How to help children in small classes build a sense of rules

In order to help small class children establish a sense of rules, then the kindergarten must have a series of rules and regulations, children do activities at regular times, must use time to limit, control children's emotions and various activities.

From a psychological point of view, the consciousness of rules refers to the consciousness that comes from the heart and takes the rules as a key for oneself and the criterion of action. This awareness means that the child is able to understand, express it, and follow the rules in action.

Follow the rules. Rules will make people form a self-awareness of procedural norms, as well as a sense of self-restraint to actively abide by the rules. For young children, it is still in its infancy.

The sense of rules is a standardized behavior pattern that should be cultivated from childhood. For young children, stockings at home are different from in kindergarten. At home, it is necessary to gradually cultivate regular work and rest habits, eating habits, hygiene habits, and good interaction patterns with family members.

After entering the kindergarten, you need to gradually learn to follow the rules of the kindergarten. At the same time, you should also learn various rules for getting along with your peers, such as the rules of the game, the rules of getting along with your peers, the rules of group activities, and so on.

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Cultivating children's awareness of rules requires guidance, education and demonstration, so that they can gradually form the habit and awareness of consciously abiding by the rules.

The following are the specific cultivation methods:

1. Set clear and unambiguous rules

For different scenarios, formulate rules for children that are in line with their age and stage of development, and require the content of the rules to be simple and easy to understand, with right or wrong, prohibition or allowing as the main thing. At the same time, the rules should not be too many and too harsh, lest young children lose interest and become naughty mischievous.

2. Give clear rewards and punishments

In order for children to better understand the importance of rules, it is necessary to give positive rewards or consequences in the process of abiding by the rules, such as praise, smiley faces, energy points or warnings, apologies and even moral education, so that children can feel the positive experience and negative consequences of obeying the rules. So that children can form self-restraint and rule awareness to consciously abide by the rules.

3. Guide problem-solving thinking

When encountering problems, children should be encouraged to think on their own, provide solutions from multiple angles and channels, establish children's self-regulation and self-problem-solving skills, and slowly enable them to gradually grasp and apply the rules.

4. Lead by example

Parents, teachers, and other children should behave in an exemplary manner, in accordance with the rules that have been established or followed. This is essential for the development of a sense of rules in young children. If the person who is a role model does not behave well, the child's understanding of the rules and following them may be greatly reduced.

5. Set aside time and space

Leave time and space for children to think and answer incorrectly, and encourage them to take the initiative to ask questions. In this way, children can form a kind of ability, thinking, and problem-solving ability, and be able to understand, accept and follow the rules at a deeper level.

In short, cultivating children's awareness of rules requires clear rules, positive feedback and motivation, guiding problem-solving thinking, providing examples, and setting aside time and space, so that children can gradually form the habit and awareness of consciously abiding by rules.

1. Parents lead by example and play the role of role model: If you want to cultivate your child's sense of rules, the first and most important point is that parents should set a good example and teach by example. Everyone knows that parents are the best teachers for their children, and what children like and are best at is imitation, and all parents want their children to follow the rules first of all.

For example, if the child throws the garbage out of the window, the parents pick it up and correct the child's wrong behavior as soon as possible. Parents want their children to obey the traffic rules, and they have to obey the traffic rules.

2. Let children participate in the formulation of rules: In addition to some social rules, I believe that many parents will also formulate some family rules for their children at home, and family rules are the basis of children's rule awareness. However, the original intention of establishing various rules is also to make children better, rather than blindly restricting children's behavior.

Therefore, when parents establish family rules, they may wish to invite their children to participate in the rules, discuss with them and formulate rules together, so that children can change from "other discipline" to "self-discipline".

3. Let children experience the consequences of violating rules: In the process of cultivating children's awareness of rules, a very effective way is to let children experience the consequences of violating rules, because many times children do not follow the rules simply because they do not know what the consequences are. Let the adverse consequences of not following the rules directly affect the child, for example, the child has been very fond of hitting people recently, then use the ways and methods of his beating to act on him, and experience the consequences can effectively reduce the frequency of the child's violation of the rules.

4. Respect for children: Establish all rules, constraints and norms for children, all for children to be more aware of rules and grow into a healthy, happy and excellent person. Therefore, when parents make rules, they should first respect their children's wishes to avoid their children's resistance.

At the same time, after establishing the rules, parents should also abide by them together like their children, and only those that everyone abides by are called rules, so as to better help children establish a sense of rules.

<>1. Parents should lead by example.

In family education, what we say the most is to teach by example, what kind of person do you want to let your child become, what kind of person you want to be first, at all times parents should lead by example, so children are also a mirror of parents, motivate themselves to progress, and when cultivating children's sense of rules, parents can not be too casual when doing things, and be strict with themselves.

2. Agree on the rules in advance, which can be implemented.

When cultivating children's sense of rules, we must explain to the bank in advance what kind of rules we want to abide by, and we must obtain the child's approval and reach an agreement with the child, so that it is possible to implement it, and different children should formulate rules suitable for children.

3. Believe in the power of seeds.

Parents should not be in a hurry to blame the child at this time, to analyze the problem first, to give the child a positive response, believe in the power of the seed, if you repeatedly give the child is criticism labeling, then it is to plant the seed of negative and negative avoidance for the child, if you encounter a problem, the first thing you think of is how to guide the child, instead of criticizing and blaming, the child is planted with the seed of positivity and bravery.

4. Let children bear the consequences of their own behavior, and give encouragement after correction.

If the child does not fulfill the rules according to the previous agreement, let the child bear the consequences of his own behavior, but parents should pay attention to their attitude, focusing on guidance, so that the child will be touched, otherwise the child will feel that the rules are not fulfilled are nothing, and there will be no sense of rules, if the child is aware of his inappropriate behavior, and has also made corrections, parents should give encouragement, so that the child will also have a sense of accomplishment, will be willing to persevere.

1. Parents should chat and communicate with their children more to promote the further development of their children's language. Some children are unfortunate in kindergarten, and their observance of rules has a certain relationship with his language ability. If some children lack language skills, they will use more actions to destroy them, so as to attract attention.

2. In the process of accompanying children, you need to play more interactive games with children. In the process of playing, it is necessary to train children to abide by the rules of the game. These interactive play processes, including pretending games, will gradually build up the child's awareness of this aspect when the child is stupid.

3. Cultivate children's regular life and rest time. Try to cultivate the child's positive emotions, that is, let the child be relatively calm or relaxed and happy, and gradually establish the child's regular life as filial piety and return habits.