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Because our post-90s personality is too active, resulting in parents helpless against us, so in the minds of the older generation, they will think that through "scolding" will make us well-behaved, but the more they scold, the more rebellious we are after 90, of course, we also have to reflect on ourselves Whether we are really wrong, of course, nagging is a way of love for parents, if there is no nagging from them, can we have today? So we should know about Entu!
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They're not doing well, so find a punching bag. It's also about themselves, maybe they have obsessive-compulsive disorder, perfectionists, so they have to blame others for not doing things well. Like my mom, I'm calm. In the future, when they are gone, there will be no one who wants to scold you.
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There's no way, who calls him your elder, listen to the right one, and go out of the left ear and the right ear if it's wrong!
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Insert!! This is a generation gap problem!! They think differently than we do!! Sometimes I want to crash 1!!
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Hey, that's how it is with people, it may be that he is in a bad mood and no one is venting his anger and it comes out of you.
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You have to know that parents all hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. Parents are strict with you and just want you not to learn bad... I'm afraid you'll do something that you'll regret later... As for your parents' attitude, it may be a little excessive... You have to learn to communicate with parents and let them understand you... Mutual understanding and understanding will lead to no contradictions... Choosing the extreme way of running away from home is not the way to go... Be sure to learn to face problems! ~
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Compared with the post-70s and post-80s, the ideas of the post-90s are more individual, especially the post-90s generation is also known as the "non-mainstream" generation, and when the post-90s become parents, they are more unique in the face of their children's education.
How unreliable are post-90s parents? I'd rather be a child than a child, it's definitely biological!
In the past, in the hearts of many elders, they would rather suffer themselves than children, in order to give children a better growth environment, it can also be said to be "painstaking", but the growth environment of the post-90s generation is superior, and the education of the children of the next generation is also completely different, and how unreliable are the parents of the post-90s? My children wanted to eat pig's trotters and were reluctant to buy them, but after sending their children to school, they bought 2 for themselves, and bluntly said, "The children will have a long life in the future, you can buy what you want to eat, and the children can't be bitter if they are bitter!" "It's definitely biological!
When becoming a parent, they often want to provide a better growth environment for students, but the food hygiene outside is not enough to guarantee, and parents have to reluctantly bear it themselves, and it is called "everything is for the children", I have to say that the post-90s parents are really unreliable, and they are greedy and say directly, what excuse is the child as a problem?
But in fact, think about it from another angle, many families are "dual-income", parents have to take care of students while busy with work, and personal time is relatively small, if they can't even eat what they want to eat, then they will naturally feel "unbalanced", and for the health of students, they have to let adults bear "junk food", which is really in response to the sentence "a little maternal love, but not much"!
Parents' educational concepts are more advanced, and they will benefit a lot from the growth of students, although it is a bit "excessive" to secretly eat behind students' backs, but the good days of students are still ahead, and it is understandable for parents to enjoy a while, although it is a bit "unreliable", and it is better to suffer children than to suffer themselves, but in fact, they will understand after becoming parents!
Parents of the post-90s generation should also change their thinking and become a good role model for their students.
As the saying goes, "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren", parents should also actively change their own education methods and thinking, especially those who are under the banner of "good for students", but in fact force students to do things they don't like, such as training classes, art classes, etc., which will also evolve into "moral kidnapping", which can only move themselves but not others.
Parents should also fully respect the students' ideas and opinions, neither grieve themselves nor the students, after all, it is not too expensive to buy what students like to eat, and it is not necessarily "bankrupt" if they buy it, so parents might as well share it with students generously, and it can also cultivate students' better morality.
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Because the post-00s are spoiled by their parents, they can't do anything, they only look at their mobile phones, and they can only gnaw on the old people, so they are very parents.
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Parents are always in charge of them, studying, living, socializing, and so on.
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Quite simply, there is no financial freedom.
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Summary. On the other hand, the post-00s education environment is also more competitive, and parents have higher incentives and requirements for their children in order to have better development of their children, which is easy to make children feel stressed and tired, and they also transfer this pressure to their parents, resulting in a deepening of hatred for parents.
The teacher will do some simple analysis for you first: on the one hand, the growth environment of the post-00s is more affluent than in previous years, and they can do almost anything, but due to the material surplus Li Yu, parents have less constraints on their children, and many younger generations feel that their parents are too lenient to them and do not let them be disciplined and restricted enough, so it naturally causes the feeling of hating their parents.
In order for their children to have a better development, parents have higher incentives and requirements for their children than before, which is easy to make children feel stressed and tired.
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Some things are just some people who don't do it right. But what? This is what your friend said.
Like me, I am also a post-90s generation, but I will not do such a thing that is irresponsible to myself and my parents. Therefore, it is not that the post-90s generation will do this kind of thing, there are also things in the life of the post-80s and post-70s generations that we do not understand. Therefore, we should not just think about the problem objectively.
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It may be that the current society is like this, and there is not much to say, but there are many of the current **, maybe we know more, maybe there are a lot of them, but everyone doesn't know.
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They're jealous, jealous that we're happier than they! Don't worry too much!!
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Because they are post-70s people.
If you listen all the time, you can always hear the scolding, no matter what kind of position you stand for. >>>More
The post-90s generation is the generation with the largest number of only children in China. There is no one before it, and it is basically determined that there will be no one who will come later, which makes the post-90s more delicate and sensitive than the 60s, 70s, and 80s. >>>More
Even it is also a drop of the 90s.
Sometimes I feel bored, but if I think about it, I understand, we don't have to worry about food and clothing, and we play every day, can we not be bored? >>>More
Maybe it's a habit, no matter what it was for at the beginning, but then it's a habit. If you know a stranger, you can say just a few words, maybe you don't want to meet a new person; Maybe it's because I like to be quiet and afraid of being disturbed; Maybe it's the line and I don't know what to say, It's better not to be incognito At most, those kind words are not interesting; Maybe it's running away from something; Maybe no one cares at all, so there is no need to go online at all;
The main reasons why parents do not understand their children are as follows: 1. Parents and children have different thinking angles, different thinking methods, different life experiences, different knowledge levels, etc., which are one of the main reasons; 2. Nowadays, many children are born in happiness and do not know blessings, and they cannot understand their parents' good intentions, think about their parents, and think more about their parents; 3. Parents and children do not communicate enough and care enough, parents may only care about their children's learning, but they often ignore the care of their children's hearts, respect their children's ideas, care about children's learning is only a part of their concern, and they should pay more attention to their children's content world; 4. As a child, you must be honest and trustworthy to your parents, and you can't tell lies, otherwise you won't get the trust of your parents, let alone understand; 5. Nowadays, many parents only know how to make money desperately, and they use money to deal with their children, ignoring them, which is quite harmful to children, and parents should pay attention. That's all for summing up, I hope it helps you.