Psychological problems in adolescents, common psychological problems in adolescents

Hehe. There are a lot of similarities with me.

It's useless for us to say anything here.

I am 19 years old.

Say "friend".

There is only one. It's the kind of kind that is embarrassed to play out at any time**, and you are also confident that you and the other party will not have any burden.

You should be able to understand what I mean.

I'm not as good as you. I didn't get to school all the time.

Now just starting work.

In another 3 or 4 years, you will find that going to school is nothing more important than studying.

In the past, when I was in junior high school and high school, some people organized a group of so-called "friends" to celebrate their birthdays or something.

I've envied it too.

Now that I think about it, what is the use of those "chic".

When it was my birthday, the people around me gave me a blessing.

Having a reunion dinner with the family is the most important thing.

Of course, I didn't feel any of that at the time.

A while ago, there was a class reunion.

After the gathering, I found that there were some people I wanted to care about before.

Or maybe someone who can be of a lot of help to you.

After a few years it will be useless.

When you graduate, you won't see each other, and you'll feel it.

Even if someone becomes the chairman in the future, you are a common man.

You also won't have the idea of "reaching out to your old classmates".

If you become the chairman, others are ordinary people.

Someone else comes to you, then it's a different story.

In other words. If you want to make friends, don't make them.

Come to a point in time when you think about it, when you feel bored, tired, and want to share your joys and disasters. Who are the people you'd like to notify?

That's your friend.

Don't pursue the feeling of "having many friends and buddies", it will not do any good to your study career, and having more friends is burning money.

Just go to school and not be bullied.

Think about the top grades in your class.

People are not "chic", they still study well, and no one bullies.

I also get along well with my classmates.

You should pursue that feeling.

Study hard.

You're better than me. I don't even have a girlfriend yet.

A friend on the second floor said it well.

Be content. May you be successful in every way.

Especially learning.

Optimistic about life.

If your efforts are premised on the return of others.

You'll never get true happiness.

Don't worry too much about the gains and losses.

Having fun is the most important thing.

Happiness is not based on how much others care about you.

The most important thing is your own state of mind.

Have a peaceful and cheerful state of mind.

The outside world can't influence you.

Only then can you truly open your heart and make friends with others.

A confidant is not necessarily the same sex, I am not satisfied with my friends, and the most speculative is my girlfriend, confidant.

What other people say is so important to you? There is no need.

Feelings are a troublesome thing, and there's no logic to them.

So be yourself. Cherish what you have. There's only so much we can do. Enough is enough.

bu yao is always asking for people, you know? While you care about others, you learn a lot.

You all have a girlfriend and you still have this thing!

This is a necessary stage of life, right? Many people have this problem!

If you have time, you will come to the whiteness, ah1 hehe

Now you should reflect on whether there is something you are not doing well, or something that others don't like, you can find a trustworthy friend and ask. If not, you can talk to your girlfriend about it first, and then establish a social circle among girls first, because you said that you have confidence in front of girls, and when the social circle is established, I believe you will have a little experience, and you will enter the male circle a little bit, find some topics, and enter a little bit. Everything must be paid, but there is not necessarily a return for paying, don't ask for anything, just do your best.

Go for it.

You have a very soft personality, much like a girl, it is easy to get close to girls, and you play ball and bubble bars with boys everywhere

Lot. Sports, playing ball, it's easy to mingle with others.

Like when I first transferred to another school, I didn't have a single friend, but I played for a few days.

I got to know it all. Spending more activity with others is a great way to make friends.

And don't pay attention to the shortcomings of others, find out more about the advantages of others, so that others can easily have a good impression of you, and male classmates must be righteous, not righteous. The consequences are severe.

Try your own hard work, and I'm sure you'll have a lot of friends.

At least you have yourself

It's enough to love yourself and love yourself.

I think it's actually very happy to be alone

Friends can't be too good and not too bad, no one else cares about themselves and doesn't care about themselves, it's good to look up to yourself, I don't want to say that we have our own hobbies, we can live in our own world.

You can participate in more group activities, communicate with people more, and try to fit in with them. Talk to others. Do something that will make you happy.

You care too much about your personal feelings, as long as you give and don't care about the return, it's much better, forget about other people's birthdays and everything you say, when you're busy, I forget about my dad's birthday for two years. As long as you put your heart and soul into life, it will be much better, be optimistic.

It's not a psychological problem anymore. Just because this has a lot to do with your living environment and lifestyle, you say that you are admitted to a key high school, which means that you have little time for entertainment. And today's young people are not Internet cafes. Arcade. There are a lot of bad habits.

But let's not talk about this for now, it's easy to ignore it. This is not difficult to explain, in fact, people have habits. Often with cold water people do not like and hot water.

I'm giving you an analogy. People are used to it. It's not very suitable for your real language and way of communicating.

For example, everyone smokes. You don't smoke. He met the man who smoked.

Even strangers are easy to communicate with. If you meet someone who doesn't smoke. I think most of it was just a passing shoulder.

It's also an analogy. Now let's talk about your true friends. It's as simple as making genuine friends.

You only do the right thing at the right time. Let the right people see it in their eyes and remember it. Then there is the right opportunity to be together.

And the friends are also concerned about fate and character. If you are arrogant by nature. Indifferent.

Quirks of such types. It's really hard to find close friends. But I have an experience about recommending you.

Try to see things with his way of thinking when doing things. Maybe that will help you.

Sincerity is spirituality. Give people roses, and leave a lingering fragrance in your hands.

If you treat others with sincerity, then what you repay must be sincere.

How many of your friends' birthdays do you remember? How do you care when someone is sick?

Think about it, and you understand.

Whether you are of the same sex or the opposite sex, you need to interact with your heart. Touch everyone around you with sincerity.

Don't complain, when you encounter troubles, find the reason from yourself, and then consider the other party.

Don't give a drop of water, ask the other party to return you a bowl of water, regardless of the return, is the character that a man should have.

Of course, I'm not saying you're doing badly, I'm just giving you a heads up.

I believe that you will become more and more mature in your future life.

The kind of confidant you're talking about is really hard to find.

Take your time. Inner loneliness is unavoidable.

But you reach out to some friends and join them.

And also. I think about birthdays.

We don't have to be remembered, right?

Because people are different.

Sometimes. Friends care about you.

It's not about remembering your birthday or talking to you all the time.

Since you're not a bad boy.

So there's no need to worry too much about this kind of thing.

Because everyone will think you're good and want to be friends with you.

Try to get along with people you find difficult to communicate with.

After a long time, you will naturally know how to get along with people.

I've never had such confusion as you.

I'm also a good boy.

Everyone said I was overpowered.

Actually, when I was in the lower grades of elementary school.

It's about the same as you.

Because I'm a good boy.

I listened to my mother.

Mom told me to be generous.

No one else will laugh at me.

I thought about every time someone talked about it generously.

I'm just envious.

No malice, others should be the same, right?

I'll go out and pull it.

Try to be generous and use everything you can to restrain yourself.

I wonder if my experience will be useful to you?

I'm sure you can.

You shut yourself off.

In a different state, you close your door, open your heart, be happy and brave to accept the world, although it is a little difficult at the beginning, there are some thorns on the road, but the distance, always so beautiful! Believe in yourself, you don't have to be bad at others, others can give up on you, but you must not give up on yourself!

I believe in you and wait for your good news!

Hey, it's easiest to learn to use foul language and tell pornographic jokes, it's easier to fit in.

You can take the initiative to communicate with other boyfriends just like me, and they will be 1 piece, open up with them, you also have to communicate with your parents, let them understand your thoughts, of course, you should also focus on academics in high school, don't fall in love first, otherwise your mind will be elsewhere and your academic performance will decline, then your parents will misunderstand you even more

Still have questions can ++ me.

Let's make do with it.

.Everybody's like that.

How many real friends.

Let's look at fate.

1.He does not like to listen to other people's opinions, and even loudly refutes other people's opinions and opinions, and tends to insist on his own opinions, as a way to express his own subjective and independent consciousness.

2. I don't like to do what others say, and I will resist the requests made by my parents without thinking.

3. It is believed that the vast majority of rules and regulations are unreasonable and should be revised or even completely abolished. 4. If his parents repeatedly tell him the same thing, he will feel disgusted or even bored, and he will have excessive behavior.

5. Praise those students who work against the teacher, ridicule and even ridicule those who have excellent grades or progress.

6. Once you decide to do something, you will not change your mind no matter how others dissuade you; The more he is not allowed to do it, the more he has to do it.

The problem of children's rebellion and school boredom is a big problem in the family, and parents will not solve it, and if they do not solve it in time, it will harm them for a lifetime.