How to fight back gracefully against those who detractor you

Really smart people know that there may be only one way to repay those who defame you - a smile is the most powerful counterattack. Embarrass others and "shame yourself" in front of you.

Xunzi wrote: "The flow of pills stops at Ou Xuan, and the rumors stop at the wise." "In the face of all kinds of slander, when you ignore it, it will naturally disappear.

Really smart people don't fail because of what others say. Gossip can't stand up to analysis, and if you ignore it, others will naturally think that it's not a "joke", they will feel "boring", and everything will "come to an abrupt end".

Really smart people don't care too much about others, but rely on themselves to become bigger and stronger. You must learn to underestimate those who "slander you", so that they feel ashamed of themselves, and all slander will be self-defeating.

Also, those who slander you have some obvious characteristics, pay attention to discernment, and know in your heart: they like to be duplicitous, they are very cunning, they like to deny, they have the performance of yang and yin, and there is often a cunning light in their eyes.

1.Retreat.

This rule is that no matter whether you are wrong or not, you should reduce your position to a position that cannot be lowered again, and then scold others, so that you can have a fair and bright attitude. If there is a mistake, admit the mistake first, and if it is right, you must be humble and self-deprecating, and the other party's face will be so bright that the other party will have nothing to hide. Otherwise, if you scold him for a sentence or two, he will ridicule each other on your personal matter, and a scolding will turn into a private quarrel between the two, and there is no way to judge the merits.

2.Calm attitude.

Fighting back is the most taboo impetuous. A word of disagreement, red tendons, irritable like thunder, this shrub scolding seat, shrew scolding the street, can not be called Ya. Those who fight back gracefully must be calm and act as if nothing had happened.

When you wait for him to get tired of scolding, you gently reply to him and let him roar again. When he is irritable, you might as well sneer at him a few times, ensure that you don't have to make any effort, make him angry to death, and scold him to the point.

3.The most elegant way to fight back is not to fight back.

Of course, scolding the enemy by a thousand and hurting oneself by eight hundred. No matter how elegant the counterattack posture is, it is still exhausting and emotional. When you have experienced a hundred battles, you may find that the most elegant counterattack is not to fight back.

Hello, this depends on how it is slandered, and it depends on the situation to decide how to fight back elegantly.

For example, if your classmates are fighting, and you don't dare to step forward, others will call you a coward. You can say that you have heavy hands and are afraid of breaking people.

The language of the response from others who denigrate themselves is as follows:

1.Don't pay too much attention to what others say about you behind your back, because those who are weaker than you will slander you. Denigration is a kind of admiration in itself.

2.Don't care about what others say about you. Slander is originally looking up.

3.Probably those who will slander you, either because of jealousy or envy, so don't care too much about the faces of those people, if they are not envious or jealous of you, who will pay attention to a person who doesn't like each other, and judge your life.

4.It takes at least two people for your enemies to slander you and your friends to tell you.

5.We can solve the problem skillfully and conveniently, and we must not be resentful of others' slander, which is at least a kind of protection for ourselves.

6.Would you be angry if someone slandered you behind your back and said a lot of bad things about you?

7.I think there is a saying that is particularly good: the person who slanders you is either a man who can't catch up with you, or a woman who is not as good as you", this is what we goose legs told me today.

8.Talking to you is really slandering my intelligence.

9.I don't hate you, and I won't slander you in front of people. But even if you say 10,000 words of sorry, I won't forgive you. Thank you for all the hurt you have done me, it has made me stronger.

10.Don't pay too much attention to what people say about you behind your back, because those who are stronger than you don't bother to mention you and slander you, which is a kind of person who looks up to you and slanders you, or a man who can't catch up with you.