Should I untie the knot? Forgive her?

I have been through the same experience as you ...

I'm a girl... My mom loves beauty... I've been a little fat since I was a kid. 、Just because I'm fat.。。 So I was often scolded and cried by her on the street because of this...

The discomfort in my heart is that I feel very sad when I think about it now...

She's the only one in the house... Whatever she says is what she says ...

Can't say she didn't take good care of me...

Can't say she doesn't love me ...

Can't say she's not a good mother...

。But I was often scolded in front of others so much that I couldn't lift my head...

You're better than me. I was just scolded by her at home...

And what I'm most afraid of is going to the street with her... She had no idea what I felt ...

You can say anything ...

I wondered if I was her own ...

I'm an adult now too... From the time I got my first job when I was 16 years old.

I didn't hesitate to move out of the house...

My family is complicated. I won't say much more about this ...

When I can begin to be self-reliant ... I stopped looking at her face ...

But that doesn't mean I don't respect her...

The experience was painful for me ...

But I also really understand ... Why?

For she is also a person ... She will also not know what it is to get along...

She won't be able to control her emotions ...

She is also a first-time mother...

She also doesn't know how to build a good relationship with her children...

We are suffering from this pain ...

But at least let's understand. How fragile and helpless a child is ...

Let us know. Relative to matter ... Psychological care is even more important ...

Really, you should let go too. But remember...

When you were a child, too. You have to communicate with them ...

will run into the same problem ...

Because you want them to have a good future ...

So you may also rely on your own experience to force what they should do. What not to do.

But you and I will know how to respect children better than our mothers...

I seem to be talking too much. But I don't see my mom anymore. See you once in a while.

But she now has her new home. Very happy. So I'm relieved too.

If your mom is alone. You should care more about her...

She's just like you. You can only live this life.

In fact, my mother is like this, and even sometimes my mother talks to me and makes me want to jump off the building.

But people are not the same, even if you are her daughter.

Disagreements are inevitable, try to accept and change.

Many parents are knife-mouthed and tofu-hearted, and sometimes what she says and does is not what she really thinks in her heart.

It's been so many years, and sometimes I often envy the rapport between my classmates and parents.

But I think I'm still lucky that at least my mom raised me that big.

Her sternness and the pressure she put on us is something we can see.

But when we can't see it, they also have trouble and helplessness in their hearts.

Blood is thicker than water, and when you have children of your own, you will understand everything.

Forgive mothers, family affection always requires us to take the initiative to be children.

Even if it is serious, it is better to repay grievances with virtue.

This situation will pass, and many parents will look vicious.

But don't ignore that they also have a sensitive and fragile heart.

Addendum: I'm 21 years old and grew up being beaten by each other.

Sometimes we really should learn to ignore it.

It should be unraveled, because that's your mom, and she's genuinely for your good.

Sometimes two people get along for a long time, and they will feel tired, which is actually very normal, because after being together for a long time, there is no original freshness, and at this time there will be a desire to get along and chat with other members of the opposite sex. But if you really love each other with all your hearts, I don't think anyone can separate you, and these things are not maintained by one person, but by two people together. I hope it helps you and I wish you all happiness and happiness every day!

If you have such a girlfriend, you will be indispensable in the future.

It's hard to forgive you, and it's impossible to make him the same as before all at once. If you still love your husband, care more about him, be considerate of him, and slowly influence him. You go out on a trip and leave the environment that makes your husband unhappy for a while, maybe there will be a good harvest.

Be nice to him!

Be gentle! However, I guess he still can't get over it in his heart!

It's better to let him come out once

That's fair for everyone!

In the future, treat him well, and use time and love to influence him.

Husband and wife communicate more After all, life has to be passed If you have done it, it will not be irretrievable Talk more about the two of them Just talk about it.

With your sincerity and repentance, be wholehearted to your husband; Let time prove your sincerity.

Be kind to him, such a man is rare.

Just help your husband find a woman outside.

It's good not to do anything sorry for your husband in the future, it's better to act than to be moved.

The question is whether you have the heart to repent, and if you have sincere repentance, your husband will be moved.

It's hard to say, and it can only be diluted by time.

Why bother, let him do it again, balance.

If you really love him. Just give him another chance, and give the child a chance Everyone has done something wrong, and he will tell you frankly, proving that he realizes that he has done something wrong. It's all dangerous.

His love could not be relied upon. You're not around. Men at this time are prone to making mistakes.

Since he also agreed to cut ties with that woman, you don't want to pursue it anymore.

After all, you're both husband and wife. I know it's hard to accept. But you have to get used to it.

Bury it. Don't mention it, he won't tell you any details, it's very sad to think about it yourself, how to cross this hurdle depends on your inner thoughts.

Be sympathetic to your plight, so let's share your thoughts. 1. It is very bitter for a middle-aged woman to take a child without her husband's company, and it is not good for the growth of the child. So, although you feel that happiness is getting farther and farther away from you, and you have knots in your heart that are difficult to open, you still have to consider the pros and cons in reality.

Otherwise, wouldn't it be his mistakes that ruined you and the child, but the vast majority of the losses were borne by you, and he went to live his own comfortable life? 2. I think it's better to take advantage of his current attitude of admitting his mistakes, feel guilty about you, and beat him well (not really doing it), so that he can fully recognize his mistakes, reflect on them, and cut off correspondence with that woman's letters, economy and other aspects. If he does not contact you again and can still be so nice to you, then you can still forgive him.

You are married to your first love, in addition to this matter, the relationship is fine, just forgive him once, after all, it is not easy for such a good relationship to go through 10 years, don't give up easily. At the same time, you should also keep in mind that if he really changes, none of you will mention this matter in the future, and if you keep mentioning it, then he will be annoyed, and he will say that you have to be unforgiving, etc., so that you will be very angry, and then a fierce quarrel will be inevitable. 3. Worst-case scenario:

If he is obsessed and continues to have contact and ambiguity with that woman, I don't think there is any need to be together. At that time, regardless of whether the divorce is divorced by agreement or sued, he must be made financial compensation, which is protected by the law, because he is at fault first.

Therefore, I think it is still the first choice, as long as he admits his mistakes sincerely and corrects them, he will not give up on this family easily. The third option is the last resort. Of course, this is just a little advice for you, and the final decision is of course up to you.

Hope it helps you a little.

I'm also a man, and I'm not married, but I do hate men who are in emotional debt everywhere.

After being separated for so long, normal people will be lonely, you have a child by your side, but what about him? Be considerate.

In this case, it is not a prodigal son, after all, he has not gone very far to give him a chance, as long as he can really completely cut off contact and really know where his problems are.

I thought, don't let him have another chance to leave, just hug him, let him feel your warmth, he will love you more.

Be more tolerant, be generous, and since you choose to believe him, please always believe in him, and never doubt. ，

Turn Zhu Pavilion, low Qihu, shine sleeplessly. There should be no hatred, what is the long time to say goodbye? People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is cloudy and sunny, and this matter is difficult to complete. I hope that people will last a long time, and they will be together for thousands of miles.

The prodigal son can turn back, but it is difficult to collect the water.

As the saying goes: listening is better than talking!

If he misunderstands you, you must prove it clearly, and do not be vague and make him still suspicious. If you have actually done something to be sorry for him, it is only time to prove your love for him.

Communicate with him more, the most important thing between husband and wife is communication. Believe in the power of communication. I wish you all a speedy reconciliation and a happy life.

Although I'm not married, I think you may really make him sad You should be happy when you're with him Even if it's pretending How do you make him happy You know best in your heart I wish the landlord happiness.

You don't have a stable job until now, and you yourself said that the time to meet is gradually lengthening, haven't you thought that you will break up sooner or later? It's only an hour away, and you haven't thought about seeing her a few more times? It's because you didn't win her over, and it's not surprising that you got this result so far.

If you want to redeem it again, you can, find a job first, if you don't have a job, do you have the courage to tell others about the future? Then, treat her with the mentality that you originally chased her, just said that you broke up, the girl didn't say that she could let go of her feelings, she just said that the feelings were weak, not nothing, the reason why she proposed to break up was just that she was slowly disappointed in you, cheer up, there are still many things waiting for you to do in the future, I hope you are a responsible and responsible man, come on, good luck.

Love can't stand the test of distance. I hope you can really put her down from now on, although you can't forget it, just take it as a good memory! Don't be too upset!

Love is something that can't be forced, after all, she also proposed to break up, so you should respect her. Time does not forget the pain, you can only get used to the pain, as long as you think of this sentence, your mood will be much better. Love is gone, but life goes on.

First of all, since you are a big man, not only do you not try to recover what you are about to lose, but let the ending go backwards little by little, go drinking! Can drinking drink her back?

Why don't you think about your own reasons for yourself, maybe not the distance, she just doesn't want to break your heart; It's you who don't have the ability! Wandering around every day, it's also you, how much capital do you have to say that you love her, you can't give the most basic protection, in case she gets married, what will she do? You better stop the precipice, find a job and save some money, for her, talk to her well, and save her; I want to find a job closer to her, work hard, and spend more time with her; Men can't pour horse urine.

It's a little offended to speak, forgive me, and I don't expect you to give points.

It's impossible buddy, it's very close to this thing, it does also confirm, human beings can't escape loneliness, even if there is no one for your girlfriend now, sooner or later, the number of times you meet is too small, there will always be one side to change your mind!

A bunch of girls are like this, and society will change、、、 three years is nothing, my friends have talked about it for five years, and they haven't just broken up like that, 、、、 if they can afford to let go, they don't have anything to 、、、 want to open a little? There are so many girls waiting for you、、、

Man, don't think about it! Actually, nothing, people don't hang themselves on a tree, maybe in the near future there will be a better girl than her to meet you!

Only by paying sincerity can you get sincerity, but it may also hurt completely. If you keep your distance, you can protect yourself, but you are also destined to be lonely forever.

I can't complain that this woman doesn't want you, but you don't fight for it. If you are in external conditions, let's not say superior, but relatively stable, she will not want you at least for the time being. It's that if you're not motivated, no one can help you.

Instead of thinking about how to redeem it, it is better to take care of yourself. You'll see surprises later.

Then ask her out, go to a place with a mood, get yourself drunk, and say what she thinks about ...... in your heart

Any love will eventually enter marriage, but marriage needs a lot of things to maintain, you haven't looked for a job since graduation, just ask a girl, how can you accept your boyfriend hanging around every day? If you really love him, you should take on the responsibility of being a boy, not only for her, but also for yourself and your parents.