The roommate is a person who doesn t do anything every day, and he thinks this is not good and that

Updated on psychology 2024-06-25
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    He doesn't like this, he doesn't like that, and he thinks it's the same unpleasant to himself. Moreover, other people will feel the same way when they look at him.

    Since they are just roommates, it is estimated that they will live under the same roof in the future.

    The possibilities are gone.

    Since he has this kind of character, now that he has become a classmate, it is estimated that the possibility of becoming a colleague in the future is also very small.

    Since the intersection with him only exists now, then do a good job of completing the tasks or studies you need to complete now, and you can let him go, indulge him, maybe on the road of life, encounter some setbacks, bumps, and blows, which is not a good thing for him.

    Since the three views are not right, there will be less contact in the future, the road is facing the sky, each going to one side, and not coming and going.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you think something is wrong with him, you can communicate with him sincerely, but pay attention to the way you speak and the tone of your voice, so as not to cause the other party to be unhappy. At the same time, you must always remind yourself that you can't be such a person.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Well, it's fine. Others just complain. Don't bother your earning isn't. this society. There are a lot of lazy people who are lazy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Draw a line with him, leave his business alone, and just do your own thing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This kind of person generally belongs to the kind of person who has a low eye. In society, he is also the kind of person who looks down on small money and can't earn big money, and he always complains about others and doesn't find problems from himself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Communicate with her, after all, people who have boyfriends are with their roommates all day long and ignore their boyfriends, isn't that boyfriend air? It's better to communicate.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Communicate with her, give her some time, and give her some space.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What can I do, girlfriends are important.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's good to ask her out once in a while.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    For the record, you don't like that.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This situation is not advisable, if you drink and get drunk every day, then it is easy to make mistakes, so everyone must stop.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not good to say that you drink like that, well, what should people say? If you should play inflammation, you should say yes. Let's talk about finding someone to deal with it, and try it with the relevant departments, well, see how to deal with it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In this case, I think that if we can move out of the university, we can still move out and live, so that we can not only have a good living environment, but also study.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is such a roommate who is very angry, and tries to leave him to find a suitable dormitory, because he is busy with work and does not rest well, and in order to work better with his colleagues, he helps each other and strives to be happy and happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's better that you can respond to the situation like the school and then apply for a change of housing. There are other ways to get it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In this case, I think you can consider changing roommates, or you go and rent a new apartment.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He should be properly persuaded to drink alcohol to harm his body.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can persuade the other party to drink less, don't drink too much, alcohol abuse hurts the body, and there is no great trend to the Bodhisattva.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then you just move out, because what conflict might happen?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    For such roommates, in addition to putting up with it, another way is to change bedrooms.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If it affects you, you can say it directly, and if you don't want to conflict, report it secretly.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It may be a personal living habit, classmates to deal with the relationship well, in fact, I just don't like the type of air conditioner, I am relatively weak, very afraid of cold, blowing air conditioning is easy to catch a cold, so colleagues and friends are more accommodating to me, generally open the fan to blow, but can not force others to be accommodating all the time, when it is too hot, I will still turn on the air conditioner, and then wear more clothes by myself, and cover a thicker quilt when sleeping. People still need to be considerate of each other.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is recommended to discuss it with your roommates, don't feel embarrassed to say that this is not a big deal, and I think your roommates will not understand it after making it clear. Set the temperature to 27 and put water in the room or buy a small humidifier. Helps ease your confusion.

    After all, it is impossible to say that people don't blow air conditioners in summer.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Different people have different feelings about blowing air conditioners, people who are afraid of heat and you don't let you blow may think that you don't know how to enjoy or are reluctant to pay for electricity, but for people who are sensitive to air conditioning, air conditioning is easy to get air conditioning disease, dry mouth, and serious respiratory diseases. Blowing air conditioning is a small matter, but people with different physical qualities do feel differently, so I don't think you should be a pleasing personality, you don't have to be completely according to your own intentions, you can follow the compromise plan. One is to control the temperature difference between indoor and outdoor within 7, and the temperature is best at 26-27, which is in line with the feelings of most people, and it is also the suggestion of many doctors to solve air conditioning disease.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's so hot that it's impossible for everyone to not turn on the air conditioner, so just put on your own jacket. Adjust the direction of the air conditioner's blades. Adjust the temperature a little higher.

    Fear of cold is your personal physique deficiency and cold, and fear of heat is most people, so don't think too much and think that others are deliberate, in fact, it is normal to turn on the air conditioner in summer. It's only been a few years since I lived together, and when I left society, I never had the opportunity to live together again. Only fate can come together, for better or worse.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    For personal physical reasons, try to further communicate with roommates, after all, roommates, this aspect will be considerate, and the preference factor needs to be discussed with roommates, because now it is a very small number of people who don't like to blow air conditioners.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First of all, we must try to communicate, can there be a way for everyone to give way. If it doesn't work, then you can change the dormitory, and if you can make it possible for people with similar living habits to live together, wouldn't everyone be happy? There may be a few people in other dormitories who don't like to blow air conditioning.

    If the family conditions allow, you can rent a room near the school, which is generally not too expensive, so that you can completely eliminate all kinds of interference from your roommates.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You need to communicate with your roommate about this kind of thing, say what you think, two people communicate about a time to turn on the air conditioner, if the communication doesn't work, you need to change the dormitory to find a roommate who also doesn't like to turn on the air conditioner.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Communication is very important, try to communicate with your roommate to solve it, put forward your needs, if your roommate is an unreasonable person, then you don't need to turn on the air conditioner when he turns it on, you immediately turn it off.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Of course, it's communication, but if you refuse to turn it off, you have to find a solution that is more acceptable to both parties.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It is recommended to consult with them first, and if it is really not possible, you can ask the counselor to change dormitories.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Communicate with classmates, after all, everyone is under the same roof, and they must be considerate of each other, so if you can't do it, you can apply for a change of dormitory.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Talk to her about your needs and show that you understand her feelings. Find a compromise again, such as a higher temperature of the air conditioner, the time period when the air conditioner is on, or whether you can thicken the quilt. You can also negotiate a time, turn low before going to bed, and the timing can be around the same time.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Everyone's way of life and way of thinking is different, and you can only communicate with your hostel.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You need to first tell him that you don't like to turn on the air conditioner so that he understands your feelings. Try to communicate with him first.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think it's better for the two to coordinate and not make an unpleasant fuss about this matter.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's easy to do, let's take a nap together! Everyone sleeps and plays in unison. In fact, napping is a good habit, which is good for people's bodies and is conducive to physical health!

    Everyone acts in unison, not only to develop good habits, but also to exercise themselves to pay attention to the collective, and the atmosphere is even more.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Ignore them, the villain is best not to offend them until the last resort.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Force will not solve the problem, it will only make the situation worse.

    Some people can't talk about going together, so they don't have to force them together, let alone break their faces for meaningless things.

    When you meet this kind of person, you will stay away, and the distance will be shortened, and gradually they will stop talking about your friends.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you can beat it, you can fight it, but you can't beat it.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    We can't change others, we can change ourselves.

    I'm sure you'll have many ways to calm yourself down and bring peace of mind to yourself.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Is it just the two of you in your bedroom?

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's really not good, just change the dormitory.

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