Silence for too long I don t know how to get back out of the first step of life and get confused

Lay down in a groove

Wait for the landlord to send money

I want to tell you that during my most depressed period, I was ten times more unlucky than you and dozens of times more painful than you.

But it's not like it's coming over now, and looking back, it's actually quite a lot of gains.

I remember that there is such a sentence in a movie played by Andy Lau: No matter how difficult it is, don't admit defeat.

Believe me, maybe you are blinded by the darkness in front of you and can't see the way forward, but tomorrow is definitely wonderful

Alas, in life, there are always a lot of helplessness. People have to look forward, don't complain about the past, this reality is too realistic, or work hard to make money.

Do you really have nothing?

No, not far away, there's another person listening to you.

...In my opinion.

You yourself seem to be quite optimistic. How do you want me to comfort you.

Just have faith!

Attend a specialty training class and talk to others.

You can try to do some simple work first, the salary can not be too high, but it should be busy, and you can work very fulfilling every day. This will allow you to get rid of the situation of being at home all day, and you will be more cheerful when you have more contact outside, and you will be less likely to hit a wall when you start to do some simple but busy work... Even before the otaku was also an otaku.。。

Stay at home all day, play games and watch movies**. Now although the meter is officially working. But a month of training.

Let the puppet be enriched a lot. It's also a lot more cheerful.

Well...

After not going well.

You shouldn't choose to escape from reality.

Because escaping won't solve the problem.

So you should come out.

Go into society with a normal heart.

We will also be full and bad every day.

But I believe it will always get better.

As long as this second is not disappointed.

Then there will be hope in the next second

Then face it bravely.

Actually, I'm just like you.

Nothing.

Although hard work does not necessarily accomplish the work.

But if you don't work hard, you won't succeed.

I'm a college student, but my situation is similar to yours, the difference is that I still have ideas for the future, and I want to reassure my family, so even though I'm still struggling in this third-rate school, I still go out to work, no salary, two meals, if you can do it, I think your life will be different.

It's inevitable that the work will not go well, you ask those who go to work, how many of them are doing the work they like? Don't think of life as if it's too good, she always has its cruelty, but you have to face it? How can you always be at home? It's better to get a job.

Or learn some skills that you find interesting to use in your work.

I've had a similar experience to you.

You're still young, and the only way to do that is time, and time will dilute everything.

It was just a very special experience, it will pass quickly, many things, it is much easier to do than imagined, and it is not so difficult to face.

It is recommended to seek medical attention in a psychiatric clinic. It's a psychological problem that needs to be **.

Faith. When you find faith, you have a direction. The reason why life is confused is because of the lack of faith.

Find your next goal, fight for it, and you won't be lost.

Life is for those who are prepared. Those who are not prepared are eliminated. How did the strength come about?

It is learned, experienced, and strived. Nothing, that's because nothing was done. If you do it, you will achieve something.

Survival of the fittest lz wishes you to get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible, don't complain about life, and start to change from yourself.

What the hell do you want to know? Life, love, and career are actually treated differently, and then everyone has their own ranking order in their hearts, I want to know which aspect the landlord wants?

Do it steadfastly, learn with peace of mind, there are not so many expectations, there are not so many expectations, sometimes do your own thing, there is no time to pay attention to others, and it just so happens that the opportunity comes. We can't set the future, but we can manage today's things, the future things will be said in the future, and pay every day, that is the greatest satisfaction, your attitude will also infect the people around you, and communication will be good. Have faith in yourself and shine the sun on others, then you are a luminous body.

We should learn to cultivate self-cultivation, try to calm down our mood, and when we encounter distress and difficulties, sometimes it is caused by anxiety and impetuousness in our mentality, so let ourselves calm down first.

Find a quiet place first

Calm down and don't think about anything.

There are confusions in life from time to time, and we must carefully grasp the following points: first, any time is the best time to observe yourself, understand yourself, and create happiness, and whether you live happily or not depends entirely on your own view of people, things, and things. Maintaining a good attitude will enable you to find something to be thankful for in any difficulty, and turn despair into hope; Besides, there are many states and time and space in the world that cannot be surpassed and difficult to change, but there are many essences of life itself in the dangerous environment, people must learn to discover these precious things, people must understand the true meaning of life from the pain, gain the experience of survival from the difficulties, be good at transcending the suffering, and achieve self-satisfaction mentality, so that they can appreciate the beauty of the melody of life.

Third, human life is impermanent, and real life is only a very limited part of the process of human life, so everything that people experience and have in real life, including all the content of wealth and symbolism of wealth, as well as romance and grievances between people, are just a kind of chance encounter caused by fate and combination, and do not belong to the essence of human beings. It's just a fleeting moment, and it's not worth thinking about it, worrying about it. Friends, life is bittersweet, so everything we have is not perfect, no matter how much we care about maintenance, the body will inevitably get sick and age; No matter how carefully we plan, there are always unforeseen circumstances and blessings in life, but such a life full of disasters, uncertainties and troubles is the best opportunity for us to be liberated. The suffering of life can give rise to our yearning for liberation, and the joy of life will prevent us from being powerless and timeless to work towards liberation.

Career is just the embellishment of life, no matter whether you fail to take the first step, it is not important, what is important:

Can you persevere to the end, sometimes, losing is often more valuable than winning, and the harder you fall, the higher you can play! ...Maintain self-confidence, calm analysis, choose carefully, no matter what, always firmly believe, have the heart to become benevolent, I will win, I hope you adopt.

If you think about what kind of life you want to live, what kind of work status you want, and what kind of work position you can achieve, then you can find a related job to accumulate.

Is it the best and who knows? There is a sentence in "Tearing Down the Wall of Thinking" that a good start is half the success, and a bad start is a third of the success. I know that you strive for perfection, but if you don't take this step, you will always be what you want to do next.

Or, do you just want to go that far?