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After reading the story, I feel that you are a very good man.
He is a person with ideals and ambitions.
Why don't you confidently think that your girlfriend will not suffer if she follows you in the future.
Now it's only temporary, and one day, you'll make a comeback.
Looking at your experience, you should not be very old, and there is still a long way to go, as long as you are down-to-earth and willing to work, your future will be very good.
Don't give up on a relationship easily, there is nothing wrong with your relationship.
If you give up, you will regret it for the rest of your life, will you ever fall in love with someone else in the future?
Your love is so deep.
Believe in yourself and you will be happy.
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I don't know if you know that there is a writer named Liu Yong, his original situation is a bit similar to yours, originally his wife's family was also very opposed, and he was also a college classmate, and finally they came to a prelude and tied the knot, and life was very difficult when the two people came together, and then Liu Yong's success, the woman's family also accepted it, and lived like a family, the emotional matter was completely decided by two people, and whether the position was firm or not was a problem.
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Divide it, why bother to maintain it, man, be chic, and believe that your life is full of flowers.
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I just watched this part, but I can probably guess the plot. I've had the same love experience, I'm probably older than you, so all I can give you is some good advice. Lack of money is a very painful thing, it is not easy to survive in today's society, young people do not have the help of their families, they have no experience to hone, and it is difficult to support love.
You have to understand that it's not that you're in a particularly difficult situation, it's that everyone is like that, so don't be too depressed, it's just that it's not very serious to have no career and no money right now. Find your family to pay back the money you owe first. As long as you work hard to make sure that your life is okay.
Starting zero is not scary for young people either. Then there is the problem of your love, don't think that your girlfriend will suffer if you follow a poor man, love is not necessarily contrary to material, love gives people faith, spiritual dependence, successful men or women must have a good mentality and partner. There are not many people in the world who can love each other, and many people can't find the right person when they are looking for it.
Of course, for some people, there are people who give up insecure love and find someone who is materially secure and not hated. It depends on what kind of people you are. Family opposition is not a particularly big problem.
As long as you don't have to pay for it, I think we can still be together. Or you give yourself a few months to improve your owe money and see if you can support the relationship. Let's deal with it first.
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1. Spend money lavishly and make ends meet.
Love is inseparable from life, and if two people who love each other can't live a good life together, they will quarrel frequently in the future because of trivial matters such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, etc. So, if a woman spends money lavishly and can't make ends meet, then you have to think about your future. Love is not simply you love me, I love you, if you have different consumption concepts and living habits, then you should really let go.
2. Staying outside regardless of your feelings.
It is not a problem to have a few good friends and go out to eat and go shopping from time to time. But if a woman is with you, but she always stays outside regardless of your feelings, or even doesn't pick up your ** as soon as she goes out, then you can break up with her. Such a woman really doesn't love you very much, or even love you at all, otherwise she wouldn't rank anyone and everything before you and completely ignore your feelings.
3. I think you should take care of her.
Both men and women cannot have such an idea of "should" in their relationship, after all, love is mutual, and no one should pay for whom. Therefore, when two people are together, if the woman thinks that you should take care of her, she is lazy and lazy in life, and she is not serious in work, and everything is waiting for you to complete. Then you should understand that such a woman is not worth your heart, on the one hand, because she does not love you enough, and on the other hand, because she does not understand love at all.
4. Always with a lot of friends of the opposite sex.
After two people are together, they should close the door of their hearts for each other and manage the relationship wholeheartedly. If you're with her and she's still in constant contact with other men, it only means that you're not the one she really loves. With a woman's performance like this, a man can really break up with her, firstly because she doesn't care about your feelings, and secondly, because she doesn't want to love you well, so she is still with other men.
5. Don't wait to see the people you cherish.
In the world of true and false love, men will also be blinded by a woman's superficial love, and if you think that she is willing to be with you and is willing to give something for you is really loving you, then you are wrong. A woman who truly loves you, she will definitely be able to love the house and the house, and her love for you will be imperceptibly reflected in the people you cherish. Therefore, in the process of getting along, if a woman always does not treat the person you cherish, then you can really break up with her, in fact, the woman's attitude towards them is the real attitude towards you.
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Hehe must break up, I think you shouldn't like him either, you just think he's good to you, so you will stay by his side, you are compassionate, but you won't be happy if you marry him.
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