My husband and I didn t borrow any money from my parents, and now I want to move out, what should I

This kind of man has no ability himself, so he asks his parents to borrow money, and if he can't borrow it, he will move out and play a little trick, so you let him move out!

Why don't you work hard, so your parents have to lend him money? Isn't it enough to indulge him once and for all? Isn't the money lent to him enough?

You don't have to go into such a bank, and your parents can't have money anytime and anywhere, so don't spoil him anymore and let him move out. Let him understand that there are some things that he can't solve by moving out.

Along the way, he usually doesn't work hard, he is lazy, he doesn't seek to be motivated at all, and when it comes to a critical moment, he will go to your parents to borrow money, such a person really has nothing to say, if I were your parents, I would not lend him money. No one has a constant flow of money, and money has to be spent on the blade, if you lend him money and he does not change anything, then it is not in vain?

If he wants to move out, move out, let him think about his own shortcomings, think about what to do, I believe that he will definitely figure out how to take on the responsibilities of a man in the days when he moves out.

Then let him move out, and go as far as possible.

I don't know how some men have such big faces. Borrowing money from others, and people don't want to borrow and turn their faces?

If you borrow money from someone else, someone else must lend it to you? Think about it beautifully.

It's other people's money, not yours.

Whether to lend it to you or not is someone else's business. If you are willing to lend it to you, it is love, and if you are not willing to borrow, you can't say anything.

The most despised is such a man, who has no ability and has a big temper.

It is also blind for a woman to marry such a man.

You can give up your family for money, and such a man doesn't necessarily love you much and care much about this family. So why bother guarding him?

It is not easy for parents to earn money and save money. What parent doesn't want their children to have a good life? If they don't borrow it, maybe they really can't get it.

If you can't talk about something, you can't borrow money and move out...

It's better to move away, just enough to see what kind of person he is. Who knows if you can repay it after lending it to such a person?

Settle your own affairs, you are already an adult and married. Parents are not obligated to help you with everything.

It is still necessary to weigh this marriage well, whether this man is worth being with for a lifetime.

Your husband is having trouble with you, and he thinks that your parents didn't lend him money, so he is cold! I think they don't treat him as a family, so when they get angry, they may take their anger out on you! <>

This is very childish behavior, your husband is really quite ignorant! I think your parents should not lend him money, they should not have it in their hands, otherwise they would not not lend him, he will be angry with you because his father-in-law and mother-in-law will not lend him, and he will run away from home, which is too childish! And this is just a father-in-law and mother-in-law, why do people have to get used to you, do you have to give money if you borrow!

If you are short of money, you should go to your own parents instead of your parents-in-law! And what kind of man is he in front of his wife! It's better to rely on your own skills and work hard to make more money!

Marrying this kind of man, I think your life should be very tiring, because he is not mature at all, and many times you may have to suffer from him! But since this is already the case, you can only tolerate him more, maybe he will get better when he gets older!

I despise this kind of man very much, he doesn't work hard, he can't afford to rely on your parents, I have to teach him a lesson, let him move out if he wants to move, let him work his own, and he will come back after suffering.

Summary. Hello:

Whether you borrow or not, you must learn to be grateful, keep a normal heart, if you can't borrow, there will naturally be a legitimate reason for your parents. I think any parent wants their daughter and son-in-law to have a happy family. The first thing that the young couple thinks of when they encounter difficulties is to get help from their parents, but when it comes to borrowing money, whether it is from the man's parents' house or the woman's parents' family, it is best to have a full and appropriate reason, and it is borrowed after careful consideration and consensus between the husband and wife.

It is neither wise nor advisable for any unilateral party to hastily borrow money from his or her parents without a suitable reason.

What if my husband can't borrow money from my parents.

Hello: Whether you borrow or can't borrow, you must learn to be grateful, keep a normal heart, if you can't borrow, there will naturally be a legitimate reason for your parents. I think any parent wants his daughter and son-in-law to have a happy family.

The first thing that the young couple thinks of when they encounter difficulties is to get help from their parents, but when it comes to borrowing money, whether it is to disturb the man's parents or the woman's parents, it is best to have a full and appropriate reason, and it is borrowed after careful consideration and consensus by the husband and wife. It is neither wise nor advisable for any unilateral party to hastily borrow money from his or her parents without a suitable reason.

If you have money, you don't want to borrow it.

It may be a matter of quality, but it can't be interfered with, it's a personal choice.

Summary. As a married man, you should work hard to bear the financial burden of the family, if it is temporarily stringing some money to relatives, it is excusable, which will always make you ask your mother's family for money, and say that it is borrowing, which is not good for you and your mother's family. I don't know how your husband is, but judging from this incident alone, he didn't do anything serious, with ill intentions, if he is short of money in business, he can borrow money from his partner with a guarantee or reputation, instead of from relatives, and he has found the wrong person to borrow money, if you condone his behavior, ignore it, and don't stop it in time, there may be a big mess in the future.

If it were not for illness, hospitalization and other force majeure difficulties. First, don't easily ask your parents to borrow money, so that your parents can't borrow, and if you don't borrow, it's not Minran's embarrassing situation. Second, if your mother has a certain financial ability, and your family is indeed temporarily unable to open the bolt, you can consider opening your mouth, but you must repay the loan within the promised period.

It's not the reason for being sick or anything, I don't know what the reason is, I don't work hard, I like to drink, smoke, pretend to be big or something, as a married man, I should try to bear the financial burden of the family, if it is a temporary string of money to relatives, it is excusable, this always makes you ask your mother's family for money, and say that it is borrowed, and it is not good for you and your mother's family. I don't know how your husband is, but judging from this matter alone, he didn't do anything serious, ill-intentioned, if he is short of money in business, he can borrow money from his partner with a guarantee or reputation, instead of relatives, he borrowed money from the wrong person, if you indulge in this kind of behavior, ignore it, and don't stop it in time, there may be a big mess in the future.

I earn my own money to spend everything in my own family, and I get the children's clothes and shoes, and I never buy them.

Dear, for your husband's behavior in this state, you can only sit down with him and communicate well, you can talk to him about your pressure and your pain, because home is a home supported by two people, how can you let yourself bear all the pressure of the book? If you still don't repent of your husband, you may consider leaving him with your children.

This needs to be negotiated and communicated more. Mutual understanding is the first condition, ask the other party not to borrow, dispel the other party's concerns about borrowing money, and first solve the problem of harmony in your family.

There is also a common and more recognized principle of borrowing money: emergency not poverty. Save people in distress, even if they are stingy; But simply giving money to the poor will only drag itself down in the end.

In Yu Hua's ** "Alive", Fugui lost the gamble, and all the family property went to the shadow puppet puppeteer. When Fugui borrowed money from him due to his financial difficulties, he lent Fugui his original livelihood outfit, a set of shadow puppet play equipment that he regarded as a treasure. This is "saving the emergency but not the poor".

Your husband's behavior shows that he is quite selfish. If there is any way, you can only find someone else to borrow. If you really can't find someone, ask your dad to take a mortgage to buy a car, and now banks or car dealers should have this kind of service.

Do your best to borrow more or less You must keep some of your own, but your parents are in trouble and you must help!

When it is time to be filial, it should be filial.

Owe your husband well!

My husband has to go back to his hometown to see his parents when he borrows money, and I feel that my children are by my side, and I will return next year. What am I going to do.

If it's really because of the poor economic conditions, I think you can still communicate with your husband. After all, in this way, you can make your family economy not worse, but if your filial husband insists on going, you should still go, so as not to hurt the harmony between each other, and it is not conducive to the feelings of the two people. Therefore, it is very important to say that it is good to say, and it is most important for Tachibana Weishu to learn to communicate feelings.

Netizen self-report: My husband has no money in the countryside, he is an only child, and he has cousins and cousins, all of whom got married earlier than us, and the children are several years old.

My husband is honest and good-tempered, and he doesn't know how to refuse. In high school, I borrowed 5,000 from unfamiliar classmates, or I won't come back. After marriage, my relatives asked him to help him twice, and I didn't borrow much, only a thousand, we are still rich, and the money has been repaid, and I have no objection to borrowing some.

But today, my husband's cousin ** lent him more than 4,000 to buy a computer. I thought, his cousin and his family work part-time, at least 3,000 a month, and the two of them add up to 7,000, plus the usual savings, three or four thousand computers can't afford to buy?

And my cousin is married, and she is not single and needs help, so she didn't even look for her husband, so she was embarrassed to speak. My husband said that her family is not wealthy to raise children, and the countryside does not understand electronic payment, so there is no need to Huabei.

My husband said that he had bought it, installed it, and sent it over. Although I agreed, I felt uncomfortable, after all, no one likes to be borrowed.

He said that rural people are not highly educated, don't play Alipay or anything, and don't understand computers, so they have to come to him.

I'm afraid that I will often come to borrow money in the future. I'm scared. My husband loves face and doesn't dare to refuse, so I have to be a bad person later.

When I thought that his family was not without a job, the two of them combined were more than 7,000, raising children, and there was no extra money, so why don't they come to us every once in a while, what should I do? ”

My advice: When you encounter relatives and friends borrowing money, if it is a small amount, you can help within your ability, beyond your ability, decisively refuse. When you meet someone who borrows a lot of money, you cry poor, saying that Huimu stares at you with a million loans, and the two babies want to raise, and they are about to die of poverty, and then play a tai chi, let him think of a way again, this year, no one is rich, and no one will be able to earn money if he is down-to-earth and hardworking.

If you want to reject others, you must first affirm yourself, remember this, otherwise you will never gain understanding. For example, if someone else wants to borrow money, you say that there is no extra money in your current life, on the one hand, you need to spend daily expenses, on the other hand, you need to prepare parenting funds for your children, and on the other hand, you need to invest part of the economy in order to be richer in the future, and the rest is some basic daily working capital, and there is no money to spare.

Of course, borrowing money can sometimes be borrowed, after all, there are some people you can't break off, so what you need to do is to make reasonable arrangements, so that you can save the emergency and not the poor, and maintain the relationship well.

Life has to learn to refuse, isn't there a saying that "people who can't quench their thirst without a scoop of water"? If you don't have that strength, don't resist hard, the so-called saving people must first protect yourself, otherwise it will be yourself who will be embarrassed.

Summary. Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you, my dad borrowed money from your husband and didn't let my mom tell me, what should I do? If you don't borrow much, then don't tell your mother, after all, he is afraid that your mother will know!

Dear, Dad borrowed money from your husband and didn't let your mom know, then in this case you can also ask your mom if you know what your dad is using that money for, if it's for home use, it's okay, maybe you don't want to worry, if it's your dad himself wants to use it for private use, this problem is a little more serious!

Dear, hello, I'm glad to answer for you, my dad and my rough dad borrowed money from your husband, and I didn't let my mother tell me, what should I do? If you don't borrow much, then don't tell your mother, Bi Chachang is afraid that your mother will know! Dear, Dad borrowed money from your husband and didn't let your mom know, then in this case you can also ask your mom if you know what your dad is using that money for, if it's for home use, it's okay, maybe you don't want to worry, if it's your dad himself wants to use it for private use, this problem is a little more serious!

I actually didn't know that I went to bed early last night, and my mother-in-law told my husband about borrowing 500 yuan and saying that the boss had blocked it and didn't pay my salary.

This is also normal, and now that there is an epidemic, there is no salary** It is understandable to borrow a little.

We got married in half a month, and now Tan Chunxiao borrowed it, I went to the hospital for a check-up a few days ago, and it cost a lot of money, so I asked Senhui to borrow it, and I didn't have too much, so I didn't give it to the manuscript.

It shouldn't be a problem, because they all have their own difficulties.

But he didn't pay back the money he borrowed, and besides, we weren't married.

Yes, then don't borrow it, dear.