What was your biggest regret about the wedding that year?

Updated on society 2024-07-10
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    When my husband and I got married, we were completely naked married. House, car, ticket...Nothing, just married cleanly.

    Looking back, my biggest regret is that my husband and I don't have a complete set of wedding photos that belong to us.

    At that time, there was no money, and the conditions in my husband's family were not good, so I thought that I could save a little. I didn't think about taking wedding photos with my husband, and I didn't have that consciousness at all, so I held a wedding.

    I didn't feel much when I got married, but it's a shame to think about it now.

    Getting married, it's just once in a lifetime. What woman doesn't want to take a set of wedding photos with her dear husband to record her own happiness.

    After getting married, in another five, ten, or twenty years, I will go back and look through the wedding photos.

    Seeing myself and my husband when I was young, I feel very happy when I think about the sweet love between the two people at the beginning.

    Now we have been married for almost six years, and time flies really quickly, and we have become an old husband and wife in the blink of an eye. If you want to see the scene of the wedding at the beginning, it is almost blank...

    Now that I have the conditions, I also wanted to make up for a wedding photo, but I don't feel as sweet as I did at the beginning.

    Regardless of whether the conditions are good or not, it is better to take a set of wedding photos when you get married, which is a record of happiness and a witness to the happy moments of two people, which is really essential.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    When I got married, what I regretted the most was to get married to my son, to be honest, I didn't know what was going on between my husband and I, and I had a child in a daze, maybe because I was too unreserved, no one might believe it, I just felt like I wanted to try what it was like to fall in love, but I accidentally had a child.

    I haven't felt the romance of love, my husband is my first love, I talked about love for more than a month and had a child, at that time both parents did not agree, but forced to save face and hurriedly set a wedding date to get married, I really regret it now, at that time if I beat the child out and find someone I really love.

    I don't love my husband at all, it's just that he stalks me when he chases me, and I just want to talk to him about breaking up if it's not suitable, the marriage between the two of us may be destined, talking about a month's love, we both quarreled three times, and we had to break up twice, but my husband actually knelt down in front of me and asked me not to break up with him. I forgave him if my heart was too soft.

    When I knew that I had a child, I told him that we would break up and kill the child now, and I would not let him take any responsibility, but he cried in front of me, and he relented and left the child, and the marriage was only married because of the child, in my heart I actually don't love my husband at all, so it is very annoying to see him after I get married now.

    Actually, I don't want to be like this myself, but I just can't control it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The ending actually talks about the heroine not being with the hero, and the heroine is married to someone else, I think this ending is really sad, so there is no need for people who can't accept such an ending to watch it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The ending tells us to cherish the person in front of us, don't wait to miss it and then regret it, sometimes companionship is the most affectionate confession, no matter how good love at first sight is, it can't compare to the companionship of falling out of love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The ending is actually very simple, and it is a pity that the person I love the most is not the one who married me in the end, and the first love did not go to the end, full of regrets.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I can't accept the marriage and don't have a wedding.

    For most ordinary people, there is only one marriage in this life, and I hope that I can meet the right person for the first time, and grow old together, so the wedding will not be grand, but we must do what we can.

    As a country of etiquette, China was even more cumbersome in ancient times.

    1. Nacai: Nacai is what we call a marriage proposal now, the man needs to ask the matchmaker to be the matchmaker, and the matchmaker will send the gift to the woman's home, if the woman's family agrees, you can accept the engagement gift sent by the man.

    2. Asking for a name: The man asked the matchmaker to come to the door to inquire about the name and birth date of the woman who sold the model, and then handed it to the fortune teller to make a good omen.

    3. Najib: If the fortune teller has an auspicious omen, then the man will ask the matchmaker to prepare a thin gift to the woman's house, and tell the woman that the marriage can be continued. Nowadays, it is also called "passing a small ceremony" or "small determination".

    4. Najib: After Najib, you can officially give a dowry gift, and the man will give gifts, cakes, gifts and sacrifices to the woman's house, which is called Nazheng, which is now called "too big a gift".

    5. Invitation period: The man asks the fortune teller to choose a date, and after determining the auspicious date for marrying, he will send someone to inform the female family and solicit the opinions of the female family, which is called the invitation period, also known as the "begging day", and now called the "day".

    6. Welcome: The last procedure of the six ceremonies, that is, the groom takes the gift code to the woman's house to greet the bride.

    Now, they are all free love, both parties are happy with each other, and after getting the approval of both parents, they come to the door to propose, get engaged, and choose a good day to get married.

    With the popularity of Western-style weddings, the wedding process is also being simplified, and a small number of newlyweds choose to travel to get married. Because not only can you fully enjoy the world for two, but you can also enjoy the stunning natural scenery.

    But without a wedding, it always feels like something is missing.

    Moreover, as long as the wedding is held, even if you do not go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register and obtain a certificate, a de facto marriage has been formed and is protected by the law.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Personally, I think that if the reality does not allow it, even at the time of marriage, it is acceptable not to have a wedding. Mainly because:

    First of all, for two people who are married, holding a wedding ceremony and a banquet for relatives and friends are just a formality. The most important thing for two people to get married is the actual content, which is that the husband and wife can really love each other and tolerate each other, because the wedding is beautiful, if the relationship between two people after marriage is not good, then such a wedding is meaningless, but even if the wedding is not organized, the relationship between two people after marriage is always particularly sweet and harmonious, then this kind of marriage is to make each other really yearn for.

    Secondly, organizing a wedding is also a burden for yourself and your relatives and friends. Since the wedding, you must invite your relatives and friends, and your relatives and friends can not be empty-handed, you must have to give gifts, so this also invisibly increases the financial burden of these relatives and friends, when these relatives and friends have similar red and white happy events in the future, they must also return this favor, in fact, they are busy to the end, everyone just earned a shout.

    Therefore, I personally think that it is more practical, and the real wedding does not need to be blessed by relatives and friends, but also that the husband and wife can feel happy in their married life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    <> "If you don't see these 8 points before the wedding, you will definitely regret it!"

    1. All itinerary arrangements must allow some time to play the gods.

    2. Management should be done as soon as possible.

    3. Pay attention to your diet, eat more fruits and vegetables and light food a few days before the wedding to avoid acne or gastrointestinal discomfort.

    4. Get enough sleep before the wedding.

    5. Remember to prepare your parents' clothing and bag accessories for the day.

    6. The day before the wedding, you will travel again to confirm the wedding, the four King Kongs, dresses, hotels, and wedding cars.

    7 more shots**, all kinds of scenes.

    8. Pay attention to expression management, don't laugh, sisters!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not accepted. The wedding ceremony can be simple, but it can't be without, it's just once in a lifetime (some people may have many times), everyone pays attention to life and has a sense of ceremony, not to mention the wedding of two people, although there are so many people who don't advocate weddings, but only a very small number of people really don't hold it, anyway, there is no one around me.

    For most ordinary people, the wedding is rough, it is a sense of formality, a kind of proclamation ceremony. The scene can be big or small, but both parties to this ceremony, especially the woman, must explain it, otherwise it will look like a sneak. So, the respect that deserves is still given.

    If your circle of friends advocates this, then you can completely skip the wedding ceremony as you wish, but everyone is vigorous, and you can't keep a low profile if you want to.

    Marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families, starting a family represents the growth of a pair of young people, and it is also a return to their parents for many years of upbringing, which requires their witness, and should also have the testimony and blessing of relatives and friends.

    If you don't want to have a wedding, of course, it's okay, and no one else can say anything, but whether the families of both parties willingly accept your wishes.

    Will there be any regrets about the advantages and disadvantages of getting married without a wedding?

    1. Do you want to have a wedding when you get married?

    Holding a lenient wedding is nothing more than inviting relatives and friends of both men and women to witness the union of the two, officially swearing that the two are married, emphasizing a ceremony and a grand atmosphere, and then celebrating a big meal together. If both the man and the woman and their elders agree not to have the wedding, then it is okay to skip this link.

    2. Analysis of the advantages and disadvantages of getting married without a wedding.

    1. Advantages: 1) Time-saving.

    There are a lot of things to prepare for a wedding, and it takes a lot of time to buy a lot of wedding supplies and arrange wedding matters.

    2) Labor-saving. After the whole wedding, the couple and their families will be very tired and very tired. There are even many people who say that they don't want to get married a second time.

    3) Peace of mind. In addition to physical exhaustion, Xiaochong will gradually become tired psychologically. After all, it is really tiring and tedious to prepare for the wedding after work. So many people are prone to premarital phobia.

    4) Save money. If you don't hold a wedding, although you won't have money or anything like that, you can save a lot of expenses, such as banquets, clothing, wedding cars, etc. At the very least, you can save about 50,000 yuan, and you can save about 150,000 yuan at most.

    All this money can be saved for other things, such as buying a new house, a car, a honeymoon, etc.

    2. Disadvantages: 1) Lack of memories.

    If you don't hold a wedding banquet, you will lack good memories, and it will inevitably be a big pity to think about it in the future. If you mind this, it's better to have a wedding.

    2) Lack of ritual.

    The ceremony of holding a wedding is very strong, which is memorable and unforgettable. If the wedding is not held in front of relatives and friends, it will give the couple, relatives and friends the illusion that they are not married.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    My biggest regret is that your regret is also related to me. obviously likes each other, but they have to accept the arrangement of fate. Xiang Yan (played by He Lan) and Tang accompanied Qi Lin Hengyu (played by Cao Yuchen) have known each other since childhood, but they separated for some reason, and the university reunited because of a ridiculous farce.

    One is a surgical god with a bright future, and the other is a talented painting girl with a chaotic and ruined family, with a beautiful vision from school uniforms to wedding dresses, with the envy of everyone, the future is also slowly planned step by step, but unforeseen obstacles are also quietly coming ......

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My regret has to do with you getting married. According to the relevant plot information, my regret is that you are only married.,But the object is not the male and female protagonist.,The female protagonist and others have entered the palace of marriage.。 My regret is related to you is produced by Ningyang Pictures, directed by Zhen Yongbo and Zhen Yongtao, written by Zhen Yongbo, Zhao Yue and Zhen Yongtao, Cao Yuchen, He Languo, Liang Songqing, Ye Lao, Bao Bell, Jia Bing, Pan Binlong, Yang Haoyu, Wu Hai, Jin Yangyang, etc., starring Que Zhipei, which will be released on November 4, 2022.

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