Parents scare their children at every turn, what are the disadvantages of this for their children s

Introduction: Many parents always like to scare their children when they usually tease their babies or educate their babies, which is actually very detrimental to their children's growth.

When doing things, he is submissive and does not dare to communicate with others. Usually do not have the courage to contact new things, which is very detrimental to the child's future growth, so parents must be careful not to scare the child at every turn.

For younger children, if parents often scare them, their neurodevelopment will be affected, which may cause the child to have mental retardation.

or mental retardation.

and other problems, so parents must not often scare their children when they usually tease their children. Parents can use some intimate ways to tease their children, such as kissing their children's cheeks or kissing their children's eyes, but they must not suddenly get close to their children and make them feel scared, which will not make them happy, but will affect their growth and development.

If parents often scare their children, it is easy to affect the child's personality, and some parents will scare their children verbally, such as a thing they are very afraid of, or use the person they are afraid of to scare them, then the child will be subconsciously afraid. Parents may find this funny, but in fact, it is not ridiculous for children, but it is very scary, and often scaring them with things they are afraid of, which will make them always very insecure in their emotions in tension and fear.

If parents often scare their children, it will also affect the way their children think and speak, in ordinary times parents always use the things that their children are afraid of to scare them, and children will be more conservative when they think about one thing, and they don't like to study new things, which is very detrimental to the growth and development of children, so parents must pay attention to giving their children more courage, rather than scaring their children more.

Parents scare their children at every turn, which will make them feel insecure and have no self-confidence, which is very undesirable. If a child has no self-confidence, he will feel that he can't do anything well, and he will not dare to actively ask questions in the classroom in the future.

It may affect the child's personality, causing the child to be sensitive and timid, affecting the child's brain way of thinking, making the brain inactive in the child's thinking, and may also affect the child's temper, causing the child to have a short temper.

It will make the child form a timid character, and it will also make the child fearful, which will cause the child's fear, and will also affect the child's mentality, which will have adverse consequences.

The child will develop extreme insecurity and distrust of the surroundings.

1. Children will lack a sense of security Children obey the requirements of their parents because of the intimidation of adults, and the parents have stopped, but they don't know that young children have limited ability to distinguish and take the intimidation of adults as a reality, and the young mind will be hurt, and the child will have an extreme sense of insecurity, distrust of the people around him, and even fear of certain things.

Yes, when I was a child, I also got the education of my parents, at that time it was mainly because I was naughty, I didn't study well, and I was back to the bottom of the exam, but this kind of education method of parents is harmful to the growth of children

Clause. 1. There will be rebellion.

When a child makes a mistake, parents do not use persuasion and education to talk to him patiently, but use violence to solve it, which will cause a psychological shadow to the child, and he will have a rebellious psychology in his heart after a long time.

will reject the education of parents and be unwilling to communicate with parents, anyway, in exchange for a beating. Therefore, they will hide their hearts, and over time, they will laugh when facing problems, and they may hurt themselves.

Some children will beat their heads hard when they can't solve a problem, but in fact, this is related to the way their parents usually educate them. What's more, children will inflict this violent tendency on others.

When problems arise again, they will not be solved peacefully, but will be faced by force, and even hurt others.

Clause. 2. Willing to please others.

Children who grow up under the scare of their parents are prone to be willing to look at other people's faces to please others, and they will follow what others say they are not sure of their inner thoughts, speak carefully, and they will lower their posture.

Because of the fear that others will not like her, the fear of not playing with him, and the desire to please others everywhere, such children do not have their own independent character when they grow up, and they are easy to follow the crowd, and instinctively retreat back when they encounter difficulties, so it is difficult for them to succeed.

Thirdly, the child will become very timid.

Children who have lived in the scare of their parents for a long time will become very cowardly and timid, because when facing the parents of **, they dare not show their hearts, and will only hide behind their backs and secretly observe the faces of their parents to please their parents.

When such a child grows up, he will also become unbrave to take on problems and responsibilities, evade and shirk responsibility, thinking that everything has nothing to do with him, because he has the impression that as long as he bears such a mistake, then he will accept a violent beating.

Clause. Fourth, children will lose trust in their parents.

If parents often carry out threats and intimidation education in the family, when the children are still young, they do not know that what the parents say is false and are all to scare them.

But when the children are older, they begin to have their own consciousness and judgment, they will know that their parents are cheating on themselves, then they will become more and more distrustful of their parents, and they will not want to say it to their parents when they are really in trouble and danger.

Parents are the most important role in a child's life and the most important teacher in the child's growth. Every word and deed and every action of parents will have a huge impact on their children, and parents who love to read will never cultivate children who love to play. Therefore, in order to educate children well, parents themselves should set a good example, so that children can see the qualities that parents are worth learning, and children will imitate them.

However, there are many parents who do not realize this in the process of educating their children, and will make some strange behaviors, and these actions will have a negative impact on the child, such as: making the child become very unconfident. When parents often exhibit these behaviors, it can make children become very unconfident, and even become timid and cowardly.

Clause. 1. Scare children often.

Some parents don't know how to reason with their children calmly when educating their children. When they want to teach their children the truth, they do so by scaring them, for example: when the child wants to reach out and touch the electric socket, the parents will not tell the child that this is a very dangerous thing, but will shout loudly, "The finger is chopped off for you!"

Let you mess around! Seeing the child tremble with fright, and quickly retract his little hand in fright, parents feel that their education has achieved its purpose.

However, if parents often tell their children the truth by "yelling" in this way, it will make the child become submissive when doing things, and even afraid of contact with other objects, and over time, the child will become very unconfident. Therefore, when parents educate their children, they must not scare them, scaring will only make the child timid, and they should tell the child gently and reasonably, which is more useful than scare.

Clause. Second, let the child feel that he can't do it.

When some parents talk to other parents, they will always "humbly" say that their children are not good, and they don't care whether their children are listening or not. For example, when the mother takes the child for a walk and meets an acquaintance, the acquaintance will definitely praise the child, "Oh, your child is so tall and has good academic performance, unlike my child." , The child will be very happy to hear such a compliment, but Bao's mother's next words poured a basin of cold water on the child: "**,**, my child is stupid, and it is difficult to learn something, or your child is smarter."

Parents are invited to put themselves in the child's shoes and think about it, will the child be happy when he hears his parents belittle him like this? If your child often hears those closest to him belittle him or her in front of outsiders, will he be able to gain confidence? Therefore, it is better to say less modest and polite words, especially when the child is present, otherwise it will affect the child's self-confidence.

I believe that many parents don't notice the two points mentioned above, but they will behave like this. If you don't want your child to become unconfident in the future, then ask parents to change these behaviors quickly, otherwise it will affect the healthy growth of the child!

For example, if parents often yell at their children, it will really cause serious damage to the child's heart, and will make the child become very introverted, especially inferior, and have no self-confidence.

Parents often scare their children, which will definitely affect their children, after all, there will be a shadow in their hearts, and he will feel timid when he grows up.

Cause children to be reluctant to communicate with others! Timid! Withdrawn personality!