There are 3 major harms of scaring children, which may affect children for a lifetime, do you know w

A: I don't know, but I think children need to be cared for, not scared, which is not conducive to children's growth.

Scaring a child will leave a shadow in the heart, and this shadow will accompany the child from childhood to adulthood, and the child will be in fear. As well as scaring children, it can also lead to impaired emotional expression. It can cause children to be more timid and afraid to come into contact with people.

I think the first thing is that it will make the child become timid and afraid of life, and then it will hit the child's self-esteem, and finally it will affect the child's attitude towards doing things in the future!

I remember the experience of being beaten when I was a child, mainly because I went to the river to catch fish, but I was almost washed away by the river and was fished up, and I was beaten by my father

Clause. 1. There will be rebellion.

When a child makes a mistake, parents do not use persuasion and education to talk to him patiently, but use violence to solve it, which will cause a psychological shadow to the child, and he will have a rebellious psychology in his heart after a long time.

will reject the education of parents and be unwilling to communicate with parents, anyway, in exchange for a beating. Therefore, they will hide their hearts, and after a long time, they may hurt themselves when facing problems.

Some children will beat their heads hard when they can't solve a problem, but this is actually related to the way their parents usually educate them. What's more, children will inflict this violent tendency on others.

When problems arise again, they will not be solved peacefully, but by force, and even hurt others.

Clause. 2. Willing to please others.

Children who grow up under the scare of their parents are prone to be willing to look at other people's faces to please others, and they will follow what others say, and they will follow their own inner thoughts and speak carefully, and they will lower their posture.

Because of the fear that others will not like her, the fear of not playing with him, and the desire to please others everywhere, such children do not have their own independent character when they grow up, and they are easy to follow the crowd, and instinctively retreat backwards when they encounter difficulties, so it is difficult for them to succeed.

Third, the child will become timid.

Children who have lived in the scare of their parents for a long time will become very cowardly and timid, because when facing the parents of the **, they dare not show their hearts, and will only hide behind their backs and secretly observe the faces of their parents to please their parents.

When such a child grows up, he will also become unbrave to take on problems and responsibilities, evade and shirk responsibility, thinking that everything has nothing to do with him, because he has the impression that as long as he bears such a mistake, then he will accept a violent beating.

Clause. Fourth, children will lose trust in their parents.

If parents often carry out threats and intimidation education in the family, when the children are still young, they do not know that what the parents say is false and are all to scare them.

But when the children are older, they begin to have their own consciousness and judgment, they will know that their parents are cheating on themselves, then they will become more and more distrustful of their parents, and they will not want to say it to their parents when they are really in trouble and danger.