It is said that Daiyu came for Baoyu, why does Baoyu love Daiyu all his life?

Because every time Baoyu goes out, he always remembers his sister Lin in his heart, and although there is not a word mentioning Daiyu in "Red Bean Song", Daiyu is written everywhere.

Because Jia Baoyu fell in love with Lin Daiyu at first sight, he already fell in love with her when they met for the first time, so he loved Lin Daiyu all his life.

Because Baoyu really likes Daiyu, when she got married, she also thought that the bride was Daiyu before she got married.

Only Daiyu and Baoyu can talk, they also don't like this feudal society and don't like to be constrained, so two people are easily attracted to each other, and they love each other more because they are people in the same world.

1, Baoyu falls jade.

Jia Baoyu had a sense of déjà vu when she saw Lin Daiyu for the first time, and secretly said that she had seen this Sister Lin. Then approached Lin Daiyu and sat down next to her to chat, specifically about going to school, reading and literacy. Later, he asked if Lin Daiyu had jade when she was born.

After that, Jia Baoyu: "I don't have that, I don't think it's a vulgar thing, how can everyone have it?" ”。

After hearing this, Jia Baoyu suddenly went crazy, took off the jade, and fell out fiercely. He scolded angrily: "What a great thing, it doesn't choose people to live in, and what do you say is psychic or not" frightened everyone to hurry to grab it.

2. Daiyu funeral flowers.

When Daiyu was playing with the other sisters, she went to the peach tree alone, took the bag, picked up the peach blossoms that had been blown down by the wind one by one, put them in the bag, and took a hoe and dug a pit next to the peach tree to bury the peach blossoms.

She stood under the peach tree, and the peach blossoms flew in a wind blowing. Baoyu in the Grand View Garden saw that Daiyu was gone, so she came to the backyard to look for Daiyu, and saw the soft figure standing under the peach blossom rain, and for some reason she felt sad. Baoyu ran to Daiyu's side to help her bury the flowers together, and the two were silent.

3. Baochai fluttering butterflies.

Baochai went to Xiaoxiang Pavilion to find Daiyu, and happened to meet Baoyu looking for Daiyu, in order to avoid suspicion, he came back to look for other sisters, and then saw a pair of jade-colored butterflies in front of him. As big as a fan, a pair of Hengkong knew that dancing in the wind, Baochai then took out the fan to flutter the butterflies, only to see the pair of butterflies wearing flowers and willows.

Led Baochai to tiptoe, followed all the way to Dicui Pavilion, heard someone say that men and women privately exchanged handkerchiefs Afraid of being discovered, he deliberately said that he was chasing Daiyu who was just nearby, evading his responsibility.

4, Qingwen tearing the fan.

When Qingwen was changing Baoyu's clothes, she accidentally broke his fan, and Baoyu reprimanded her a few words, and Qingwen's self-esteem was hurt, and she fought back, making Baoyu "tremble with anger". And Baoyu went to the banquet to return to the loss oak, and heard that Qingwen likes to listen to the sound of tearing fans, so she let her tear the famous fan happily. In the end, Qingwen tore the fan in Baoyu's hand, and then tore Musk Yue's fan before giving up.

5. Wood and Stone Former Alliance.

On the bank of the Western Spirit River, on the bank of the Sansheng Stone, there is a Zhuzhu grass, and the attendants of the Shenying of the Chixia Palace irrigate it with nectar every day, and the Zhuzhu grass can prolong its life, and later the Zhuzhu grass is cultivated into a person. I heard that the Shenying waiter wants to go to the lower realm, and the Zhuzhu grass also wants to go to the lower realm, in order to repay the kindness of the Shenying waiter.

When the Shenying waiter came into the world, he became a treasure jade, with a piece of jade in his mouth, this jade is the stone left when Nuwa made up the sky, the stone can be big and small, thinking of mortal dust, a monk turned it into a beautiful jade, and put it in Baoyu's mouth in the nether world.

I think I still love Lin Daiyu in my heart, but he has no choice, because he has no real power, and he can't be the master of his marriage.

He really loves Lin Daiyu, but he is also subject to some constraints, which is why there will be such a tragedy in the end.

It's true, it's impossible to be with each other if you don't love, although the two are not married, but the two people really like each other.

It's really loved. Jia Baoyu is a very cowardly person, and in that environment, he simply doesn't have that kind of courage.

I don't really love each other, it's because we have had a certain relationship between each other for so many years, and we don't want to give each other to other people, so we choose to marry each other.

The two of them cherished each other and liked each other's talents, and in their time such love was not really love, but mutual appreciation.

Of course he loved Lin Daiyu, but in that era, he didn't understand what it was, and he didn't know how to protect Lin Daiyu.

Love, it's just that his ideas don't have a long term.

First of all, the love between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu is based on "childhood sweethearts".

Judging from the narrative of **, Lin Daiyu should have been about 7 years old when she arrived in Jiafu, and Jia Baoyu was 1 year old and Lin Daiyu should have been about 8 years old, that is to say, the two of them began to get along day and night from this age. And this age is the age of the so-called "childhood sweetheart". And judging from the situation when the two met, the goodwill and mutual appreciation were revealed as soon as they met.

Generally speaking, this kind of relationship that has been cultivated by knowing and cherishing each other since childhood is much deeper than normal feelings.

Secondly, the love between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu is love at first sight.

Everyone must remember the scene when Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu met for the first time, although it was not very clear that the two fell in love at first sight, after all, they were still young, but their good feelings for each other were indeed undoubted. When Lin Daiyu saw Jia Baoyu, she was "Daiyu was taken aback when she saw it, and thought to herself: 'It's so strange, it's like I've seen it there, how familiar!'"

Jia Baoyu was more direct, and immediately said: "I have seen this sister before." And further explained:

Although I haven't seen it, I look at the good face, and my heart feels like I am far away from reunion. Later, Jia Baoyu also smashed the jade because Lin Daiyu had no jade, showing a strong desire to touch Lin Daiyu without any special feelings. This kind of relationship, for their age of seven or eight years old, is actually love at first sight.

Third, the love between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu is a kind of "like-minded" love.

Jia Baoyu is actually an amorous person and has expressed his affection for many girls, but it is certain that he is always most concerned about Lin Daiyu, why? In addition to childhood sweethearts and love at first sight, there is also a fundamental reason that the ideological understanding of the two is highly unified, both have a "birth tendency", and they both show a natural boredom and disgust to the political economy at that time. This is why when Shi Xiangyun persuaded Jia Baoyu to study hard, Jia Baoyu angrily drove her away, and praised Sister Lin for never saying such bastard words.

There is an appreciation of love at first sight, the feelings of childhood sweethearts, and the value orientation of like-minded people, what cracks will there be in such a love?

Fourth, Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu's "like-mindedness" has historical origins.

If we carefully study the situation of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu's father Jia Zheng and mother Jia Min, we will find that the relationship between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu has historical origins. The so-called "knowing a son is better than a father, and knowing a daughter is better than a mother", in fact, is because this son or daughter has inherited too many things from her father and mother, including emotional orientation.

The two have no guesses, and Lin Daiyu is familiar with poetry and has a common language with Jia, most men love those women who are soft and weak and worthy of pity.

Lin Daiyu is the reincarnation of the Shenying waiter, and the marriage has been decided in the previous life, which is also intentionally arranged by the author; Lin Daiyu is beautiful, she can be called the first talented woman in the Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Baoyu is also handsome, and the two are also considered to be talented and beautiful; The most important thing is not to persuade Jia Baoyu to take the imperial examination, which is most in line with Jia Baoyu's heart.

Hello, I think I can help you out. In fact, you can't say that, Baoyu is a kind of great love for people. Fat Yan Zhai commented on Baoyu is:

Reluctantly. These three words are very convincing. Baoyu can say that he likes Xiangyun, Baochai, Qingwen and so on.

For Daiyu, it may be because of the marriage on the bank of the Western Spirit River in the previous life.

Lin Daiyu looks very beautiful, doesn't she say "two curved eyebrows, a pair of affectionate eyes." Demure like a delicate flower shining on the water, acting like a weak willow supporting the wind"? Secondly, Daiyu never wanted Baochai to ask Baoyu to study hard like Baochai, she just wanted him to be happy.

There is also Baoyu and Daiyu, how can they be considered childhood sweethearts!

Lin and Jia were entangled in their previous lives, and they are destined to be entangled in this life. The women Jia sees the most are still family members, Lin Jia is a cousin, cousin marriage is respected, and Lin is very good. Xue is farther away from Lin than Lin, Lin is weaker, and he can arouse a man's desire to protect.

Lin and Jia's interests are more harmonious.

Because only Lin Daiyu and him have the same interests.

Jia Baoyu is not interested in fame and fortune, and Xue Baochai and other people in Daguanyuan often persuade him to take the road of career economy, so he is very disgusted with them, and Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu have been together for a long time, and they are childhood sweethearts, and they have the fate of their previous lives.

This one. Maybe it's because I like Daiyu's character.

Summary. The love between Daiyu and Baoyu is a deep and sincere love, the feelings between them are derived from mutual respect, understanding and trust, their love for each other is a deep emotion, and their love for each other is a deep spiritual connection.

The love between Daiyu and Baoyu is a deep and sincere love, the feelings between him are derived from each other's respect, understanding and trust, their love for each other is a deep emotion, and their love for each other is a deep spiritual connection.

The love between Daiyu and Baoyu is a sad story, and he is driven by fate, not his own will. Daiyu is a tortured woman whose parents have died, and she is forced to marry an old lady, and the old lady's son, Baoyu, is also forced to marry Daiyu. They can only love each other in the name of marriage, but their love is sincere.

Baoyu is a kind man, he is full of love for Daiyu, he regards Daiyu as his wife, but there is no intimate relationship between them. Baoyu knows Daiyu's distress very well, he loves Daiyu deeply, but he doesn't dare to express his feelings, he can only love Daiyu silently in his heart. Daiyu is also a kind woman, she also loves Baoyu, but she doesn't dare to express her feelings for the old stove, so she can only love Baoyu silently in her heart.

She knew Baoyu's kindness and knew that Baoyu loved herself, but she didn't dare to express her feelings, so she could only love Baoyu silently in her heart. The love between Baoyu and Daiyu is a sad love, they have both suffered from fate, but their love is sincere. The love between them is a deep love, they both know each other's kindness, but they don't dare to express their feelings, they can only love each other silently in their hearts.