What is the difference between a woman breaking up voluntarily and a man?

Whoever proposes to break up first will think that the two broke up due to the fault of the party who proposed the breakup, unless he committed something unforgivable.

Women generally say that breaking up is difficult to undo, and when women are desperate, they are more desperate than men.

<> woman's first reaction after breaking up is to cry bitterly, when a woman faces a sudden breakup, the first manifestation is tears and pain, which seems to be the rhythm of tears in this life. Lovelorn women release the hurt they have received from men by crying bitterly and release their feelings of repression. Crying is to commemorate the things that have passed, of course, it is not only feelings, but also the dependence on crying for so many years, which proves that love exists and true love has come.

Men are different. They believe that men will not flick their tears when they have tears, and they will swallow blood when they break their teeth. When a man is dumped, his first reaction is "I'm fine" and he wants to prove it to the other party.

After a simple vent, I will find a group of men to go out. And this practice of suppressing one's true feelings, as everyone knows, this is like the mold of the storage room, but it will have a more long-term impact.

A woman's initiative to break up is not necessarily a breakup, the breakup she proposes may be to make you pay more attention to her, while a man's breakup is disappointed and has saved enough, and the relationship is over.

In love, a woman especially likes to talk about breaking up, because when the relationship encounters a conflict, she is afraid that she will be broken up, so she will always break up with the boy first. Therefore, most women propose to break up just to be tempted, or to play a little tantrum!

If the man really doesn't like himself anymore and agrees to break up, then at least the woman won't feel faceless; If a man still cares about this woman, he will take the initiative to reconcile with the woman, and then coax her to buy her a gift or something. In short, as long as a man still cares about this woman, he will accommodate her a little, so in the face of a woman's little temper, a man can have a woman again as long as he is careful.

If a guy proposes to break up in a relationship, he may really want to break up. Because in love, the boy is basically the active party, when he feels that he has paid too much and has been too accommodating to you, he will be very desperate and feel tired, and then he will propose to break up. However, the breakup proposed by the boy is difficult to undo, and it is not something that can be saved by a woman with a little temper.

But it's different in marriage, if a woman identifies this man, she will definitely have a good time with him after marrying him, as long as the husband doesn't have the vice of eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling, the woman will not easily break up. Because at this time, breaking up is equivalent to divorce, and women are very sensible. If there is a conflict, she will resolve it peacefully, and she will never divorce because of a small matter.

But if the man is particularly excessive, the woman is particularly disappointed, and the woman feels that there is really no need to go on, at this time the woman will definitely take the initiative to break up, which is what she will say when she makes up her mind, and men don't care.

Therefore, once a woman proposes to break up in marriage, the man must recognize his mistakes and reflect on himself. Look at what you have done badly, you must correct it in time, and apologize to the woman in time, otherwise you will suffer a divorce!

It is more direct for women to take the initiative to break up and not procrastinate, but sometimes they are irrational and impulsive, so it is more likely that they will regret reuniting after a breakup. Men take the initiative to break up, it is more decisive, and it is not easy to get back together when they break up, and it is common to break up coldly and violently. <>

Women are more impulsive, especially impulsive when they are angry, they don't listen to anything, they are angry and want to break up, and when they sleep and calm down, they regret it again, regret that they are too impulsive, and then wait for their boyfriends to coax them to get back together, so generally women take the initiative to break up is to directly tell their boyfriends to break up.

Me and my ex are like this, I have two objects he is more let me, coax me, but once because of his own doing, there was nothing particularly serious, that is, there was a girl chasing him, I was angry, it was a small work, and then I don't know why I was out of control and remembered a lot of last angry and broke up with him directly, I cried all night, and then woke up and found that there were a lot of missed **, and slowly regretted it, and the anger disappeared, he explained and coaxed me the next day, and we reconciled again.

Men take the initiative to break up differently, generally more rational, more decisive in dividing the land, if you don't love it, you will break up, there is no room for retention at all, and it is often cold and violent to break up, not to say it directly, it is to ignore you and wait for you to find out for yourself, and when you can't stand it to break up, then the two of them will be like strangers.

My first love was like this, he took the initiative to break up, without any other warning, that is, he was slowly indifferent, ignoring me without speaking, so that I slowly had a gap from my heart, and gradually got used to his indifference, and in the end I couldn't stand it anymore, so I mentioned breaking up, and he agreed directly, without procrastination at all. It was very decisive, and then the two of us directly cut off contact with each other and deleted each other, and there is no contact until now.

So in my opinion, the biggest difference between a woman and a man who takes the initiative to break up is an emotional and a rational, an impulsive and a thoughtful.

Generally speaking, if the girl says to break up first, then there are two possibilities, one is to be angry, but the breakup is just to let you coax her, not really to break up, and the second is that she doesn't love you anymore, there may be many reasons, I won't give examples one by one. And when a boy says to break up, it is generally true, but generally speaking, a boy will not take the initiative to say a breakup, but a girl will open his mouth.

So what is the difference between a girl who takes the initiative to say a breakup and a boy who says a breakup? In fact, it's very simple, if the girl breaks up first, then the boy won't feel guilty, because the woman said it first, not dumped her, and then if others asked, they didn't think it was the boy who let down the girl, which is actually the more selfish aspect of the boy. In order to force the girl to break up, some boys adopt a cold and violent way, or they have not broken up with this girl, but they are good with other girls, so that the girl has to say the word breakup.

This kind of boy is just to leave a way back for himself, but if he does this for himself, then it really hurts the girl's heart.

If your boyfriend tells you to break up, as a girl, she won't think about whether he is joking at the first time, because boys are actually much more stable than girls, and jokes that breaking up is a means used by girls to be coquettish, but if a boy really doesn't love you, and you break up with him at this time, then there is really no chance. And when the girl says to break up, the boy will coax at most and pass with a small grievance, of course, this is based on the fact that the boy likes the girl. If a guy doesn't love you so much, when you say break up, he will impatiently ask, what are you losing your temper and what's wrong?

Although love is beautiful, not all relationships will have a happy outcome, and a breakup is the imperfect result of love.

Breaking up is a painful thing for both boys and girls, but boys and girls are different when they break up, and this difference is mainly presented in three aspects.

1. Boys often break up after thinking about it, while girls often can't accept the breakup.

There is a big difference in thinking between men and women, boys are more rational about things, and even when it comes to breaking up, they also go through a period of transition and think clearly before mentioning separation, rather than saying separation on impulse.

And when girls face the breakup, it is always easy to make themselves confused, and it is difficult to accept this matter. Even if they mention breaking up, most people say that they break up because they are impulsive or don't think about it well, and they don't think about the breakup very clearly like boys.

2. Once a boy breaks up, it is easy to become decisive, and a girl can't get together and break up all of a sudden.

After the boy breaks up, he can become decisive because he is rational, and if he is separated, he will be separated, and he will not be the same as when he was together, and if he is separated today, he will be able to become different immediately tomorrow.

And even if the girls agree to separate from each other, but after separation, they can't do it like the boys, they actually need a process of acceptance, they need to withdraw slowly, little by little, they also want to get together and disperse, and they want to be free and easy, but they can say but can't do it.

3. Boys are painful but rational after breaking up, and girls are emotional and insecure after breaking up.

After the boy breaks up, although he will be sad, he will not let this matter affect his daily life, maybe it is just a drink with his buddy, or maybe he can accept a new relationship soon.

But after the breakup, girls seem to have lost the whole world, their hearts will be very insecure, people have become very grateful, what they see, what they think of will not help but shed tears, always break up for them It is really difficult to get through!

In fact, breaking up is a very sad thing for everyone who has really paid their feelings, and it is also a turning point for everyone from immaturity to maturity. Therefore, facing the breakup correctly and minimizing the damage as much as possible is what should be considered when breaking up!

<> two people in a relationship are mutual, and both parties have to understand each other. I'm afraid that the man or woman knows that person's shortcomings, but they don't know how to tolerate it, and in turn, they always complain.

Everyone has a bottom line and their own sore spots, and if others touch it, they will criticize and even fight. What if it's a lover? The most hurtful thing is to poke at the other party's sore spots, and he or she is helpless because of the object, which often leads to the relationship falling apart in the end.

When two people are together, it is a sign that they should tolerate and understand each other, and occasionally there will be times of quarrels. The saddest thing is to substitute the ex, saying how good the ex is, making the other party love and hate, and the personality will become more and more depressed.

Whether it is a man or a woman, they love face. Love advocates equality between the two, and it is especially taboo to accuse each other of all kinds of wrongs in public places with many people. This is an extremely irresponsible performance of love, and when you have a problem, you go home and say that you still have to take care of each other's face outside.

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Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

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