Ask for help The clich of love is when love meets reality

Remember that family affection is always more reliable than love, your mother will never abandon you, she will always be the person who loves you the most in this world A boyfriend can be found, but there will always be only one mother, and you left with him? What about your mother? Your mother is right, he can be a heart-to-heart friend, but he can't be entrusted for life, Life is not as simple as imagined, love does not want to get married, after marriage, all kinds of life chores may smooth out your feelings, then even for money to fall out, if he really loves you, then in six years, he should have been able to change his material, if he really loves you, he will give up on you, he will not let you and your mother have contradictions, let you meet better people, can not get the family blessing of marriage, It will not be happy, not necessarily the people who love each other can be together, you slowly forget him, time will slowly dilute your feelings, there is only one mother in her life, there are many men People have to learn to give up!

I also encountered a similar situation as you, now my husband loves me very much, I feel very happy, time has no unforgettable person It's just you, do you give up? ．

Can't give up

Do you know anything about that? You don't just look at how good he is and don't know anything, you also have to look at how he is usually, and whether he has any vices? Look at the friends and family around him, the so-called close to Zhu is red, and close to ink is black!

Is he trying? Is he struggling? Does he have a future in the future?

If your answer is yes, then stick to your choice, stay with him, and do the grooming work for your mother, I believe that a mother will definitely like an obedient, rich, and obedient son-in-law

Love is inherently unbearable under money, you can live without love, and you can't survive without money!

Maybe your mother is right, today's society is very realistic and materialistic, and no matter how good a woman is, it is not as good as marrying.

The most helpless truth of love is to face the facts.

Bread and love. What are you going to want?

Even after loving for so long.

It doesn't necessarily mean that you will always love him.

Maybe your mom is right.

Long-distance relationships. I think. It's not a good thing.

Negative number - Wizard level five.

The best is him.

yes, it's tangled. I also want to know what to do, get married or break up! Break up, we can't do it.

Get married, he's not ready. Such a question is really embarrassing! Although the reasons we encounter are different from yours, the problems we face are the same, and we can only bless you and bless myself.

How do you feel that getting married now is the same as completing the task in the client.,When must you get married?。。。 What must be ... I don't understand. If you have just graduated, develop your career first, if a man does not have a career, he will not have a family with a good environment.

But I'm you and I don't want to get married, hehe, I figured it out, anyway, there is no banquet in the world that will not be dispersed, it is better to eat one person and the whole family will not be hungry.

Usually love is fragile in the face of reality, and love is a loser in the face of reality.

Either love triumphs over reality, or reality destroys love!

If you love him very much, you will work hard for your love and try to get his parents to accept you.

Find a stable job and then consider whether you want him or not.

I don't think if two people love each other, don't give up.

What era is now, since two people love each other, they should not break up casually, breaking up is a very painful thing, I have experienced, it is best for the two of you to communicate first, so that the relationship between each other can be restored to the original state, work is slowly looking for I believe that one day your things will change, remember that love is two people, to maintain feelings, otherwise you will regret it for a lifetime.

I hope you can find a good job, for a man, is it important to have a girlfriend or a girlfriend's job, I will choose a girlfriend first, and then think about helping her find a good job.

Your boyfriend will also get a good job someday!

"If you don't fall in love for the purpose of getting married, you're a hooligan", is a woman a hooligan if she does such a thing?

Quite realistic, consider 2 points:

1. How do you work? Can you earn more than 5,000 a month? If you go to school, is it at least the second level?

Because without this minimum financial foundation, you simply cannot afford to take care of two sick people.

2. Can she accept sending her mother to a psychiatric hospital for reasonable ** and nursing, and let her younger brother go to a school for the disabled?

Because only then can you fight only on the issue of money, otherwise it will take time to do more. Because there is no conflict between filial piety and sending relatives to a more scientific and secure medical institution.

Money? Isn't it her name on the household register, so what's there, the house is not necessarily in whose name, as for what the child's surname is in the future, it is his surname your girlfriend's surname, and it is not your child? Jackie Chan's son is still surnamed Fang.

Even if she is rich, she can not be filial to your parents? So from a practical point of view, as long as the above two points are true, there is nothing wrong with you being with her.

It depends on your choices and the influence your family has on you.

Brother, I sympathize with you to the inner cow. You're so naïve.

The political book says that practice is the only criterion for testing the truth, and you have only been talking about it for 3 months, 3 months is a p, and when you have spent 6 months, 12 months will talk about real life!

You are still in a blind state of little fools worshipping big fools, and now considering real life, aren't you in a hurry to find a place to hang yourself?

When love meets reality, we should give up the most unwilling to give up things, some things, some feelings should be satisfied, why embarrass each other, why embarrass their love, I don't want to leave my her, I don't know what to do, but we are a man, a man who has to face all the pain, my heart is so tired.

A friend once asked me the same question. I made him choose to give up, because the problem he faced was very realistic, what should your parents do if you get rich? You are an only child, and the first thing you have to think of is that after you get married, your parents will follow you when they are old.

Do you accept your girlfriend's terms? To be honest, how can there be such a thing as a rich now, and besides, her family is not rich, why should she ask others to be rich! Isn't it just to raise them!

If you have money, are you afraid that you won't raise it? But if her brother is demented, your pressure is too great, do you want to raise him until he is old, you have to think clearly, is she worth it for you to do that?

Love Wu and Wu, really love him, will love everything about him, you marry him, he is your lover, and her family is your family.

Listen carefully to your inner voice, be together, cherish her, separate, bless her!

May you be happy!

Hey, the reality is cruel. Her brother is so pitiful, and she is also pitiful, a burden for a lifetime.

If you get married, you will definitely be under a lot of pressure. Unless you're a Monopoly ...

If you are kind, confident, persevering, and patient, then continue to associate with her.

If you can't do it, think twice. Reality is still reality after all.

This is not very good, why bother, the rest is nothing.

Love is very fragile in the face of reality, and the landlord should think carefully.

You're asking if you should break up, right?

If you love her, and she wants to be with you, fight for the future with her, and experience the ups and downs of working hard in society together, I believe that true love can withstand any test.

You guys have a good talk.

I wish you all happiness!

To love her is to think about everything for her.

Graduation work everything.

What to choose depends on your attitude towards her.

Love her everywhere for her.

Or love yourself more as you want.

It's okay, you can be together as long as you want to be together! Graduation breakups are just an excuse for those who don't want to stay together.

Whenever you like each other, you can do it!

Friend, you haven't finished your question yet.

Boys should focus on their careers, supplemented by their children's affections, so they don't have to regret their choice of major at the time.

Since you love her and encounter reality, it is better to give up. It is not only a sacrifice for your better life in the future, but also a liberation for yourself.

In the world, if you give away, you will get something.

is destined to separate in the future, and in this long-distance relationship, it is inevitable that there will be stumbling blocks, which will not only affect the relationship between the two but also make each other feel bad, which will lead to deviations in work.

Deflation is also a manifestation of love, letting the heart fly.

What you regret is not that you chose this major, but how you chose your life Maybe you are still young. I think that after waiting for 2-4 years, you will solve your own problems, and believe me, let it be, it's yours, it's yours, it's yours, it's yours, it's not yours, it's yours, it's you Don't think about such unrealistic things in a realistic society.

Love is meant to be contained in real life! ~~

Hehehe, love career is so difficult to choose, you think clearly for yourself, love is important or career is important, good luck!

Let's look at the opening point!!

The school and the outside are two worlds altogether ...

Alas, do you like her or do you like that major? Measure it clearly in your heart There are no absolutes in life, maybe you can meet a better one.

Friends, let's be realistic, love is a beautiful thing to think about when you were young. When you are mature, you will know that love is just a cloud of the past, I hope you have a career, and love will come with a career. Like you've been apart for a few years, is there still love? Do you love her she loves you and waits for you.

Marriage is really troublesome, not perfect, respect the reality.

Then think about it, and treat love and marriage as two different things.

If you have already seen your marriage partner, it means that the relationship between you and your current boyfriend is not strong and cannot stand the test, then tell him bluntly, otherwise you will not only hurt him but also delay you, but it is even worse, it is better to be ruthless and tell him bluntly, cut the mess quickly.

He refuses to have all dealings with him, including work, and will not give up hopes and illusions as long as there is contact.

You've hurt him, it's over now, and if you go down, it's only going to get deeper.

Try to think about what to do, don't delay, and don't regret your choice!

Which one is him or which one is him? It's messy, but I know a little bit in general, what love, what money, what true love? What reality?

I'm also a woman, and I'm a married woman, so I'll give you some advice: if the person is emotionally okay, if the conditions are ideal, it's okay. Feelings can also be slowly accompanied.

Find a good environment, at least not because of later life. Salt, rice, sauce, vinegar, tea, and quarrels, no matter how good true love is, it can't stand the test when it encounters these.

Love breaks up when it meets reality, because love can't be eaten.

Feelings are not one-sided. Then you should also do something for him, be kind to him. That might be"Offset"?

Find what you like, cut through the mess quickly, and divide what should be broken up.

When love meets reality, often love is gone

Most women are looking for someone to love them, while men are looking for someone they love.

You should be realistic.

Most will succumb to reality.

Reality is not the nemesis of love, whether it can last forever, the key is the depth or shallowness of love.

Looking at a man's ability to appreciate, it is not necessary to have money now. If you are a good woman and the conditions are very good, this is the most correct way to think.

But if the boyfriend has a low education, has little capital, and is not motivated. Then forget about such a man, if it is such a boyfriend, you can use this question to talk to him, and then quarrel, and finally break up naturally.

There is another situation where the wooden door is the wooden door.

good luck to you

What does the so-called reality mean. It's a matter of lack of money or age.

Personality determines people's thoughts. There are also practical actions.

Life as long as you feel worthy of your heart. Do all in one's power.

But don't be foolish enough to pursue the impossible.

Don't be naïve.