Why are my parents so strict with me?

Teenagers and their parents live in different eras, and their ideological concepts and ways of dealing with others are also bound to be different, and if both parties have their own opinions, there will be contradictions, and the confrontation of mutual words will deepen this contradiction; If there is a lack of good communication between the two generations, there will be a gap, the so-called generation gap. When the strict discipline of parents collides with the rebellious psychology of children, quarrels are inevitable. In fact, as parents, they can sometimes see the essence of things through phenomena, and sometimes they can really benefit a lot from listening to their parents.

As a person who has come from the past, parents are always worried that their children will make mistakes on the road of life, so they often "impose" their own ideas on their children; As everyone knows, children who grow up already have their own independent opinions, especially do not want their parents to interfere too much with their freedom, parents for their children's work, study, friends, marriage too much self-assertive arrangements, often because of the children's disgust or resistance and backfired...

I believe that you love your parents very much, but you can't stand the nagging and "excessive" discipline of your parents and feel out of place with your parents; In fact, this is the meticulous care of parents for their children. "Whoever says an inch of grass will repay Sanchunhui", it is not easy for our parents to raise us to grow up, we should always be grateful; Please think more about the nurturing grace of your parents, try to talk to your parents, chat, and gradually shorten the distance between you and your parents, so that the family relationship gradually tends to be harmonious, which is what children should and can do.

As long as you and your parents care for each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other, you will definitely be able to get along.

My parents said that because we were disobedient, but because they were too fierce first, and second, they scolded and beat people, I have been like this since I was a child, and there is no parent who does not scold, right?? It's not suitable for other looks, parents will always be fierce, yes, anyway, parents should be more fierce, if not, then bring some parents, they don't love us at all!

If you and your parents are both fierce, that's what your parents taught.

Because what my sister is talking about is such a parent? How will the child be raised?

So your current grades and personality are all taught by your parents!

You want your parents to know what he didn't call? For example, if there are no honest parents, how can there be honest children?

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Because they love you very much, they are afraid that you will have a bad appearance, and they are afraid that you will have some accidents.

This is also a manifestation of love, people who are not relatives must not care about you, maybe the parent's discipline is too strict, so that the children are unbearable and even have a rebellious mentality, but the children should be rational and considerate of the parents. At the same time, parents should not deprive their children of their freedom too much. The most important thing is communication.

yes, why is that?

Since you say so.

Then you won't have to communicate.

Actually, I'm just like you.

I hated it at the beginning, why parents were so strict with our children.

At the time, it felt like we had grown up.

Why don't you believe me so much?

I'm so angry and hateful.

People should learn to empathize.

Then our children will not complain that their parents do not understand their children.

In the eyes of parents.

No matter how old we are, we are children.

Thinking of us all the time.

So we're very happy.

The happiness in front of you should be cherished.

Think of the children of Wenchuan**.

Aren't we happy now?

There is no taste of parents.

What it's like to lose your parents.

It's a very painful and sad thing.

Now that we have parents who love us.

Why is it not good?

I'll show you how.

You first learn to empathize.

Understand your parents.

Then your parents will think about it from your point of view.

You have to set an example for your parents first.

Then your parents won't be so strict with you.

Because they know that their children are already sensible.

I can already have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong.

So they will be relieved.

Don't cherish it when you have it.

You only know you have it when you lose it.

Others themselves regret it.

A good son wants to raise and kiss is not killed.

Don’t wait for prosperity to care for the things important to you.

That's because they care about you very much, and they are afraid that you will learn badly.

Because there are too many traps in this society, in fact, you don't think that it is a burden for them to care about you, you should be happy that your parents love you like this.

Sometimes you can also talk to them about your opinions, communicate with them, and when you see the problem comprehensively, they will feel that you have grown up, and they will care less and less about you.

In the eyes of your parents, you will always be a child, and they are afraid that you will be hurt, but when you grow up, you should know how to think about it, and you should know how to do it.

Your parents have a deep understanding of this, and you should understand your parents' good intentions, which is also your parents' love for you.

If you don't know the price of firewood and rice, you don't know the kindness of your parents if you don't raise children, your parents are for your good, I know you have your thoughts now, you want to do something yourself, but your parents will not harm you, you have to repay a grateful new treatment of your parents.

Because your parents love you, they want you to be successful. Therefore, you are more strict. Please be considerate of your parents and talk to them about your feelings. Let them understand you too.

Hello, I don't know what your specific age is? You feel that your parents are too strict with you, but you must also feel your parents' care and love for you. It may be that the way they love makes you feel unacceptable and feel too controlled and controlled.

But you can communicate with them instead of arguing with them. First of all, you must affirm that your parents care about you, and then negotiate with your parents to go out to meet with friends at what time you can come home at the latest, agree on a mutually acceptable time, and promise them that you will not make bad friends and go out to play without doing things that worry your parents. Then tell your parents that when you grow up, you hope to exercise your independence ability, so that your parents can give you a certain amount of freedom, so that you can grow up and mature faster.

Communicate with your parents like this, and I believe they will accept it.

Hello. This is a natural fit.

As a parent, I love my son.

After you wait for this, you will naturally understand. Now you just have to study hard. It's right to listen to your parents.

You can do something that your parents can trust!

Simply put, understand and love, accept and understand. Parents are a little strict with their children now, but most parents are out of concern for their children, and there are many bad things in modern society that are always affecting children. Therefore, parents take out the ability to take care of the house, --- want to make their children become talents through management.

As a child, we must understand the intentions of our parents and not let them down. If parents are not in the right management method, they can communicate with parents, in short, as long as the goal is the same, it is not difficult to build a communication. Adopt it.

First of all, we must demarcate the strict next category, and we can't just look at it from the perspective of a child. Moderate requirements are essential. In addition, it is necessary to have the right attitude towards the strict requirements of parents.

The love is deep, and the responsibility is keen. Strict management is a manifestation of love.

The love of mom and dad is great, although sometimes it is a little too much, but the children can also understand their parents properly.

Your parents love you very much! I'm afraid that you will learn badly, and I am afraid of you. When you grow up, you won't.

A strict father produces a filial son, and a strict teacher produces a high apprentice. When you grow up and can be independent, you will know that the only thing that is really good to you in this world is your family.

Because your parents think you're still young, you can talk to them about it. Tell them that you are old enough to handle problems independently.

You are very happy! I envy that my mom and dad never cared about me about these issues. Independence is an ability that needs to be exercised.

You can tell them that if you want them to make decisions for you, you won't be able to do anything on your own. Your parents will grow old one day, what should they do? Just ask them that way.

It doesn't matter what your mom was like in the past, but I think your mom is doing it for your own good. The main task of students is to study, and smoking and drinking are inherently wrong, so why should you study? Have a girlfriend, why?

Because you feel like you've grown up? Are you afraid that it will not affect your learning enough? Playing with computers, I'm also against it.

Playing with a computer is a scourge for a person with poor control. Moreover, in high school, studying is very intense, and playing with the computer is easy to occupy study time. My son is also a high school student, and I rarely let him play with the computer, only once in a while.

Usually, the computer at home is set with a boot password.

My words may not be worthy of your appetite, but you have to think more from your mother's point of view, empathy, assuming that your children will be educated? Another point, as a junior, don't accuse adults at will, let alone say unfavorable remarks about your parents, and this has nothing to do with your mother's education of you. On the contrary, when you say this, it makes people think that you are just because you resent your mother.

Mother's love is great and selfless, so there is no room for the slightest thought about the bad aspects.

Your mother didn't listen to your grandmother, she deliberately tried her life, she knew it was not good, and now she is afraid that you will not learn well.

Because of the experience, I don't want you to do it again, so that's it.

It's normal.,I've only been to an Internet café once when I'm older.。。