and went back to her room. My dad and I couldn't help much, so we could only reduce the sound of footsteps, help her pour water, and then silently support her in our hearts. At one point I couldn't help but ask my mother, "Aren't you tired like this?"

She's like: "It's nothing, just get through it and it's over." "Then, if you can't pass the exam in the end, won't it be in vain if you work so hard and forget to eat and sleep to study?

I don't think you need to be so persistent, do you? I pouted. Unexpectedly, this "unproductive" sentence angered my mother.

What a word! As you say, everyone is afraid of failure, and no one succeeds. You don't necessarily succeed if you put in the effort, but you won't succeed if you don't put in the effort!!

Your studies too! If you don't work, no matter how small the success, you won't get ......And so. Mom is taking the world again and starting to nag.

Although I didn't listen to a single word of what she said about my studies at the time, I will always remember what she said before. Oh! In addition, my mother finally obtained the "auditor qualification certificate" after hard work and harvest, and she was so excited that she burst into tears when she heard the news.

It's the first time I've seen an optimistic and strong mother "cry"! She was so happy and so excited ...... "God Limbs Crying".

This is my mother, an optimistic and strong person.