2 marriages, cancer refusal to treat, husband and wife both monks, why is Chen Xiaoxu s life so leg

In today's society, it is normal for celebrities to divorce, Chen Xiaoxu is a famous film and television actor, but he has also had the experience of divorce twice. The first husband and her had the same job and were also an actor, but it is said that after marriage, the personalities of the two were still not very compatible, and they finally divorced. The second husband also met because of filming TV, but Chen Xiaoxu heard the master's speech by chance, and she wanted to learn this Buddhism, and later became a monk.

What she didn't expect was that her husband was like her, and he also accompanied her to become a monk. Such a thing is really amazing in the eyes of us ordinary people. Later, after Chen Xiaoxu learned that he had breast cancer, he didn't want to have surgery**.

In the end, he left us very early.

Chen Xiaoxu is a person who does things very seriously, whether he is an actor, a producer or a businessman. If you do everything well, God will watch it, because it always favors those who work hard. Before Chen Xiaoxu played the role of Lin Daiyu, she vowed to play her well and make this role the best, so that all people would remember this Lin Daiyu for the rest of their lives, and then she did it.

Some people say that an actor is already great as long as he plays a good role in his life, and for her, she is already very successful in the entertainment industry. Later, she went into business again, and the advertising industry was very new to her, but she did a good job in the end, just like she was an actress, either she didn't do it, or she did her best, and Chen Xiaoxu also became a well-known female boss in the country.

Chen Xiaoxu's career has been very smooth in our opinion, basically has not suffered major setbacks, and she has done a good job in every line. But her love life is not so smooth, which may be related to her personality and temperament, she is a relatively high person, and she is also a person who pursues perfection. But overall, her life is still legendary and has left a good influence on us.

I think it is precisely because she looks down on life and fame and fortune that she will live her life as a legend.

Her life is related to her background, she was born in an acting family, she requires perfection, she has been an actor, producer, businessman, every role is perfect, and she can see through it after more experience.

Because Chen Xiaoxu played Lin Daiyu, she almost couldn't get rid of this role, so he looked at things very lightly. Even if I have cancer, I refuse**, thinking that only going to Buddhism is the best destination.

Chen Xiaoxu was diagnosed with cancer at that time, and she could recover her health through **, but she felt that chemotherapy would make her ugly, and she loved beauty too much, so she chose to become a monk and pray for herself to live longer.

Sister Lin "Chen": She refused to accept cancer**, and her father was crushed by her last five words. Chen suffered from cancer that year and chose to refuse**.

Is it really just because she can't accept Western medicine, or is there another reason? In 2006, Chen Zai was diagnosed with breast cancer. From the first day her family knew she had been diagnosed, they had been trying to persuade her to accept**.

At the same time, with Chen's physical condition and financial ability at that time, this disease was completely okay. But she gave up because of the obsession in her heart. At that time, his father Chen Qiang persuaded Chen to accept **, and surviving was the most important thing.

However, Chan could not accept Western medicine**. She felt that after all this, people were incomplete. "

Because Chen Xiaoxu, who loves beauty, said that Western medicine ** will be followed by chemotherapy, which will have a great impact on his appearance, so he refused**. This also led to Chen Xiaoxu's untimely death.

Although advanced breast cancer patients are very painful in the process of surgery**, radiotherapy, and chemotherapy, it is the only way to prolong life.

The question of how long patients with advanced breast cancer can live is mainly affected by a variety of factors, and we cannot blindly evaluate it so completely and absolutely.

Because she fell into the empty door, the green light is always around, believing that Buddhism is natural, and everything follows fate.

When it comes to Dream of Red Mansions, there are no more impressive characters than Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu. One is a rebellious son from an extraordinary background; The other is a beauty who combines talent and beauty.

Many people have a soft spot for Lin Daiyu played by Chen Xiaoxu. Whether in appearance or temperament, she perfectly interprets the image of Lin Daiyu.

Many people are curious if his husband is still a monk at the temple? In fact, after Chen Xiaoxu passed away, Hao Tong did not continue to become a monk, but chose to return to the world, and is currently the general manager of Beijing Shibang United Advertising.

The place where he once became a monk no longer has the original nostalgia. Although he used to have a deep affection for Chen Xiaoxu, he is now empty. After all, life is still going on, Chen Xiaoxu may also hope that Hao Tong can find his happiness again!

How did Chen Xiaoxu, the actor of Lin Daiyu, die? Seriously ill and refused**, but he was determined to become a monk.

After Chen Xiaoxu left in the world, her husband still believed that Qinwan had been sad for a long time, and in the end, he still chose to let go of his heart and met his current wife.

Love can't resist reality, when love disappears, he will still choose to return to Hongchen and live the life he likes.

Because in this year, her thinking has changed, and she has thought about it more, and she still has a certain desire in her heart.

Chen Xiaoxu has had two marriages, her first husband is actor Bi Yanjun, and her second husband is Hao Tong. Chen Xiaoxu and Bi Yanjun have known each other since they were teenagers. In 1987, Chen Xiaoxu married Bi Yanjun shortly after filming "Dream of Red Mansions", and then divorced due to the incompatibility of their personalities.

In 1991, Chen Xiaoxu and Hao Tong met and fell in love with each other because of the filming of the TV series "Black Grapes", and finally the two became husband and wife.

In 1999, Chen Xiaoxu accidentally heard the tape of "The Sutra of Amitayus" explained by Master Jingkong in a friend's car, and since then he has become attached to Master Jingkong.

On February 23, 2007, Chen Xiaoxu held a shaving ceremony in Baiguo Xinglong Temple, located in Xinyue Village, Qianjin Township, Kuancheng District, Changchun. On May 13 of the same year, Chen Xiaoxu died of breast cancer in Shenzhen at the age of 41.

Business experience

In 1991, under the persuasion of friends, Chen Xiaoxu left the Beijing Military Region Comrades-in-Arms Art Troupe and went to the sea to start a business; In the same year, he joined Great Wall International Advertising, established the production headquarters and served as the manager of the production headquarters.

In 1996, he founded Beijing Shibang United Advertising and served as the chairman. In 1998, he founded Beijing Shibang Cultural Development Group and served as chairman and general manager.

In 2004, she was named one of the "30 Outstanding Female Advertisers in China" in the "China Advertising Billboard". In 2005, he was awarded the title of "China's Economic Person of the Year" by World Manager Weekly.

Chen Xiaoxu has two marriages, and her first husband is actor Bi Yanjun. Chen Xiaoxu and Bi Yanjun, who also belong to the Anshan Repertory Theatre, have known each other since they were teenagers, and it was with the encouragement of her boyfriend Bi Yanjun in 1983 that she mustered up the courage to submit a cover letter to the crew of "Dream of Red Mansions". Soon after filming "Dream of Red Mansions" in 1987, the two got married.

But such a quick marriage reflects their "hasty mentality" in their relationship, marriage is not love after all, and they soon divorced. In 2003, Chen Xiaoxu said in an interview about his divorce experience: "Marriage should be very serious. As for myself, it was because after filming "Dream of Red Mansions", I really had a family life, and I discovered a lot of things that everyone didn't find each other before and couldn't adapt to.

I think the most important thing is character, my own personality at that time, there are too many edges and corners, I can't tolerate others, I can't bring happiness to others, and then it's hard to get along with, in fact, when I played Lin Daiyu, my personality was very similar to Lin Daiyu. ”

In 1991, Chen Xiaoxu met Hao Tong, a student in the photography department of Beijing Film Academy, who invited her to participate in the filming of his graduation work "Black Grapes". Chen Xiaoxu agreed to shoot under Hao Tong's three visits to the thatched house, the two got to know each other before and after the filming process, and after filming, the crew scraped together thousands of yuan to pay Chen Xiaoxu, but she felt that it was not easy for the students, so she only left 1,000 yuan, this move moved Hao Tong, Hao Tong began to pursue Xiaoxu, so the two became acquainted. After graduating, Hao Tong worked in the ** News Documentary Film Studio for a year, and then he resigned and joined Chen Xiaoxu in the business world.

On February 23, 2007, Chen Xiaoxu was ordained a monk, and on March 8, Hao Tong was also officially ordained. “

Speaking of Chen Xiaoxu, I think everyone will think of Lin Daiyu to connect, because the Lin Daiyu she plays is simply Lin Daiyu herself, both in terms of personality and appearance, they are very similar, it is not an exaggeration to say that Chen Xiaoxu is Lin Daiyu herself. Chen Xiaoxu didn't like to be lively since he was a child, and only liked to hide quietly in the room and do his own thing. Whenever a guest is at home, she doesn't dare to show up.

At this point, the personality is not much different from Lin Daiyu. It's just that Lin Daiyu doesn't want to, and Chen Xiaoxu doesn't want to.

Chen Xiaoxu excessively "burned" himself when he played Lin Daiyu, and he was once addicted to the role and couldn't extricate himself. At this time, Hao Tong appeared, and he tried his best to enlighten her and accompany her to walk around and get out of the haze. Soon, they fell in love and got married.

But fate doesn't seem to have treated her well, and their married life is not very happy, after that, Chen Xiaoxu became attached to Buddhism and often visited the temples of good reputation in various places. Later, Chen Xiaoxu was found to have breast cancer, and in order to maintain his perfection, he did not accept **. Later, Chen Xiaoxu and Hao Tong both became monks.

In this way, her husband accompanied her through the last days of his life, and they were happy during that time. On May 13, 2007, Chen Xiaoxu died of illness at the age of 41. So what happened to Hao Tong, who was infatuated and waiting?

According to relatives of the Chen family, Hao Tong quietly returned to the world after Chen Xiaoxu's death. and met the other half of his life, secretly remarried. There will always be a lot of unsatisfactory in life, and all we can do is cherish the present.

Life is impermanent, you don't know which one will come first, tomorrow or the accident, Chen Xiaoxu was still happy in the last days of her life, because of the company of her husband, although later this man had a new family. However, I believe that everyone must also hope that he can come out and that he can be happy. Chen Xiaoxu saw that her husband was doing well, and I believe that she must be happy for him under Jiuquan.

Just like the little poem that Chen Xiaoxu wrote at the beginning, although Siren has left, maybe she is like the catkins in the poem, she has already found her return Fang Hail Bu Shenxiang, where maybe spring is full of her last yearning.

It took a long time for Hao Tong to come out of his grief. Later, he returned to the customs, met the woman he loved, and formed a new family. They are very loving and beautiful, and they also have lovely children.

His husband is living a very good life and now chooses to spend the rest of his life at the temple, which he thinks is a very happy thing to make himself very good.

Now, her husband's life is relatively peaceful, so we, as ordinary people, feel that we should not bother her.