My husband scolds me and my family every day when he comes home, and the scolding is extremely ugly,

Whether you have to put up with it depends on whether you make mistakes often, at what cost, and whether you can correct them in time?

If you keep making mistakes that upset his family, or if you lose their property, then it's normal for your husband to scold you, and he will be embarrassed. If you still want to be with him, especially with their family, then you can endure it, and then change your behavior and make up for your mistakes, and in the future, you can be the daughter-in-law of their family with your head held high, and you don't need to endure their insults.

If you haven't done anything wrong, and your husband scolds you, it means that he may be a mother, or he clearly doesn't want to give you a good life and wants to force you to divorce. If you don't think there is any practical meaning in such a marriage, then simply divorce. If you think that he may have other women he likes, and you don't want the two of them to succeed, then you don't divorce and treat your husband's scolding of you as if it were air, or you can also retaliate and scold back.

But my personal suggestion is that no matter whether you do anything wrong or not, as long as your husband always scolds you, and he helps his family scold you, then I think this kind of life really can't go on. If you make a mistake, you must get a divorce, because the other party will be unforgiving, and you may make mistakes in the future, hurt yourself and hurt others. If you didn't make a mistake, then you have to divorce, don't use your youth to go against others, otherwise it's not worth it at all to kill a thousand enemies and lose eight hundred.

The days of being single are not lonely and not ashamed, especially for those who have experienced a tragic marriage, being single is a way to get rid of. Even the air is sweet at the moment of divorce, so I think you should live a noble life alone rather than endure your husband's abuse and maintain a broken marriage. But at the same time, it also reminds you that if you want to have a happy marriage, then you have to learn the lessons of your previous marriage in your single days, otherwise you will repeat the mistakes of the past.

When we have a new family, we will find that there are really many unsatisfactory things in life, because sometimes we have not done anything wrong, but we have been treated as an outsider, we will feel particularly wronged, so many times we will feel that home is the warmest, and only our parents are the best people for ourselves, so we must think carefully before getting married. My husband always scolds me because of his family, should I continue to put up with it? If you haven't done anything wrong, there's no need to put up with it, when we enter a new family, we have been getting familiar with the environment for the other person, and taking care of the other person's family, if we don't get the other person's understanding, then I don't think there's any need to endure it.

One. If it's not your fault, there's no need to put up with it.

I think that when we come to a new environment, we will feel very strange, some families have a particularly bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and some boys will help their mothers to scold themselves, I think it is very painful to live in such a family, because I can't get recognition, and I can't get care, how can I go back home, at least I won't be miserable. The most selfless love in the world is the love of our parents for us, when we enter a new family, we will have such a deep experience, if the other party does not love themselves, then there is no need to endure it. <>

Two. Love is mutual.

Many girls arrive at a new family, in fact, it is very difficult, because many times to take care of each other's family, but also to worry about a lot of problems, into a new environment, will be particularly homesick, most of the girls are particularly homesick, so before getting married, you must not worry, first accompany your parents, feel the warmth and happiness at home. In life, if you have tolerated it many times, and your husband is still scolding because of her family, then this relationship should be carefully considered, after all, there is still a long life in the future. <>

The above is just a personal opinion, so what do you think about this issue?

I don't think you should continue to put up with it, since your husband and your husband's family are always so disrespectful to you, I don't think you need to make compromises. Otherwise, you will only suffer greater grievances.

Shouldn't. Your husband treats you like this, which means that he doesn't love you, and he doesn't even have any affection for you, so you don't have to put up with his scolding.

No. No matter who is right or wrong, it means that the three views of you and your husband are not suitable, not to mention, if you are not wrong, he scolds you because of others, obviously because he does not treat you as family.

Summary. Because if you tolerate it every time, your husband will definitely get used to it, and feel that no matter what he does to you, you will definitely not leave, so he can have these behaviors without fear.

Every time I quarrel with my husband, he scolds me with all kinds of ugly swear words, what should I do?

Then it depends on what you think now, do you want to continue living with him or what?

Because if you tolerate the chain every time, your husband will definitely get used to it, and feel that no matter how he hails you and you are, you will definitely not leave, so he can have these behaviors unscrupulously.

Uh-huh. I'm too cowardly and soft-hearted to fight him.

Then he just thinks he's done.

You can't do without him, he's like this.

Yes. So you can't act like nothing happened every time.

Well, so what am I going to do?

Then you can just walk away when he scolds you the next time.

So what are you like in your usual life?

I scolded him too, but in the end I walked away.

Then you can try to ignore him directly.

You usually clean up at home.

Yes, put his stuff straight away, and you ignore it for a while when he looks for you.

1. Such a man is abnormal, no problem can be solved unilaterally, it must be resolved through negotiation, it is not right for your husband to scold you every day when he goes back, no matter how reasonable he is, he can't scold people as often as a life, resulting in tension between husband and wife.

2. A man's scolding is a manifestation of incompetence, not to mention that your husband takes scolding as a daily routine, which is incredible, first, it shows that he has no basic moral quality, let alone a man's family responsibility, and there will not be much hope for such a man.

3. I originally wanted to say that there will be many reasons for a person to scold others, either his own pressure, or your mistakes, or your family is not good to him, etc., and your husband scolds your whole family every time he scolds, more like a gangster in the market, such a person is not reasonable, even if he is reasonable, he is not supported.

4. Scolding is a brutal violation of human rights, and men are important members of the family, like shrews scolding the street all day long, what kind of system does it become, which affects the feelings of husband and wife, also causes family conflicts, and interprets themselves as a mad image, so there are all kinds of harm but no benefit.

5. You can find a time to have an in-depth conversation with your husband, one is to thoroughly understand why he scolds, whether he can change it, and make your position clear, if he doesn't have any reason and doesn't want to change, then you can choose other means including divorce.

It may be that he is not working well and is in a bad mood, so he will lose his temper, you have to be more considerate of him. Usually be more concerned and considerate of him, don't always quarrel with him, and have problems to say. If your husband often scolds people at home, you can choose to divorce because such a man is not worthy of your love at all.

1. Personality problems, angry outside, and horizontal when you go home.

2. Emotional problems, there are people outside, and when you go home, in comparison, it is not pleasing to the eye.

3. Marriage problems, he wants to divorce, but he doesn't know how to mention it, so he finds all kinds of faults, making you unbearable and leaving by yourself.